Zhang Ailing once said in the novel A Half-Life Fate:

In this life, it is neither long nor short. How to live this life is actually very important to everyone. Go around in the years, and finally you will find that many things are out of your control.

with the passage of time, we will gradually find that what we should lose has been lost and what we should get has not been obtained.

this is a bit cruel, but it is a true portrayal of our lives.

So when you meet someone you like, you must approach slowly. If you find something you want to do, you must try it silently. If you want to go, punch in.

in this life, it is very difficult for us to meet someone we really like. When we were young, we didn't know how to cherish it. When we were middle-aged, we found that we never had the courage to pursue it again.

liking someone is a beautiful thing, and seeing her smile makes you feel happy; Hearing her voice, I feel very happy; Holding her hand, I feel that I am the luckiest person in the world.

I miss you if I can't see you, I feel painful if I can't touch you, and I want to share everything with each other. You think her small temper and occasional waywardness are cute.

the small freckles on your face, the small scars on your body, the faint fragrance from your hair tips, and every little detail move your heart.

the way she talks, the expression on her face when she sleeps, and the infinite energy she gives off when she exercises all fascinate you.

When you meet such a moving person, you feel content in your life. Your young heart beats for her, your body is full of great energy, and every day feels fresh.

You walked through the streets at dusk, enjoyed the scenery in autumn and tasted the delicious food by the lake together. You have measured many places in this city with your own feet.

whispering in the cafe, cheering for each other on the basketball court, and hugging each other on the park bench. Happiness is so simple. If two people who love each other can't live forever, it's a wonderful thing to have it.

Life is too short for you and me to turn back. Because we are full of longing for life, we feel that life is beautiful. The delicious food that we haven't tasted, the beautiful scenery that we haven't seen and the activities that we haven't experienced are actually worth trying.

just a lifetime, don't wait until you are old to regret it.

I used to struggle with the meaning of life like many people. What is the most important thing in life and what is worth trying?

until these years, I kept doing these things that I like, and I realized that as long as I take the first step, the future will become more and more exciting.

Three years ago, because I like writing, I signed up for a new media writing class. Since then, I have been writing three articles a week for three years, and the excitement and satisfaction in my heart are unparalleled when I look at my own words and publish them on various platforms.

This year, I began to teach myself to swim again, because I especially envy others' freedom in the water, so I expect myself to be as happy as a fish.

After a few weeks, I can swim hundreds of meters easily. I take some time every day, put myself in the water and swim leisurely for a while.

In recent weeks, I also started to try to shoot short videos, and achieved very good results. From downloading the APP, adding subtitles, and collecting daily materials, I feel that my status is getting better and better.

before, I was afraid of losing my job, and I was so confused that I didn't know what I could do. But now I find that there are many possibilities in life as long as I dare to try.

In the long and short life, the life that can be seen at the end at a glance is actually the most boring. It is precisely because of the unpredictability of the future that we find that things that we have never tried can also light up our lives.

I can write words, write articles, shoot videos, swim, coach my children and walk by the lake. Which one is the true self?

I think these are all myself. I take care of my body, my soul and people around me. I don't miss the flowers, the stars and the sea.

looking back half my life in a hurry, I suddenly felt like a dream. No matter how hard you encounter in life, don't give up on yourself. Loved people, we should learn to bless, have the fate, we should know how to cherish, confused road ahead, we should bravely explore.

where we can't go, we can reach with imagination, and the lover we can't hold, we can meet in dreams, and we can't get happiness, but we only wish silently.

The greatest happiness in life is not how long you live, but how to do what you like, love the person you like and live the life you want with limited vitality.

Regret is always inevitable, but the biggest regret is that you have never made any efforts towards the person or thing you desire.

the most important thing in a person's life is the process. Don't lose heart when you are frustrated, and don't give up easily when you can't make it. The unexpected warmth should be treasured, and the things you like should be tried bravely.

just watch the flowers bloom and fall, and sit and watch Yun Qi Yunfei. May each of us have the life we want.