It is not good to educate him to be kind, honest and brave from an early age. It is estimated that when she leaves your shelter, her view of the world may be completely different, which makes him confused, or a group of people simply hate the world and choose to close themselves up. The gap between reality and ideals has created many otaku and otaku.
It's not good to teach him evil from an early age. For example, you have to fight for what you like, even if you want it, go to tou, go to qiang and get it by hook or by crook. After all, this society has its own set of rules in any case, and it is impossible to push it to another abyss.
You can also choose to stock, like most of our generation, follow the laws of nature, have more children, and let nature take its course. Just like dubo, one of them will become useful, and one of them will earn money if it becomes useful. This logic has been criticized miserably by the traditional concept of caring only for the elderly and completely ignoring others. It is estimated that few people dare to take the world by storm. Even if he does not have this idea of caring for the elderly for himself, he will be condemned by the outside world and forced to give up.
I think the best way is to teach children to distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil, and also to let him see the essence of social existence, and to teach him as much as possible the foundation that he can live in the world, that is, a craft that can settle down. However, most of the time, parents now hope that education will change their children's fate, but now it seems that the lag of education can no longer complete this mission, and there is only one champion, and most of them are only accompanying children.
I had the privilege of contacting several southerners and chatting with them about this topic. They said that the southern side did not attach great importance to education. If they were particularly excellent, they would choose to go to school. Those with average academic achievements would choose to drop out of school when they were teenagers, and then go to the sea, such as Shaxian Snacks, Putian Hospital and Yiwu Small Commodity Wholesale Market. As long as there are places with business in the country, there are southerners, but more things for their children to experience in practice. Many parents are willing to give their children money to practice in shopping malls, and they are not willing to invest too much in education. On the contrary, the inland and the north are different. Their education for their children is simply a heavy investment. Since kindergarten, it has been a variety of interest classes and training courses. The operation is fierce, and the real feelings of children have not been considered at all, and many children in universities do not have much restraint and self-control. So I didn't learn any useful skills in the most critical universities. Good ones can be mixed with diplomas, and some of them can't even get diplomas. Parents think how their children go to college. In fact, students know best that they have just enjoyed a few years of retired life in the name of going to school [smile], so what should have been done in universities will have to be re-adapted to society! This is the origin of adventureland's statement, which is also why so many highly educated people choose to send takeout, engage in intermediary occupations, sales, etc ... The reason for low-end jobs (here, it is practical, not allowed to refute, after all, I have also been in college) has not met the expectations of parents, which is still good, and some people simply choose to eat the old. After all, some parents have earned a lot of money in previous years, so it doesn't matter if they supply it, and it is affected by the economic environment.
I'm a determined person. I have finished college in the form of part-time work and part-study. I didn't leave any subjects behind, and I successfully got my diploma. What I learned was basically gained after I graduated from college and took part in work practice. Because of my career path planning and the decline of the industry, I have completed half of my path now, and half of my path has been put on hold temporarily, but this is temporary. As long as the environment has not changed greatly, I will stick to it.
When I saw my brother, a junior after 00, with a blank face and knowing nothing, I had to reflect on whether it was a good thing or a bad thing to encourage my parents to let my brother go to school well. When I have been in the workplace for many years, reading really can't prove or change anything, but it just gives you one more choice, which has nothing to do with getting ahead. A rational view of education is a problem that must be paid attention to in the current education. To avoid falling into the anxiety created by others, accepting the ordinary is not necessarily a better choice in life. To the extreme, it is just survival and reproduction. As for the rest, it is all luck, which is beyond human reach.