In the final analysis, the fundamental reason why this kind of thing happens frequently is that people have a strong sense of self-interest, and everything is based on self-feeling. In addition, their attitude towards feelings is becoming more and more casual, and they regard betrayal as a sign of betrayal. Something innocuous. Although such behavior is beautified and sublimated with "love", it still cannot conceal its dirty and selfish nature.

1. Instant love, the foundation of the relationship between lovers is unstable.

Nowadays, people are accustomed to instant love, because of the so-called "love at first sight", they can form a partnership with someone they have known for less than a week. A man is after a woman's beauty, and a woman is after a man's money. The purpose between them is not pure, so how can we talk about true love? After the initial passion, it is easy to find that each other's three views do not match each other, and the other party is full of shortcomings. At this time, if another good person of the opposite sex appears next to a man, even if it is a girl's best friend, it will be easy for him to fall in love with him.

2. Plastic sisters, the jealousy and comparison between women is strong.

Nowadays, the friendship between women is just plastic. When they are strong, they are good sisters whose love is stronger than gold. But if the other person has a better life than themselves and finds a good boyfriend, the girl will It is inevitable to have jealousy and comparison. I hope you live a good life, but you must not be better than me. With this kind of thinking, she will easily attack her best friend's boyfriend, slander girls intentionally or unintentionally, and seduce boys in a subtle way. You think your best friend is a sister, but in fact she is a vixen harboring evil intentions.

3. Domestic flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers, and a daughter-in-law will always be someone else’s.

In the eyes of men, getting along with a girl for a long time will magnify her shortcomings infinitely, while often turning a blind eye to her advantages. When your best friend gets along with you, she will show her own advantages, while your boyfriend will unconsciously compare and judge. In fact, he only saw the surface of his best friend. When the two of them really interacted in depth, he saw his best friend's shortcomings and his liking for her would definitely decrease.

In short, to prevent fire, theft, and besties, no matter how good your relationship with your bestie is, you still have to be more cautious. Of course, you should keep your eyes open when choosing a man, carefully examine the other person's character, and don't start a relationship haphazardly.