First, the family conditions are not good and they are reluctant to spend.
People who come from hard times cherish everything, especially the hard-earned money, and always want to save it for big things, such as children getting married, buying a house and helping their grandchildren save money for college. At this time, their times and education level were limited.
If so, don't blame the old people for being stingy, but be more grateful to them. Moreover, if the money of the elderly is their own income and they have the power to dominate, how to spend it is up to them. Others don't discuss it. This is everyone's freedom.
Second, the family conditions are good, but they just don't want to spend money and love to save money.
Saving money is the preference of China people. People with traditional ideas are still willing to save money because they feel safe. Or when their professional income comes to an end, they will have a strong sense of crisis and only have a little money left in their hands to support the elderly. I have to say that there are so many "baiwenhang" now, the children who have worked hard to raise may not come back to support the elderly, and the elderly will only be practical if they have some money. This situation should also measure the elderly.
Third, the family conditions are good, but I don't want to send you flowers.
If the family conditions are good, the elderly continue to earn money by themselves, but they don't like spending money. This is a habit problem, but if they just don't like spending money on you, it may be your problem. Should we look for reasons from ourselves?
In any case, we shouldn't blame the old people. Everyone has his own behavior habits. There must be a reason why old people don't want to spend money. As the main force of society and family, shouldn't we be the first to spend money?