Warm-hearted inspirational journal
In this life, there is always a person, always with you, but you want to live with him very much. Next to provide you with a warm hearted inspirational journal, I hope you read it carefully, it will help you!
Warm-hearted inspirational journal (1)
Haruki Murakami in the "Norwegian Wood", mentioned the view of one-night stands: as a way to channel the lust is certainly cozy, but it is unpleasant to separate in the morning, ? Wake up to see a strange girl sleeping soundly beside me, a smell of alcohol in the room, bed lamps, curtains are lover's hotel is unique to the big red and green vulgar things? Then the girl woke up and ? Rustling around in her underwear, applying lipstick and gluing her eyelashes in the mirror while complaining of a headache and bad makeup? All of this creates feelings of self-loathing and disillusionment.? So? Sleeping with a girl you don't know is futile, and you'll only end up exhausted and self-loathing.
? These words are spoken by Watanabe, the hero of the book.
And the same Watanabe, in a close relationship with the heroine Naoko? slept with? after experiencing a ? an intimate and cozy mood that he has never felt before? , after Naoko disappears, he feels ? something lost in his heart and nothing to fill it, leaving a pure void to be abandoned and ignored, his body unusually light? Until eighteen years later, still? clinging desperately to the remnants of memories that have been blurred? As long as there is time, will always recall her face?
This is the difference between carnal love and spiritual love. The former is a fast food outlet, while the latter will be extended in the heart. The former ends in exhaustion and disillusionment, while the latter leaves a long-lasting aftertaste.
The good stuff, there should always be aftertaste.
In the past, people described good music as? The sound of the music, three days never stop? On the contrary, if there is any music, listen to the feeling of euphony, but listen to stay no aftertaste, and even make people tired, it is obviously not good enough.
The same goes for wine tasting. An important indicator of a good wine is the aftertaste. A long finish? is an essential feature of any good wine, and the better the wine, the more delicate, mellow and long the finish. The more excellent a wine is, the more subtle, round and long the finish. Long finish? The Westerners have also set a clear standard, similar to the one we have for music. Unlike our romanticized exaggeration of music that lasts for three days, Westerners have set a clear standard. This romanticism is exaggerated differently, serious Westerners believe that a mouthful of wine after drinking, the taste in the mouth if 10 seconds to disappear, this wine is not good, if it can last 20 to 30 seconds, it should be a good wine, if the aftertaste can reach 45 seconds or even more than a minute, it is awesome, it must be a bottle of high-quality wine of fine craftsmanship.
The food is even better. Chen Xiaoqing, director of "Tongue on the tip of China", said that good food is food that can comfort your soul, not? simple oral pleasure? Simply to satisfy the desire of the mouth and tongue is the lowest level of food. Real food, in the full mouth and stomach, but also should let the heart to get some kind of comfort, so that you are full of food, looking at the table full of cups and plates in disarray, not like a one-night stand in the morning after the end of the same, produce disgust and disillusionment. Good food is bound to have a lingering aftertaste that hurts when you eat it, and when your stomach is full, you can't get enough of it.
Even the process of making food is the same. Now people use gas cooking, always feel that there is no wood-fired pot burned out of the incense, a reason is that the gas off, the heat stopped, unlike firewood and coal, the fire went out, wood ash and coal ash is still hot, this slow heat, just can be baked out of the food hidden delicious. The microwave oven is even worse, once it stops turning, even the heat of the stove is not, so out of the food is more bland.
Don't underestimate the last bit of residual heat, things are often good or bad in this subtle difference, a little better on the good a lot, a little worse on the very far.
Back to feelings.
When in love, the boy sent the girl home after a sweet date, fondly separated, the boy walked away, the girl is still standing in place not to go, the heart is wrapped in thick love, softly swirling, the aftertaste of love, wonderful. Or, even if the breakup, the two also have a proper end, no fatigue, no embarrassment, no tearing face, to a number of years later, and then think of each other, the memory of the picture is still beautiful, the heart of the feeling is also pleasant, which is more valuable.
Teenagers said, life in the end is constantly put down, unfortunately, we are too late to say goodbye. Good-bye, in order to let the relationship finally left a good look, after the song, still make people can slowly recall. Otherwise, if a relationship ends in a bad way, then the beauty of the relationship will be greatly diminished.
? Life and movies are won or lost by the aftertaste.? That's what Japanese director Yasujiro Ozu said. Indeed. A movie, if you can not give people the feeling and reminiscence, even if the audience from the beginning to the end of the laugh or cry to the end, it is only a short vent, have seen also seen, can not remember, the box office again, can not be counted as a win.
Life is even more so. Good life may not be more scenery, more amazing, and not have to be a big storm or smooth sailing, but always have to live a little bit of their own meaning, to be unique to their own light blossomed out, so as to withstand the meticulous taste for a long time, the old with the grandchildren to talk about it, so that the children from the bottom of their hearts praised a sentence: Hey! I'm so proud of you! Even if you don't tell others, you can still have fun smacking your own lips. Not so much as sitting in a rocking chair in the sun, looking back on these sixty or seventy years, just feel boring.
The aftertaste is an important criterion for measuring the goodness of a thing. No matter what, if it is really good, it should be after having, after passing, after the end, there are still some good left, people lingering, long can not forget.
Unfortunately, there are fewer and fewer such good things now. People are in a hurry to eat, in a hurry to love, skimming the surface, impatient, no mind to savor the slow taste, this bite is not yet under the belly, the next bite has been waiting impatiently on the lips, pig eating ginseng fruit. Recklessness, not only do not have the heart to create a good thing worth savoring, even if the good light around, but also often be let down.
The most annoying thing about earthlings is that they like to push everything to the head of the time.
When I was a kid, I was ugly, and the adults would touch my head to comfort you. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new product. The work is tedious, the body is bloated, the stock market plummeted, and even in the face of the haze and death of these original and emotional not linked to the situation, we will always habitually say, it's okay, the time will let everything change for the better.
Although I don't know where this reasoning comes from, at least in the matter of interest, it really doesn't have much to do with age. In China since ancient times, the traditional concept of conventional, interest is the patent belonging to adolescence, so those endless interest classes, youth palace, business center posted special enrollment flyer, will be like the end of each month, the supermarket sale of soda, was a great coaxing. On the other hand, the square dance, but often suffered from the passers-by unfair eyes and contempt, are a lot of years old and still restless.
The same is playing the piano, children are multi-talented, adults are not doing their jobs.
The same is to play ball, children are exercise, adults are a waste of time.
The same is the chess game, the child is inspired thinking, adults are playing with objects.
So, in the space of increasing pressure of life, those who can still adhere to their own unique hobby? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do that. Not because of the fear of people's words and retreat, not because of the passage of time and pale, consistent, happy to wander in the edge of happiness, they are really lovely.
Pu master, is my former company boss's driver.
The thing about interest is that it really has nothing to do with age
But looking at his demeanor and temperament, the average person would never guess what his real occupation is. An old Beijinger, in his fifties, just promoted to ? The old Beijinger, in his fifties, has just moved up to the rank of "grandfather-to-be". ranks, walks always lofty, speak is also interesting smile Lin Lin, do not know the people, quasi thought he TV series that kind of boss company after retirement XX chairman. Because, on weekdays from his speech and demeanor, a little bit can not touch any middle-aged uncle greasy feeling.
He lives in a hutong in Dongcheng District, a very small square meter, often bad lighting in the house but never lack of greenery, the original wooden cabinet on the open small gap, Pu master intentionally strange like two wool balls inserted there, nothing to tease the cat to play.
One is called Tigress, and the other is called Dabai, both of which were stray cats picked up two years ago.
When I go to his house for dinner, I often hold the bold tigress in the backyard under the grapevine sun, spring, the sun is warm and soft, in that piece of green shade, just feel refreshed. Pu masters brought him to do the old Beijing fried noodles, that is called a strong aroma, peas, pork, ginger rice, sweet noodle sauce and secret spicy sauce after some careful processing, mixing into the noodles, taste and flavor blend, but also in the strands in the death of the fresh strength of different ingredients. I gave Chef Pu a thumbs up, and he threw me a childlike ? He gave me a childish look of approval.
Oh, I forgot to mention that in addition to being a good cook, Master Pu also has many lesser-known identities.
Hobbies have nothing to do with age
For example, tailoring.
When he was young, Master Pu was quite famous in the Dongcheng District, and although he didn't know his full name, his neighbors were able to point out to those who came to make clothes that he was the best tailor in Dongsi. He is best at doing pants, sharp hand, flexible pattern, wrist rotation, side pressure, with the finger pull up the spacing lightly traced on the fabric, a few scissors and a few needles back and forth on the prototype of the pants. Pu master said, do people and do the same pants, the most difficult is a tight fit fit not wrinkled, even if it is a millimeter difference, in walking will also be taut frame stifling, so that they are difficult, so that the bystanders look uncomfortable.
Earlier years of Pu master, is so serious and lively over.
Before he became a tailor, he was a singer and actor in an art troupe in Beijing, humming some songs that were not songs, and acting in some plays that were not very popular.
When he was in his early 20s, he was busy in the assembly line day in and day out in order to make money for his peers, and he was touring the country, and he was following the troupe to run around the country and shoot TV, and he was featured in many anti-Japanese movies in the early years. Many anti-Japanese movies in the early years have his figure. The shopkeeper with a mouthful of Peking opera, the silly son with a gray picture frame in mourning on the street, the undercover agent next to the Eight Roads, the secret agent who hides in the shadows to report the situation, those hidden in the sea of people, I don't know how many of them are the same person.
The most unforgettable scene, Pu master, he played six roles, each different, each subtle.
Although they were all characters that flashed in front of the camera, he still used all his efforts to interpret the different feelings.
The whole interest thing really has nothing to do with age
? So why didn't you stick with the show? I wondered.
Pu master laughed, said the understatement, ? Because of the injury, the physical conditions do not allow, so the tailor turned to do it?
That year, during the performance in Guangzhou, Master Pu gave an actor as a body double, shooting a few night fights. In those days, there were very few films that relied on special effects and post-production editing, and most of the fights were real. The young Pu master has a long and strong body frame, resting in the crowd is very conspicuous, and then send his trademark May sunny day Shu Lang smile, it is easy to be picked by the director. Although he knew that the last face presented on the screen is not him, but that fight scene, Pu master is a spell for all the love of acting, a person against a group of people, chaos, accidentally fell, accidentally hurt his legs and feet.
When he was sent to the hospital, he had a serious fracture.
After that, Master Pu went all the way north, hit the road back to Beijing, playing the banner of a nap at home for a full year and a half. So he opened a tailor store in his own home, concentrating on making pants, and sticking to his three main interests of singing, opera, and food making in his spare time.
Interests in this matter, really has nothing to do with age
When I sat in the courtyard, watching the film he has acted in the laugh upside down, from the time he shot the movie, has been nearly 30 years. In these 30 years, Master Pu has never given up his hobby, and still can always maintain the same intensity of enthusiasm. Even now is close to the age of old age, he can still insist on every weekend in the lotus market with a stereo singing humming opera, one side of the old friends sing loudly, while listening to the young people to tell some of the new wave of things.
In his spare time, he would change his pants for his neighbors, make authentic old Beijing snacks for his colleagues on New Year's Day, and perform for young people like me, how to stay in front of the camera during their performances without laughing at the exclusive tips.
Last year, I received a handmade doll from him for my birthday.
It was 100 times prettier than the ones in those gift house windows. To ping-pong balls for the head, with plastic bottles as the body, take a light and dark purple veil will be wrapped up in plastic bottles, sticky, sewing, in the coat above the sporadic crystal diamonds, stockings wrapped up the face of a round-faced girl's angular painting of the curved eyebrow almond eyes, it looks, lovely to the end.
I will be the doll's photo to the circle of friends, friends have jumped out to ask, where to buy, even so exquisite?
Listening to this, my heart was filled with pride. I'm so proud to have such an energetic and interesting uncle around me, and I call people to feel that the years can seem to be not a killing knife.
The people who are not interesting have never been interesting, and the people who are enthusiastic have never lost half of their enthusiasm.
The West has a saying, let life come to you. But the premise is that you have to have a container to hold different emotions, in order to carry the weight of life. The development process of anything can not rely solely on external forces volatile, than to rely on time, we should learn to remind themselves to exercise the right to be happy.
Warm hearted inspirational journal (3)When all around the cheering voice shouted, I can only listen to their own breathing, this moment only lonely themselves, can believe that I can, when we refueling voice shouted, just to be able to tell you, this moment there is a moment I'm with you, punch the top of the road is not lonely, running is not just for the sake of the first.
Choose to be true to yourself, how many roads can go up to the hillock, you have to open up with your own hands, running not only for the first, listen to the inner . Sound, every step in the proof of you, the significance of existence, when all around the cheering voice shouted, I can only listen to their own breathing, this moment only lonely themselves, can believe that I can, running not only for the first.
In order to create the magic, so that the world to applaud you, you have to thank yourself, running not only for the first, the opponent only yourself, when you try to take the first step, the champion has been you, running not only for the first?
Do people difficult, difficult to settle down, so big world, so small individual; big world, too many people, so many people and people are both interconnected and mutual exclusion, space and time, the road to the Moei.
Thousands of difficult, difficult is how to give yourself in this crowded world to find their own place, I gradually realized that, in fact, life needs very little, according to the inner voice to the world, often benefit a lot, it not only can satisfy your external needs, and even make up for a piece of the soul of the vacancy.
So in those days when I felt that everything was tied up in my desires, and all my thoughts were tied up in reality, I started to run, and instead of getting entangled, I just let go. A day, a year, or a lifetime to do only one thing well, nothing to do and nothing to do.
Running, put the vision far away, the goal of refinement, I found in the breath between the trade-offs, in the footsteps of the alternation of the sense of balance, every day only to enjoy the process of running, only to do a good job of this one thing, seriously, do it, do it according to your ability.
One step at a time, running forward, looking back, I found that although I only did this one thing this year, but it was very rewarding.
I became no longer complex, simple to act, I became a regular life, more able to enjoy the freedom of the mind, I became not stick to the minutiae, more able to cope with all the life and work, the original dream, the ideal does not need to be how lofty and great, the heart of the place to be in order to fit the most true self.
Only to do a good job, is the original rhythm of life, and then busy and tired days will be light, and then bitter and salty life is not worth mentioning.
Years of branding in our hearts is only good, because we were at a certain moment, only think of the thing at hand to do the best.
Because of external forces and have to give up something called the idea, not for other tired and unwilling to give up is the dream. The power of not being able to give up comes from within.
Don't waste your time. Do not greed the pleasure of the moment, young as much as possible to learn some culture, open eyes, broaden the mind, training wisdom, years a little longer to have in the life of the seam of the capital of the edge. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
People live in the world, understand a book or a thing, there is no need to panic, that is, there are setbacks, but also temporary. The social mechanism itself is bound to provide opportunities for those who are specialized and skilled. You have to believe in this, because the functioning of the society needs such people.
Running toward their dreams, ideals and forward, as long as you persist, although ultimately did not get success, but running forward when experienced something, will always be their own in the growth of a wealth.
Running not only for the first, more importantly, is to their dreams and little by little efforts, their own sense of success, is to transcend themselves, break through the self, play out their own potential, play out their own perseverance, play out their own talent, so that they sharpened into a sharp sword, in the road to be able to cut through the thorns and thorns, the long wind will sometimes break the waves, hanging straight from the clouds and sails to the sea.
Running is not just for the first, forward efforts, forward struggle, forward struggle, success will belong to us.
The snail does not believe in their own slow, one step at a time to their own goals to crawl, finally reached their destination, water droplets do not believe in their own fragility, day after day, year after year, one step at a time to hit the stone, finally made the miracle of the water droplets to penetrate the stone, the pupa does not believe in hard shell, one step at a time, every day a little bit of hard work, and finally get the In life, maybe you don't have a good start, but as long as you take one step at a time and work a little bit harder every day, you will finally get success.
The line of life is long, the road of life is long, looking back on the road of life, each will not be indelible deep footprints are recorded in your wind and rain, each can not forget the footprints are engraved with your deep memories, each can not be erased footsteps are engraved with a variety of your emotions?
Your happiness, happiness is light footprints, your sorrow, pain is messy footprints; your hatred, grief and anger is heavy footprints, it is because of such a one, a string, a piece of different footprints, your path of life is worthy of careful recollection, your path of life can always remember.
Because of the footprints of life, we can appreciate the greatness of the former and the present people's endeavors; because of the footprints of life, we can feel the former sweet and sour and now the bitter sweet; because of the footprints of life, we can associate the past with the great years and today's happy life.
The road to growth is also covered with footprints, we do not ask for each footprint is written down sweet and joy, but no regrets in each footprint; we do not ask for each footprint is left behind a happy and smile, but no shame in each footprint; we do not ask for each footprint is written down a good and painful, but no regrets in each footprint?
Take the first step in life, do not let the road of life is full of regret, guilt, regret; take every step in life, we can be in the future a watery night, open the floodgates of memory, carefully savored once the footprints, feel the previous wind and rain, there was a deep memory of all the emotions of the past, you will feel satisfied!
The journey of life has happiness, sadness, however, everyone has their own footprints, some people fake, not doing their jobs, wasting every day of good time, while some people step by step to do a solid thing, serious, full of life every day never waste.
Don't think about the rocks far below, but to focus on the first small step, take this small step and then take the next step, straight to the place where I want to arrive. Such a life will not have regrets, one step at a time and slowly, no matter how the result is to come one step at a time.
The road of life, very long, in this road will encounter a variety of setbacks, we must learn to face the setbacks, can not meet a little frustration on the loss of confidence in life, to learn to face will have success.
There are many difficulties in life, but no matter how many difficulties, as long as it is broken down into a small difficulty, one by one to overcome these small difficulties, the last you can definitely overcome the big difficulties.
Throughout the ages, great men and women have not always been excellent since birth, even if there is a talent factor exists, but also can not cover up their once struggle and pay.
The growth of plants and trees is a cycle, there is a process, there is not a grass after the ground can become mature in an instant, there is not a flower buds can become immediately after the delicate, and there is not a tree after the seedling can be turned into a tree in the twinkling of an eye? They all need to spend a certain amount of time to complete the accumulation of quantity. Only through the accumulation of quantity can lead to qualitative transformation. Do not want to become what can become what, to become a cactus in the boundless desert, must have the drought-resistant physique and perseverance character, to become a rock of the majestic mountain peaks, must be ready to withstand the ravages of the wind and rain, the hot sun baking preparation, to become a white cloud in the blue sky, must need to have the idea of accumulating more and more tolerant of the dust of the wind and style.
Step by step, step by step, step by step, down to earth, you will find that our people live a very full life, live very beautiful.
;