From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most of the girls will not take the initiative to pursue their favorite boys, except really like it too much or the kind of brave girls who have more personality. So, if you like a girl, and think she is also a little mean to you, then take the initiative, don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, their own hard, maybe you like the person is also painful.
Any girl who is being chased by someone, the psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but with a little trepidation, she has the ambivalence of wanting to reject and welcome the boy who broke into her peaceful life, she did not mean it. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, and she's afraid of getting hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her resentment, you don't take the initiative, she doesn't take the initiative, but also slowly fade down. If you start the confession was her refusal, that is also very normal ah. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking in her heart?
Perhaps you then confessed twice, she will be impressed by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move.
If you get a setback, you immediately leave, never answer the girl, protect yourself tightly, quietly licking wounds, in your pain at the same time, unaware that the girl may also be in the heart of regret, regret it! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret refused you, and then see your indifferent eyes, she is also very painful, but she will not say to you, definitely not request you to come back to chase her. Your excessive pride may hurt the girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you are not sincere like him, or how would it just give up on her?
Some people say that boys are really hard, it's too hard to chase girls. However, my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women, from the physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If the other way around, let the men all pulse shyness, women become courageous, the world is a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful, moving ah ~ I have always heard of a brave man overcame how many difficulties, and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. The opposite example is very rare.
Some boys, they are afraid of what others say they are stalkers, fall into a bad reputation. But I think the boys pursuit of their favorite girls, a little frustrated still continue to this girl good, that people really like, very sincere, if not successful, but also not sorry, and nothing ah? Who let people like it? I hate it when people follow the blindly involved, but also hate the kind of their own no idea, too much care about what others think of their own boys, deserve this kind of boys can not find a girlfriend.
It is a man who is brave, the girl was emotional, easy to immerse in love. Although you pay hard, and once your heart impressed her, then you will get more and more long doubled love. Such examples abound around. Girls are very gentle and sweet to their boyfriends, in exchange for this sweet, the beginning of the hard work is nothing ah? And most of the good girls love quite devoted quite dedicated.
So, it is recommended that some boys be brave, to pursue their favorite girls, do not be so timid, one is to let people think that you have no manhood, two is your own strange hard, but the most important thing is: the last you can not get anything. The most important thing is that you will not be able to get anything out of it!
To add, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is to be your own sincere favorite, girls are often passive, passive can only choose to accept and reject, so I'd rather take the initiative, love what I love, no regrets!
- Life is beautiful, happy in which to learn to find!
First, what kind of first impression should be given to MM (time: just started contact with MM)
1, I think the most critical, is to let MM see your motivation.
The greatest charm of the man is the success of the cause, young people do not work long enough to talk about "success", this time you have to let the MM think you are a person with a sense of progress.
Other nonsense, but this issue can not be ambiguous, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, to appear confident and responsible
Do not be like a child, girls are lazy hope to find a dependency, you have to come up with their own confidence and responsibility.
It is better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
3, don't be too serious, but don't be too casual
The serious place is serious, the time to flirt with flirting.
Girls like a little cynical men, so don't seem to care about anything in particular, that's too dull.
4, look a little mature
The calm, calm and unhurried man on the MM has a fatal attraction.
Second, how to start further contact with MM (time: the beginning of the chase stage)
1, this stage is the most critical is not in a hurry, do not make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are in pursuit of people.
Think about it, the average person will not glance at you, but also will not look at a glance hate you, are the children of the people's home (unless you look like Chow Yun-Fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), the good sense is needed to increase with the understanding of the realization, so the key to the problem is that you have to get the opportunity to further develop.
Standing in the girl's point of view for others to think about: you are so direct rushed over to the object, the girl must have psychological pressure. This is if the contact after a while found that you do not like you, that is not a trick you? So if you start to put out the posture of ambition, basically will be immediately smothered back.
2, to start a low profile
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as "friends", originally "ordinary friends", you want to become "good friends", there is a "good friend".
First of all, the relationship should be positioned as a "friend", originally a "common friend", you want to become a "good friend", there is a taste of the other side can also be asked to become a "confidant" or something, in short, do not say that "chase you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chase" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - you didn't chase her how to reject you!
This can reduce the psychological pressure on the girl, so that you can smooth the relationship. Do not fantasize about knowing three days to agree to marry you, to fully interact, understand, feelings are not produced out of thin air.
3, do not be too impatient in the process of dating
To have tension and relaxation, do not pester people all day long, who is like this to you, you will be tired. I have a good friend said to me, the key to chasing girls is the eight words - "cold and hot, want to capture," (which is the crystallization of my classmates how many years of hard work).
You all day long pestering people naturally do not think you good, you appropriate cold a day or two, the girl will remember you in the benefits.
And don't come up with "non-marriage" ambition, too bad, sometimes you can play some tricks.
4, to create the appropriate opportunity
As I said before, do not make things immediately become "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get close to the girl's opportunity, this time it depends on your creativity.
You can gather information and find a way to turn a wait-and-see into an encounter, or you can play it safe and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.
All in all, this is the most technical place, really can not find seniors to ask for advice.
5, cut the taboo cut the taboo: casually send people gifts is not polite
Some people chase girls eager, like to often buy things to send people, do not know that chasing girls most taboo this.
As the saying goes, "you don't get paid for what you don't get", you send people things like this to put pressure on them, and they will feel indebted to you, so they will find a way to give it back to you, and if they don't have the means to give it back to you, they will find a way to not socialize with you, so as not to always owe you favors.
If you want to show your sincerity, you may want to ask the girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or find expensive places to play together or something, the girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but the money is ultimately the two people to spend together rather than become something to take home.
Third, "girlfriend" in the end what?
1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise
You and the girl began to socialize, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends", and then to "very very good friends". The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of the situation, and then go to the "very, very good, talkative friends", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her hand; "the moon on the top of the willow head", you suddenly attacked and kissed her. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on the right person, and then kiss her. This is when she is already your girlfriend, whether she recognizes it or not, she mentally already thinks you are his boyfriend.
I know the most brilliant, until the bed did not ask "whether you are willing to do my girlfriend", and finally the girl was anxious: "How do you not ask me to do your girlfriend ah!
So, don't be in a hurry to break the windowpaper, the more hazy the situation is, the more favorable it is for you.
2. What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually a form, the correct order should be: in fact, has become your girlfriend, you can confess to others, the water to the canal. A lot of people don't understand this problem, always think that people first promised to do their girlfriend, and then how how, I can only say very very "simple", and very very "stupid".
3. Is there a time when you have to confess?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or you and the girl relationship is not mature, but the two may be separated for a period of time.
This time the confession is immature conditions confession, the risk is very big, similar to the game of chess when the situation is serious, the backward party forced to put out the "winners and losers", won the win, lost can only say "bad luck are born".
This is the first time I've ever seen a game in which I've had a chance to play.
4, "love" word do not easily export
Often see forums appear "bold confession", honestly I really think this is very immature a performance. "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes and boots.
The man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love, can not be forced
1, not every MM can be chased to the hand
A good girl will always have a lot of people to chase, it is not possible to try everyone's wish, there will always be losers. For example, even if you have studied hard to master the most super MM principle, you can't catch up with any of the TWINS.
Considering the issue from a different perspective, an elementary school did not graduate from the rural areas of the small nanny, even if you are good, every month to earn 600 to buy you 700 gifts (overdraft), willing to do for you "cattle as a horse", you will not fall in love with her. If she's crying every day, you're going to get sick and tired of her.
So love needs a material basis, or at least a balance.
2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity
Don't ever get annoyed with people, give yourself a way out. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. Some MM is really snobbish (a few), if you are not convinced, you can be angry, with the facts to prove that "she was blind", absolutely do not mislead people wrong.
Finally, add two points:
① Do not look cynical in front of the MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".
② Read the post must reply to the post, otherwise no girl will like you drop ~ ~
Please adopt.
The first thing you need to do is to ask a girl to tell you that you like her
In the form of a conversation.
You: I've always treated you as my best friend, there's something in my heart that no one has said, and I want to talk to you about it.
She must be: you say it
You: I have a crush on someone
She: 1. what's it to me 2. who is it? 3. Then go talk to him ah
You: but I like the person, you also know ah?
She: who?
You: Say her name
And then play a few lines by yourself, saying that you like you for a long time or something!
If she has a feeling for you, it's almost as if you've succeeded in hinting at it, and then reflecting it from real life.
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I also think that so familiar with the need to imply, and you touch her head she smiled at you that you do not resent, maybe she is waiting for your confession, go to the last diaphragm to open it, not in the university can be very easy ...
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I also think that so familiar with the need to imply, and you touched her head she smiled at you that you do not resent, perhaps she is waiting for you to confess.
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Text her.
Be nice to her, take the initiative to talk to her, look at her with focus and affection! Give her gifts, look her in the eye!
Always care about her. The first thing you need to do is to do what you like to do. I'm not going to be able to do that, but I'm going to be able to do it," he said.
Surround her and say you love her. Make her a special place in your heart and let her know that you love her and that you like her.
If you really love her, say it to her yourself, or you will regret it! Don't fall behind others, the girl is unlikely to say love to you first!
I hope to help you, hope to adopt.
Gently gripping the handle of the gun, the feeling of touching the hand is as familiar as that of an old friend reunited