I once wanted to travel around the country by bike. At that time, I was young (still a student) and even knew "business operation". I was going to "cooperate" with a bicycle factory, and they specially provided me with bicycles. Before traveling all over the country, I will take a short trip, that is, ride from Shenyang to Dandong and then to Dalian.
I used to have partners, but when I was serious, I backed out and had to travel alone. The section of Shen Dan Highway from Shenyang to Benxi is flat, and from Benxi to Dandong, more than half of Panshan Highway, cycling almost becomes hiking.
A person is lonely when traveling without the cooperation of his peers, and sometimes he is a little scared when he has to travel at night, but he also exercises the ability of independent thinking and decisive thinking. There is no one to rely on. I plan everything by myself. If I am not thorough, I may starve and run out of water. Without my partner, I can't shirk my responsibility. It's really from this solo trip that I formed the good habit of "not being bad" and found myself at the first time when problems appeared.
Lonely travel made me feel the shock of "thousands of lights" for the first time. Because of the wrong route plan, I didn't get close to the city until after ten o'clock at night. When I came to the pass of a mountain road, the city (strictly speaking, the county seat) a few kilometers away suddenly appeared in front of me, and I saw a warm lamp that meant home. I was hungry and physically exhausted, and my clothes were wet in tears.
With no partners playing along the way, I have time to inspect farming, the economy of small shops in rural areas, and the local conditions and customs in rural areas. Sometimes riding for a long time, without a companion to talk, stimulates people to talk more; I stayed at the country inn (also called the coach shop) for the night, so I talked with the guests from all walks of life and heard many stories that I couldn't hear in the city.
When you travel alone, you exercise your perseverance. If you don't solve something immediately (and treat procrastination), no one can hear you crying in the mountains. When I was at the foot of the Phoenix Mountain, I encountered a storm and escaped the flash floods with a little geographical knowledge. When I met a strong sea breeze in Zhuanghe section, I was like a thick wall in front of me. I was struggling to take a step, almost giving up (going back), and I just gritted my teeth and survived. (Traveling is risky, so it is not recommended for students to travel alone)
I arrived in Dalian a week later, and I was not very excited. I thought I would be very excited. Don't you know that you've come a long way, and you've matured a lot, which makes you underestimate the self-righteous sense of ceremony when you walk into a big city.
When a person is tired of being busy at two o'clock and one line, when one's emotions are frustrated, when one's will is depressed by doing nothing, he always wants to go out for a walk alone and embark on a train to a distant place, that is, he likes the freedom of traveling alone, which is not bound by the itinerary. Traveling alone is because he yearns for the freedom like that wind.
The first time I traveled alone was in college. It was in after be lovelorn. I felt sad and decided to take the train to Changbai Mountain. At that time, the train crashed all night. When I saw Tianchi Lake in Changbai Mountain, I felt that everything would pass. It was nothing serious.
Another time, after watching the TV series "Time flies", I fell madly in love with Wuzhen, and finally waited for the holiday, so I got on the train to Hangzhou, got off the train and went straight to Wuzhen without going to the West Lake. I liked the night view of Wuzhen and the beautiful water town very much, but later I went to the West Lake and Shaoxing.
I have always liked Huizhou-style architecture, so I set off on a trip to Huizhou. This time, I didn't go to Huangshan. I went straight to Hongcun, yi county, and stayed there for two nights. I also went to Tachuan, the ancient city of Huizhou and Wuyuan. I don't think this is my last trip to Huizhou, but I will go after all.
There is no contradiction between going out with like-minded people and going out alone. I like both.
I like someone before I get married. It was a passionate age, and it was more about walking and traveling.
Later, when I found some like-minded people, I went out to play together, and developed into an outdoor team, gradually becoming a big member of one or two hundred people. Only when there are activities, someone can always have time to participate, and it is very refreshing to have a picnic and take photos together.
With the change of work, members get married and have children, and activities are reduced, which gradually turns into a family trip, and several families travel, so it is more beautiful to feel the happiness brought by travel with their families. Occasionally, it feels quite good to engage in some intensive mountain climbing or travel by car.
when conditions permit, plan a caravan trip, put the rest of your life on the road, and never come back until you have had enough fun.
Tourism itself is a process of relaxing and indulging. It's great to have like-minded friends to travel with. I have traveled with my friends several times, and I feel mixed feelings. When I met, I was ambitious and happy to go out. Everyone was full of energy and boastful when they set out, but they drifted away from each other during the trip, and they had different opinions. They had the idea of returning home before they traveled for two days. As the saying goes, if you don't agree, you can't work together, and so can travel. For this reason, now I prefer to travel alone, say go and do whatever I want. All the beautiful scenery belongs to me personally, and all the difficulties have to be solved by myself. I am communicating with my heart and nature with heaven and earth. When you are alone and encounter difficulties, it seems that a voice in your ear says to you, you must have confidence and you will go on. At that time, you didn't even understand that it was your inner voice, and there was a divine guidance. Overcome difficulties and move on. Beautiful scenery is waiting for you. A person's travel has both pains and joys, but more is happiness.
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Because I am lonely enough at ordinary times, I hope someone will accompany me when traveling.
My personality is slow, I don't like making friends very much, and it's hard to make friends on the road.
I like everyone to go out together, friends, girlfriends and lovers. On the way, everyone can share the beautiful food and visit local residents if they have the same interests.
Because my personality is average, I don't have great charm. On the contrary, I like to rely on others. I feel that traveling with others will add color. I should be particularly boring if I am alone.
what's more, I'm easy-going and I don't have much conflict with others, that is to say, I can get along with others with great probability.
Even so, I appreciate people who travel alone. They are people with strong and rich hearts.
No matter what you do, just choose the way that suits you.
Personally, I don't like traveling alone for the following reasons:
1. Safety factors, even if you sign up for a group tour, you should consider it well if you set out or drive by yourself, and make adequate preparations.
2. The cost has increased, especially in food and accommodation. In fact, many people can't increase the cost much, and it is not convenient for one person to eat a lot.
3. The happiness of companionship and sharing cannot be obtained. When you see a beautiful scenery, you don't know who to share it with.
I once took the high-speed train from Changchun to Jinzhou by myself. I planned to stay for one night and then come back. Suddenly I found that I was really bored, and I returned the same day. If you like to enjoy the feeling of loneliness, it's really good to travel alone. Put on headphones and you are the world!
I don't like traveling alone. I like traveling with my son. In this way, not only can I increase my knowledge during the trip, but my son will also increase his knowledge and broaden his horizons. When my son was very young, whenever I had time, I took her around. During the trip, our mother and son's feelings became more harmonious, and his young mind was edified, wiser, more sensible, knowledgeable and wide-ranging, which also enhanced his desire for knowledge.
Before I go to a place, I will spread some knowledge about this place to my son in advance. For example, before I go to Shaoxing, I read Mr. Lu Xun's From Herb Garden to three pools mirroring the moon to my son again and again, and my son was deeply impressed. When I arrived at Lu Xun's former residence, I took my son to the Herbal Garden to look for the vegetable beds, stone wells, acacia trees, short mud walls and places for catching birds in winter as taught by Runtu's father. My son was happy to find them all. Although he had not learned this article at that time, he had deeply put the essence of this article into his mind.
After visiting the garden behind three pools mirroring the moon, Mr. Wang originally said, "Although it is small, you can climb the flower bed there, just break the wintersweet, and look for cicadas on the ground or on the osmanthus tree." The son said, "I can also catch flies and feed ants here. There is no sound and the teacher can't hear me." My son is really naughty.
After going to Xiamen, my son studied The Story of Chen Jiageng in the fourth grade, and learned that Xiamen University and Jimei's schools were all donated by him. The "Jia Geng Spirit" that can be seen everywhere in Jimei refers to Chen Jiageng, the protagonist in the text, so he has a deeper impression on Xiamen.
We traveled all the way, and my son grew up all the way, so I prefer traveling with my son to traveling alone.
I know that traveling alone may be inconvenient, but in my imagination, traveling alone is also quite fascinating.
First of all, it's convenient to travel alone. There is nothing to take care of, just take care of yourself.
when traveling alone, you don't have to accommodate others' feelings. You can go anywhere you want, as long as you are responsible for your own safety.
when traveling alone, there are many unknowable encounters. You may meet tourists with the same hobbies, so you have the same topic and you can go together. It's not impossible to meet like that, and you'll have another friend, so you won't be lonely on the trip. In case of encountering love, although it is as rare as winning a prize, isn't it quite desirable?
When traveling alone, you can control your time reasonably. If you want to write a travel feeling, you can control your time and space at any time without worrying about others, and you don't have to be afraid of being disturbed by others.
There are many advantages to traveling alone. Some people may be afraid of loneliness, love excitement and don't like traveling alone. But is there more possibility for a person's scenery? What does it feel like to be alone with a camera facing the scenery? Is it also quite unique?
I've always yearned for traveling alone, so I must try it when I have the chance.
Traveling can enjoy beautiful scenery and delicious food. For both of us, traveling has become a kind of life. To paraphrase a popular world: I don't want to see the scenery in a new place, so I'm on the way to travel, but before I leave this time, or I've already arranged the next journey. If I don't travel for a long time, I just have to wait for my visa except for my work needs. This is the dynamic with my wife now.
Of course, everyone's situation is different. Some people travel alone because of conditions. We have met many people, and their families can't take leave or go abroad because of work and other reasons, so they have to leave alone.
I feel that this question here is not about people with families. Maybe it's more about asking a single person
It's certainly free and casual to travel alone, and you don't have to think too much about other people's affairs, but I personally suggest that it's better to have someone to go with you.
Go out with friends and suggest going out with people who are familiar, have the same hobbies and are easy-going (at least meet two requirements). There is more fun and discovery in this trip.
Of course, the best thing is to go out with your woman (him). The same scenery and the same journey must be a better feeling.
The last suggestion is to travel with people you meet temporarily (it doesn't count as sharing a car temporarily), especially friends of the opposite sex who just met. There is a high probability that it will make the pie taste bad, so it is really not as good as traveling alone ...
I want to have a trip by myself.
1. This trip is completely self-centered, and you don't have to accommodate other people's ideas and schedules.
eat whatever you want, and stay a few more days when you are tired. If you want to challenge, you can do some extreme sports that your ability allows.
2. Travel pursues physical and mental relaxation, and you can explore your own fields of interest.
Some people like to live a life of drunkenness, and he can go to many countries where xing is legalized to experience life. Some people like the original ecological life, and he can go to the North China Food Terran Tribe.
Some people like to gamble a little, so they can go to vegas for a few days to try their luck.
3. Everyone has different ways to relax physically and mentally. As long as you don't hurt yourself or affect others, you can get physical and mental pleasure, which is a good tour.
Let's talk about a friend. This guy has a successful career and a happy family. He likes field training. The child has crossed the desert at the age of 4. Many of his babies are related to field survival training.
Sometimes the training with the baby is not enough, so I take a leave of absence for half a month and spend a week in a lonely mountain in Guizhou with no signal.
I have walked the Sichuan-Tibet line alone on May 1st this year.
I am puzzled to ask him why he doesn't have a family outing.
He said that he just wanted to challenge himself. It was tiring to take care of the baby at ordinary times, and he wanted some time alone. Talk to yourself in nature and how to survive in the face of difficulties and obstacles.
I said you just like being abused, he asked. Taking care of the baby is also a kind of abuse. Why don't you think this kind of adventure is a kind of enjoyment?
it is true that everyone focuses on different things. I believe him that you can get inner satisfaction from traveling alone.
@ luna and Erbao is a vlog where an executive father takes care of his baby at home. There are many funny moments in the lives of luna and Erbao, and there are also some thoughts and attempts about their education.
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