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Every day is the beginning of a new ambition, and you can enjoy the life of Tao quietly. Don't let your dreams become distant, and don't let the years become dull, because every day there will be a new call to draw waves in time.

Walking on the road every day, there is always a desire to be with you; Although I don't want to face the hardships I don't know, I can't take any chances. And love, like a dream left by blooming flowers, fills every corner and leaves a persistent heart. Open your heart, look at the time like water, but want to get drunk, there will always be stones falling slowly, leaving a struggle, a struggle, a self, a constant dispute, but it will leave a haze. After suffering, there will be anxiety and speculation. I don't want to remain indifferent every day, leaving joy on my stiff face and living a somewhat dull life.

The white clouds in the sky keep flying, but I feel that time is like water. Many chaotic pictures remain on my face. You can hear the sound of the waves, and you can see the waves whistling. Perhaps this is the ebb and flow of life and the promise of years. Spectacular and winding; There is lingering, which is constantly stretching; Know that life can't be like a dream, and there are beautiful ripples all the time; Those confusions, in the constant hesitation, left waves, so that the heart began to fluctuate. This is the romance of the years, the glory of the days, and the nostalgia and persistence in life.

I thought that after years of tempering, I could keep a lot of time in my heart. Tough heart, not pure, but deep; This is the experience of life and the romance of days. Time is turning, and every day seems so simple; Those hardships left regrets; Looking back, those years are lingering. Many things will become different as I grow up, and there will be new hopes every day. Time is walking slowly, with my footsteps, leaving behind the ambiguity in time, as well as the loneliness in those times. The slow flow is water waves.

Every day there will be different lingering, leaving a different experience every day. Many experiences have become fleeting, but those winds have left a slight chill and the sunshine has left a lot of warmth. This is life, this is life. Walk alone quietly, taste quietly, taste loneliness, taste these hesitations, taste melancholy and hesitation. The mood is constantly becoming fresh, and most of those things will stay for a moment. There can be no change in pace, because this is my life, leaving waves and beautiful brilliance.

The wind and cloud of life, there will be doubts, will continue to leave a kiss in my heart. I didn't leave all my hopes to me, because many ideas are infinite and can only stay at a certain moment in the past. This is not the rotation of memory, but the euphemism of days. Every day may be a new beginning, every day will leave a new footprint, and every day has new expectations. A lot of sadness, constantly wandering; But those sweetness will leave a gap, and then start to shake the whole soul, so that the soul is constantly concerned; Then I began to drive away the ridicule left by time and stood up to show my proud and confident smile.

Every day is a new beginning and you can enjoy it quietly. Don't let your dreams become distant, and don't let the years become dull, because every day there will be a new call to draw waves in time. Everyone will experience fatigue, everyone will experience fatigue, and everyone will leave tears. Time will make my efforts constantly swing; My persistence can see the quietness, loneliness and silence of the days in time; But we will also see new hopes and create new miracles. This is a new day, and it also has new beauty.

In my sleepy early morning, I heard my good wife get up early. After cleaning, she walked out of the house.

An hour later, I woke up and it was already dawn. As usual, I went straight to the fast food restaurant not far from the street after washing.

At this time, I saw the fast food stalls and fast food restaurants along the street crowded, and the diners at the table were packed. All kinds of fast food come from different places, so you really don't know which one is good. I felt a little hungry, so I walked into a fast food restaurant.

This is a fast food chain called Laotaimen Steamed Bag. Spaghetti is authentic and safe. After a big meal, I walked around slowly and went back to the store to start a busy day.

Busy, the morning passed quickly. In my busy schedule, I ate my lunch in a hurry. I didn't calm down until I was busy with business all day in the evening.

There are home-cooked dishes cooked by a good wife at the dinner table. I only feel a familiar smell. I took a closer look and found several bowls of Sophora japonica porridge in front of me. Suddenly feel surprised and have a aftertaste. ...

While eating delicious food, I learned that my good wife went to the abandoned tree early in the morning and climbed the branches to pick some fresh Sophora leaves. At that time, she was so happy that it was impossible for a willing heart.

In addition, Sophora japonica leaf porridge tastes bitter, astringent, fragrant, salty and salty ... There are soybeans and spring buds in the porridge, which is really refreshing and appetizing. It can be said that it is a hundred times stronger than any snack in a fast food restaurant.

Yes, there are many edible wild vegetables and leaves in the beautiful season, which makes people who have experienced it have to recall, reminisce and yearn. ...

After a hearty meal, I took a deep breath and got up and walked into the street.

This is Yushan Road in a county town. On both sides of the wide road are tall locust trees. Every year, locust trees are sprayed with pesticides to kill insects. Their long shapes are grotesque and crouching. It's a landscape in my hometown. Under the illumination of the light, the color is soft, the three-dimensional sense is strong and eye-catching. The fresh air always exudes the original taste, which goes straight to my heart, that is, the taste of Sophora leaves is fragrant!

After watching this movie, I suddenly feel that family is the most precious thing in the world, and I will cherish it if I can't get it. Just like the man with only money and limelight in his eyes, he wanted to build the tallest office building in the city in order to show off, so he spared no expense to delay his daughter's birthday. What happened? Accidentally fell from a tall building, half dead, but his soul miraculously possessed the pet cat he bought for his daughter.

Feelings are easy to get. A cat's ability is limited, but she is still desperate for her family, and her family loves her very much. He felt the concern of his family and knew that he didn't convey his love to his family in time, which would make his family feel that he only liked to show off. So be a nice cat and try to make your master happy.

In the end, fate gave him a perfect result, the failure of the usurper and his son's brave skydiving. Oh, he thought his son was going to jump off a building, so he jumped with him. He saved himself and left the cat's last life in the family who loved him.

The story is very touching and thought-provoking. If you neglect your family, you will also be ignored by your family.

We have learned how to make a living, how to improve our skills, and how to feel at home in the workplace, but we have not learned how to love someone. This is what Guo Yu, a philosophy teacher at Fudan University, said in the program "Life is really different". I deeply think so, because the ability to love not only has innate psychological factors, but also needs to study hard and grow in learning.

Some people say that I lost my ability to love after falling out of love. In fact, most people do not have the ability to love someone when they say this, because the ability to love someone will not disappear because of lovelorn love. Lovelorn is a kind of psychological trauma. If you can't learn to repair the wound, it will be difficult for you to stand up again and learn to love another person. Therefore, the ability to love others is that you learn to love yourself before you love others. If you have love in your heart, then you will bring good things to each other.

For people with broken families, this ability to love is even more lacking, because the ability to love actually contains many psychological factors, such as the ability to enhance self-esteem, the ability to differentiate and integrate themselves, and the ability to know themselves. On the one hand, the maturity of these psychological conditions is related to the parenting style, so it is difficult for children in such families to form an independent personality and express their love if their parents have a bad relationship. On the other hand, it is important that the relationship of parent-child attachment is three years old, which is the most important stage for a person to develop a safe attachment personality. If he is not sure about this stage, there will be problems in dealing with intimate relationships in the future.

There is a book called The Art of Love. Fromm pointed out that immature love means that I love you because I need you, and mature love means that I need you because I love you. Most people are in immature love, in order to compensate for childhood maternal love, so they get compensation from the other half. That's why Mr. Wu Zhihong said that people are looking for their mothers all their lives, but the other half can't love us unconditionally from beginning to end, so it's difficult to handle this intimate relationship. Just as banks only lend money to the rich, love only happens to those who don't lack love, and all compensated love is very tiring to maintain close relationship.

So if you want to learn how to love someone, you must cultivate a safe personality. That sense of security comes from the care of your mother when you were a child, from your independent personality and correct values. Therefore, a person who struggles for his own life value is rich in heart, and he has a strong sense of security to resist negative things in society. He can take the road he wants and stand proudly in the world. Therefore, on the premise of loving others, let yourself learn to love yourself, give yourself enough sense of security, and live as a light source at the same time, then you will bring people energy, so the best love should be the projection of energy. You can see light and warmth in him, and you are also bright and warm. At the same time, we can introspect, learn and grow, and jointly create each other's world.

I never seem to have a say in interpersonal communication.

As a typical impatient person, I easily break into a furious rage because of a little thing, and even say something irreparable because of my anger at that time, which hurts others' hearts.

Honestly, it's annoying. When I am calm enough, how much adrenaline is released when I am angry, and how much regret and self-loathing I will have at this time.

Emotions and sorrows are four kinds of self-emotions. No one can tell you not to get angry, just as no one can stop you from laughing your head off and out of breath.

But there are always times and occasions when you need restraint and even patience.

There is a particularly classic line in Modern Family that I regard as the truth: it is better to let go if you are upset.

There are no perfect people in the world, and I don't need to go into details about others. If there is a gentle person around me, he will always keep his good character, never get angry and worried, and I will not be better to him. On the contrary, I may feel very uneasy.

In fact, what I want to say is that no one will hate people who are angry about something unless they are really unreasonable and out of thin air.

More often, what everyone wants to see is just a person who has forgotten the past and lost his temper. It is not so much that people don't like angry people as that they don't like cold violence after quarreling.

There are always people who compare mirrors, such as "second time around". But we all know that life is not just a shallow mirror. Man's noumenon has the ability of self-thinking. Similarly, it has stronger self-repair ability.

People who hurt us really shouldn't be forgiven, but it's really wrong to quarrel or even say that they don't want to talk to each other if it's just a trivial matter or an unintentional move.

In this life, no matter how precious the time is, a lot of time has been wasted. It is unwise to lose yourself because of the cracks in the emotional world.

Nine times out of ten things in life are unpleasant. Or left out in the cold, or laughed at, or beaten, or bullied ..... At the right time, we always give some people and things a heavy blow to defend our dreams, dignity and personality ... After hitting back, we should learn to forget properly and not do ourselves a second harm.

People who are full of anger will feel tired even if there is nothing in their bodies. This kind of negative energy from the inside of the body can easily make a person's heart dark without any warmth. When you start trying to let go. That kind of physical and mental comfort will definitely make you find your long-lost self.

Clean and pure as a newborn baby.

People who like to worry about one thing will also make people around them very tired. They may not want to lose you, but your cold face always makes people afraid to get close.

If you have experienced a long life and look back, will you also laugh at yourself who was so awkward and inaccessible at a certain time? Will you also regret how you lost so many people you once valued "for no reason" and let them live and listen in your life in the next few decades?

We are all ordinary people, without superpowers, not Iron Man. Sometimes our thin bodies are really fragile and easily injured, just like you and me. But we can be different, have many like-minded friends, love your family and live a happy life.

People who are worried will always lose some small happiness, learn to let go, and even feel much more comfortable breathing. It's better to put it down than to hold it in your heart.

In a blink of an eye, in mid-May, the weather is getting hotter and hotter. Niu Er, who is lively and active, is always full of sweat, and his white and tender hands hold his hair like a chicken coop.

My wife took her to have her hair cut. I thought Niuer would make trouble for a while, but I didn't expect to get there. She was very good, actively cooperated with the hairdresser, changed her hairstyle and became a tomboy. When I came home from work at noon, she immediately ran out of my dad's room, showed me her new haircut and proudly twisted little ass in front of me.

I was just about to put on my slippers. When she saw them, she ran over and stopped me and said, "Dad, slippers are not easy to wear. Be careful! " "Her mother explained to her:" She was wearing newly bought slippers in the morning, and the shape of a duckling fell when she walked. She was afraid that you would fall. "At this moment, Niu Er saw that my finger was stained with red ink for correcting homework, and immediately grabbed my finger and screamed," Dad, it's bleeding, it's bleeding ... "Looking at her nervous and anxious face, I was greatly moved. It's really dad's sweet little cotton-padded jacket!

One day, grandma had high blood pressure and was tired, lying on the sofa to rest. When I came home from work, she ran out, put her finger to her mouth and whispered, "Shh, grandma has a headache, don't make any noise!" " "Such a small child knows care and consideration. She is really a clever and sensible child prodigy. You know she's only thirty months old!

On holidays, Niu Er always likes to pull my hand to the car and ask me to take her out to play on the slide. The slide in the community can no longer satisfy her. She will go to Qianhehu Park near her home to play the large one.

I pulled her pulley and dragged her all the way to the park. It's a pity that the big slide needs a rope ladder to get up, so her physical strength can't keep up and she can't climb it at all. She had to look at other little brothers and sisters with envious eyes, sliding down one by one, cheering for them and clapping her hands, happier than the people who played.

Seeing the black swan in the park pond, Niu Er called to them loudly: "Black swan, I'm coming!" " "When he left, he said loudly," Goodbye, Black Swan! " "Sometimes I blow kisses at them, regardless of other people's eyes.

Seeing a pile of panda toys on the lawn, she rushed over with a smile, and her simple laughter resounded through the sky. When I looked at her again, I actually held the panda's ears in my hands. She asked the pandas to sit in a row. I can't move the big one, so I have to help. The small one is in the front and the big one is in the back. One by one, I stood in the middle and made a victory shape. Let me film it and brag.

Before coming to the red-crowned crane, Niu Er hugged the red-crowned crane's neck excitedly, and then made an unexpected move. She kissed the red-crowned crane. I was moved by her innocent behavior, but unfortunately I couldn't film it and asked her to kiss me again, but I refused.

Seeing the electric dinosaur model wagging its head and tail, and hearing the squeal hiss, Niu Er wants me to hold it in the distance. Bold children surrounded the dinosaurs, touching their tails and claws. I wanted her to come down and get close to her, but she was too scared to come down and forced to put it down. Her feet shrink upward, but she just won't stand up. I took her by the hand and dared not touch it, so I had to take her away.

Compared with before, Niu Er is more lively now and follows you every day. What is this? What is that? She has to take part in everything and be the protagonist everywhere. As long as I hear your cell phone ringing, I will come to you soon. The most familiar sign is "Candy Bean Square Dance". Tap your little hand on the screen at will, and when you tap it, you laugh excitedly and dance to the beat of the music. This is just the beginning, and it is difficult to end. At ordinary times, her mother and I both turn off our phones by force and end up crying. Just like watching TV, I can't stop watching it. Sometimes I have to watch it until ten o'clock in the evening, so I have to end it forcibly and end it with her crying. It pains her to see her sobbing in her sleep, but she has to harden her heart for her healthy growth.

Thank you, Meng Wa Niu Er, for bringing us such a wonderful life!

The galloping train is heading for Zhaoqing, and the passengers in the carriage talk from time to time. I just sat quietly, looking at the rows of backward scenery outside the window and thinking a lot. The sky is blue and clear, and white clouds hang in front of my eyes. I can't help feeling: "How long has it been since I saw such a sky?"

I once again saw a picture in my memory: the millet was shining in the sun, and I was lying on the bench with a book in my arms. I'm not reading. I am looking at the white clouds floating in the sky. Beautiful and free. The weather is hot, but there is always a slight breeze blowing, which brings a little coolness to this summer.

At that time, the farm was very busy. I clearly remember that when my parents and I were busy in the field, sweat flowed down like beans, and the tip of grain cut our skin, which was itchy and painful. Therefore, even if sweat blurs my vision, I often forget to wipe it off. I just want to finish harvesting rice quickly and go home to have a good rest.

As the youngest child in my family, I will be arranged to stay at home and cook and dry millet most of the time. I am very happy, and I am loved even in those difficult days.

I should also be a sensible child. I will try my best to do my job at home. It's just that there are white pigeons next door, and those white guys often fly to steal our millet, so I have to hide in the shady corner and guard against their sneak attack at any time. ...

I began to miss those days. Although I am bitter and tired, I have no other thoughts. Looking at the sea of clouds in the sky, the years are long and intriguing. Now, I look at the blue sky and white clouds outside the window, but I think of the distance from Gu Cheng.

"You, look at me for a while, look at the clouds for a while. I think when you look at me, it is far away, and when you look at the clouds, it is very close. "

I had my own understanding of this poem when I was in high school. Standing with the person I like, I'm afraid I'm only a stone's throw away from him, but I feel a little far away. I was stunned by the sky. I didn't understand until he talked to someone else. There is far and near.

It's the same now. Colleagues around me can always talk to each other, and I just listen silently. I've never retreated to this point. Although I don't talk much, I can at least communicate with people normally. Why is this happening now?

The boss said I was shy and reserved, and I couldn't refute it. I really did it in front of them. They are elders, and other colleagues are married and have their own independent families. It is difficult for me to find a suitable topic in my daily communication with them. There may be a generation gap, but I think the main reason is that I am not sociable.

I have been entangled in this for several days, giving up or persisting, wandering. Later, Fang Jie and I talked about the confusion in my heart. She told me: "Try more when you are young, and then discuss whether it is suitable or not after you have really worked hard."

If you think too much, you will inevitably be impetuous and will spoil the broth. It's better to calm down and do things well and see how it ends. I naturally can't go back to my carefree childhood, and the scenery has been given more definitions by myself. Only the white clouds in the sky are still so light and free and fascinating. If you can't match, you might as well choose one, don't worry.