First, it affects study and life.

Some middle school students mistakenly think that "as long as two people are like-minded, they will not affect their study" or "promote each other's study". However, from a medical point of view, it is almost impossible for people who are puppy love to focus on love. Their emotions are restrained from each other, and their physical and mental immaturity will not affect their study. The reason why many parents and teachers can find their children's puppy love often begins with the decline of their academic performance.

Second, puppy love is easy to get hurt.

Teenagers are unstable, prone to contradictions, immaturity, fragility, poor tolerance and emotional twists and turns in love. Some teenagers doubt life because of the frustration of puppy love, which casts a shadow on their emotional life and even affects their future marriage life.

Third, puppy love is prone to sexual negligence.

Teenagers' sexual consciousness germinates, and they are easily excited, regardless of the consequences of their actions because of temporary interest. And after deviant behavior, you will feel embarrassed and afraid. All these will have an impact on later life. Some people's sense of inferiority and frustration will even seriously affect their later life. In a sex crime survey, 50. 1% male offenders and 7 1. 9% of female offenders are between the ages of 15 and 19.

Fourth, puppy love is extremely difficult to succeed.

Too many factors such as school planning, further education, transfer and work make puppy love blind and immature, and it is extremely difficult for parents to succeed. Social psychologists in the United States have studied that men who get married before the age of 23 have the highest divorce rate.

Summary:

With the increase of age, the contact between students of the opposite sex is decreasing, which is a normal phenomenon. Friendship between students of the opposite sex is very valuable. This kind of friendship not only helps boys and girls learn from each other and make progress together, but also helps middle school students to learn the ability to get along with the opposite sex and establish good interpersonal relationships, which is extremely beneficial to the healthy development of boys and girls.

Although the friendship between the opposite sex is the basic element of love and the premise of love, as long as the friendship between the opposite sex is controlled to a certain extent and scope, and the "moderation" is well grasped, this friendship cannot be called love between men and women.