Boys are very simple creatures. Boys can't hide their love for someone. If they really like you, they will be devoted to you. Some things can't be faked. Boys who like you always take you as their priority.
What does it look like for a man to move his true feelings?
1. Kiss her often when she is not looking
Some people say, "The most sultry kiss in the world should be two of a kind's lips touching, which makes people feel emotional but not erotic." Kissing is a sacred and romantic thing. If you don't really love someone, you won't kiss them at will. Kissing between lovers is very precious. Both men and women want to kiss the people they love and leave their kisses to the people they love the most. Miriam Yeung sang in the song "The First Kiss": "If you are careful, you will turn all beings upside down, and a kiss will save a person; A kiss steals a heart, a kiss kills a person, and an inch of kiss is worth an inch of gold ... "When you fall in love with someone, you have a city in your heart, and there can only be one person living in this city, and your heart can no longer accommodate other shadows. When a man really falls in love with someone, he will always give her a deep kiss when she is not paying attention, until the seas run dry and the rocks crumble.
2. Hold her hand when crossing the street, even if there is a quarrel.
I saw this passage on the Internet: "Holding hands when crossing the street without hesitation is the best gentleness you have given me in public for so many years." What is happiness? Happiness is when I can cross the road by myself, but you still insist on holding my hand. Even if the quarrel is fierce, you don't trust me to cross the road by myself. A man who loves you will not only hold your hand when crossing the road, but also always put you in a safer position than him. For example, he is in front of you when crossing the road, and he is behind you when crossing the road ... Sometimes, men's love is very simple and pure. They don't think so much about winding around, fall in love with someone, and just want to protect each other in their palms and give her the best. He loves you, so he is willing to put your hand in his palm and hold it tightly. No matter what happens, his greatest happiness is to be able to walk hand in hand with you through the happy places in the world, watch the flowers bloom and fall, and enjoy the clouds rolling and relaxing.
3. Watch her favorite TV series and accompany her to move
To love someone is to accompany her to do what she likes, find her favorite food with her and feel the temptation of delicious food; Watch her favorite TV series with her, laugh with her, cry with her, and be moved with her. Love needs company. After two people are together, you still let her do everything alone. What's the point of falling in love with you? Sometimes a woman's request is very simple, as long as you are willing to spend more time with her, give her a shoulder to lean on when you are sad, and cheer with her when you are happy, she will be very satisfied. When a man really falls in love with someone, he won't let her be wronged, and he won't let her stay at home, eat alone and watch TV alone ... Even if he is busy, he will take time out to have dinner with you, or sit on the sofa with you and watch your favorite TV series, and accompany you to be moved by the unswerving love of the hero and heroine.
4. Accompany her to buy food and bargain. She cooks and you make soup.
Writer San Mao said, "Love will not last forever if it is not implemented in the real life of dressing, eating, counting money and sleeping. "The best love, there is not so much" feeling and drinking enough ",but the real daily necessities, she is responsible for picking vegetables, and you are responsible for bargaining; She is responsible for washing my hands to make the bridal soup, and you are responsible for choosing vegetables and washing dishes; She is responsible for cooking, and you are responsible for the leftovers ... When a man has a real feeling for a person, he will be willing to change his previous living habits for her. Even if I hate the noise and mess of the vegetable market, I am willing to accompany her to buy food and bargain; Even if the fingers have never touched the water of spring, they will cook and make a bowl of soup for her. Isn't that what loving someone should be like? I am willing to change myself for her, learn to buy food, learn to cook, and make delicious food full of love for her every day.
5. Carry her in public or stop to hug her
Some people say that if you really like someone, you want to hug her when you see her, and you want to hold her in your arms, give her the best tenderness and shelter her from the wind and rain. Love always makes people extraordinarily brave. What I used to feel embarrassed or afraid to do is now done naturally without thinking about it. I used to be embarrassed to be hugged or hugged by her in public, but now I don't even blush when I kiss. Women are often more sensitive and sentimental than men, and they are more likely to feel weak when they encounter things. At this time, men need to give women more consideration, care and hug to make her feel safe. Love is never an easy thing. If you want to keep it fresh for a long time, you must constantly inject energy into it. Especially for men, it is best to give her a surprise from time to time, which can be a bunch of flowers, a gift, or a sweet hug.
6. Never leave her alone. Make her safe no matter what.
In the movie "Don't ask about things", Chen Peng said to Wang Minjia, "Don't be afraid, I am the one who will give you the bottom. I will fall with you. No matter how deep you fall, I will give you the bottom support. I'm not afraid of anything. I'm afraid you'll push me away when you fall and don't want me to hold it for you. " Isn't really loving someone like Chen Peng? When she is hungry, prepare a hearty meal for her; Give her a warm hug when she is cold; When she wants to cry, give her a shoulder to lean on; When she was hurt, she stood up and said, "Don't be afraid, I'm here for everything" ... When a man moves his true feelings, no matter what happens, he will never leave her alone, even if he knows that it is a moth to the fire, he is still willing to give up all his flesh and blood to cut through thorns for her and protect her life. Because I love her, I think of her all the time, willing to be her strong backing, wanting to stay with her all my life, helping her when she is weak and holding her hand all the time.
These performances are not just for fun.
First, always attach importance to you, and you are the most important thing in his heart.
if a person really moves the true feelings, you are the most important in his mind. Whenever and no matter what, he will choose to put you first, and he will trust you unconditionally and stand by you unconditionally. Because you are irreplaceable in his heart, you are the one who needs him to hold in his hand, so when considering one thing, he will think about you as the center. The promises made are never more convincing than the facts made. Some people often make promises to girls, but they never keep them. Such people are only hypocritical, and some people will keep their promises, no matter what they do, they will always focus on you. Then he really cares about you, and he really moved the truth.
second, keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex for you.
People will meet many people and make many friends in their life. Some of them will leave when they walk, while others have an irreplaceable position. Many boys have some friends of the opposite sex who have a good relationship, and even some confidantes. The distance between them is very close, because they are old friends for many years. However, once he gives his true feelings to you and feels that you are the only one for him, he will keep a polite distance from those friends. This kind of distance is to reassure you, and I don't want you to feel uncomfortable because of this matter. He loves you, so he gives his whole heart. He won't have an affair with other girls, so he will know how to get along with friends of the opposite sex. This is a sign of loving you deeply, caring for you and respecting your love.
Third, show up in front of you when you need it most.
Girls look strong and independent. In fact, they are also eager for other people's care and someone to give her a hug when she needs comfort and spend that difficult time with them. If a man is really affectionate and loves you from the beginning, then when you need help, when you need him, he will definitely appear in time and stay with you in time. When you are in a bad mood, he will accompany you silently; When you are sick and uncomfortable, he will take good care of you; When you encounter something unsatisfactory, he will take you away and dispel the unhappiness in your heart; When you work late alone, he will pick you up from work and walk with you at night. If he is there every time you need him, then he must have given his true feelings in this relationship.
fourth, I wish everyone knew about your relationship.
If a person really cares about someone and really loves someone, then he will want to make this relationship public. He hopes that everyone can know about your relationship, because he wants to make his happiness known to others. This mentality seems a bit childish, but you are really in my heart, so I can't wait to show off your relationship. In fact, he also wants you to participate in his life and circle of friends. Because he thinks you are no longer an outsider, he has taken you as his future wife, so he wants his friends, his family to know about you, and everyone to know about your love.
if you meet the five requirements, you should break up
1. You have been busy
If you are really in love, no matter how busy you are, you will always contact each other in the gap and want their company. But he is always so busy that he has no time to accompany you. It's understandable if it's work, but he's obviously not busy and always says busy, which means he doesn't want to be with you.
2. All talk and no action
If two people want to go on together, they will make some future plans. He will promise to be good to you, not good to you now! But wait until you have money to be nice to you, and then you can buy whatever you want. Now that we are poor, the poor have a way of living as poor people, so don't want to buy anything.
3. The man who eats in the pot and thinks in the bowl has a little charm. Even if he has a girlfriend, there are more admirers around him. Obviously, girls will be jealous when they see you in contact with other girls, but they still don't converge and continue to keep in touch with admirers.
4. Pass the buck
Obviously, a man made a mistake by himself. Not only did he not want to admit his mistake, but he also blamed it on you. Anyway, it was all your fault, and he didn't make any mistakes himself. Even if there are differences in life, you don't give in at all, and I blame you for haggling over every ounce.
5. Don't touch the mobile phone
Many girls are curious about boys' mobile phones, so they want to look at their boyfriends' mobile phones. To get to know this person, they should start with the mobile phones, but some boys are duplicitous, and they often do something behind their backs. They can do everything for you, except not touch the mobile phones. There are two reasons why you are not allowed to look at your mobile phone. Either he attaches great importance to personal privacy, or there are things in your mobile phone that you don't want to see, such as being ambiguous with a girl.
There are four things about a man who pretends to love you.
1. Missing
Girls are vulnerable, sad and encounter things that they can't solve. Usually, at this time, women will call men, and men always say that they are busy and don't want to listen to girls' nagging. Sometimes they even disappear directly, making phone calls and not answering their phones. Send a text message, and the text message won't return.
2, always perfunctory
If a man loves a woman, he will take the initiative to contact, and he will talk more when he contacts, feeling that if he hasn't seen her for a day, he will have a lot to talk about. If a man doesn't love this woman, answering the phone is perfunctory. He only answers when you ask questions, otherwise he doesn't know what he should say.
3. Don't remember your things
Women usually remember men's birthdays, wedding anniversaries, etc., but men are different. They just forget everything and nothing happens. Every time there is an important anniversary, girls will remind them. As a result, once there is an anniversary, they forget everything. This situation is not that a man's memory is failing, but that he doesn't love it.
4. Don't coax people
Some men have very high IQ and can handle everything well, but even if he is bad to his girlfriend, he won't take the initiative to coax her when she is angry. He doesn't care about you at all. If a man sees that you are unhappy and walks away alone, he is pretending to love you.