Let me answer your question first based on the theory of the Five Elements and Eight Characters:

1. Born on the wrong day of the year

The ancients had a certain understanding of the wrong day. This kind of description: "When a woman meets her, her father-in-law and aunt will be widowed, and her sisters-in-law will not be enough, and her husband's family will be cold and withdrawn. When a man meets her, the master will withdraw from his wife's family, and he will also be in conflict with his wife's family. It does not matter whether he is a man or a woman, the month, the day, or the day. When the double or triple crime is extremely serious, the person who commits the crime will not be able to help his wife, and even his wife's wealth will be wasted. After a long time, he will still be enemies with his wife's family, and they will not have any contact with each other due to filial piety. The two ancestors may get married, otherwise the wife must be suppressed, or the residual house will be used as a son-in-law. If the yin and yang are different, it will not be romantic, and the wedding ceremony will not be free. It is not a poor marriage because of filial piety, but the residual house will be used to live in the feud between the two families." This shows the yin difference. Yang errors are extremely detrimental to marriage. ?

2. People born on the Sheep Blade day

The reason why people born on the Sheep Blade day have trouble in marriage and love is due to the characteristics of the Sheep Blade. The ancients said: "Sheep means strong; the blade means slaughtering. If the blade is too close, the blade will be born. If the success is not retreated, then the blade will be overstepped. Just like a sheep, if there is a blade, there will be a wound." The Sheep Blade is originally a special star of punishment, and the characteristics of this star are strong, violent, exciting, impetuous, etc., which runs counter to the harmony of yin and yang of the couple, so it is also extremely unfavorable for marriage and love.

3. Born on Kuigang day

Because people born on Kuigang day are upright and irritable, hate evil as much as enemies, and are not tolerant, so they are not suitable for couples and are extremely unfavorable for marriage and love.

4. Born on the Guchen and Wusu day

How to check Guchen and Wusu: Based on the year branch, the other earthly branches of the four pillars are considered correct. For example, if a person is born in the Si year, Jian Shen is Gu Chen, and Jian Chen is Widow. If the day branch meets, it is called Gu Chen day or Widow day.

The ancients said: "If a man is destined to be alone, it will be difficult to get married in his life; if a woman is destined to be widowed, she will not be able to grow old together after repeated marriages. A male orphan is destined to be a stranger in a foreign land, and a widowed female is destined to be a wife from another province."

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5. Born on the four waste days

The four waste days refer to: in autumn, people born on Jiayin and Yimao; in winter, people born on Bingwu and Dingsi; In spring, people born in spring meet Gengshen and Xinyou; in summer, people born in summer meet Renzi and Guihai. In fact, among the four bad days, there are also days that are unfavorable for marriage and love, such as "parallel days" and "unfavorable days". ?

Of course, this is just a superstitious statement. As contemporary young people, it is natural to believe in scientific theories. The most authoritative one so far is the "Oak Marriage Quality Assessment" by the University of Minnesota in the United States

His test has more than 100 questions, ranging from sexual life between couples, personality compatibility, financial management, sharing and communication, conflict resolution methods, marriage expectations, leisure activities, family and friend relationships, role equality, religious beliefs It analyzes couples in 11 aspects such as education, children's education, etc., and deeply analyzes the scientific reasons for your marital unhappiness. It also provides couples with suggestions for improvement, thereby improving the quality of marriage and reducing the risk of divorce.