Usually, most married men are secretly eating "dessert", but will not be stupid enough to "dessert" to pay the "meal" price. If not forced to do so, generally will not be easy to divorce and remarry. A network survey shows that the proportion of men who think they will divorce after cheating is only 11.1%. I am a man, and occasionally outside the cheating a fish, enjoy the "dessert", but will not brain water, easy to correct the "dessert" lover, and divorce with his wife. Although I'm such a man, in the eyes of women a little shameless, I'm sure that most men are so shameless, just do not say it on the mouth. So, men like to eat "dessert" why also "meal"? First, the man thinks, since the marriage and children, should give the child a complete home, should not be easy to say divorce. But as the child grows, independent, the crisis is likely to increase. Hope that gradually become a "yellow face" wife, should take advantage of the buffer period of men do not want to divorce, enrich themselves, as soon as possible to make up for the problems in the marriage, bolster the heart of men. Second, the man thinks, the economic cost of divorce is too high, it is not worth it. Divorced once, and then married again how much money is needed? In general, after the divorce, the wife will share away half of the property, but also to pay the ex-wife, child support, alimony. Even if a man has the intention to leave, but the cost is too high divorce, men still feel that the status quo is good. Therefore, some women do not support the man to make too much money, hope that he will always mix in the current class, this idea is true, but not the most reliable way. If you raise the cost of his divorce as much as possible, so that he feels that a divorce will hurt, then the man will not move the idea of divorce. Third, men believe that divorce has too great an impact on their careers, and without their careers, they have nothing. Some couples are originally business partners, if the split, the cause is gone, that is, they destroy themselves. Some men are on the upswing of their careers and want to be promoted, and he will never be caught out of line. Such men, they are not divorced because of their career, but also just a temporary balance, wait until the time has changed, such as his career stabilized, or he simply does not care about the cause, then the possibility of divorce will absolutely increase. Fourth, the man thinks, once *** over the suffering, mutual help, can not do ungrateful Chen Shimei. Perhaps just married, the man is still a poor boy with nothing, and the wife's family conditions are very good, her parents are against dating, she insisted on being with herself, but also by the father with a belt to beat was kicked out of the house. After the marriage, his wife suffered a lot with himself, suffered a lot of crime. If they are now developed, they forget the wife who once went through the storm, **** the suffering, it is definitely a modern Chen Shimei. Therefore, sometimes they play outside, just to taste the freshness, absolutely because of the affair and divorce with his wife. This kind of man, despite the fact that there is no longer love, but there is still gratitude and kindness. If a woman feels that she wants love and dignity, then she can consider leaving.