1. Food partner.

You can often see this kind of plot in Korean dramas. The old lady complains in front of her daughter-in-law every three days: "When you get old, you want to eat something good, but I don't know why you are so greedy." In fact, it's not just the old ladies in Korea who are so greedy.

Greedy, even Chinese old ladies are greedy.

Don’t forget, food is the best communication tool.

Therefore, don’t just pretend to be a gourmet yourself. Once in a month, you occasionally turn down a date with your friends and take your mother-in-law to eat snacks and delicacies that she has never eaten before. Even if they are not to her taste, isn’t there such a saying?

If you are "soft-tongued" and you are not praised, I believe she will not say anything wrong about you.

Love the same food, and your mother-in-law is a lover of cooking, so that would be even better.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can study together how the food in other people's restaurants is made. After going back and forth, with the friendship of classmates, how high is the chance of a cold war?

2. Surf the Internet.

Who said that only young people like to surf the Internet? Who said that the elderly are slow to respond? Nowadays, more and more elderly people have become Internet users.

Therefore, as long as your mother-in-law is literate, you should quickly educate her on computer literacy. Firstly, you can make the old lady fashionable, and secondly, you can finally have the opportunity to educate her.

Although it may be difficult and tiring, you will soon find that it feels good to be relied on and trusted by her.

While your mother-in-law has broadened her horizons, she will naturally be grateful to you. How can she have time to find your shortcomings?

3. Go shopping.

It is a woman’s nature to love beauty. No matter what age a woman is, I believe that shopping, especially buying clothes, will always be her favorite thing to do.

My mother-in-law has been taking her grandson with her all the time, so her clothes are definitely not too particular, and she doesn’t have time to go shopping.

Especially after the baby enters nursery, isn’t it time to dress up like an old lady?

During the shopping process, not only did I relax my mother-in-law, but I might also find that the two of them actually like the same style of plaid skirts and the same color curtains and tablecloths.

These languages ????can become a bridge that builds friendship between two people.

Learn three tricks to make your mother-in-law love you to the core 2 1. Learn to care about your husband in front of your mother-in-law. In fact, as a mother-in-law, what you fear most is that your son will be bullied and oppressed after marrying a daughter-in-law.

Once she sees her daughter-in-law instructing her son to do work, the mother-in-law will feel particularly uncomfortable.

Because I was never willing to let my son work at home, but now that I have married my daughter-in-law, she has become her servant. In real life, many mothers-in-law will think so.

Therefore, a woman must learn to care about your husband in front of her mother-in-law, so that her mother-in-law will no longer worry about her son being bullied by you. Only in this way, her mother-in-law will love you more.

2. Learn to speak and do things according to your mother-in-law’s thoughts. When a woman marries into her mother-in-law’s house, there is actually no need to compete with her mother-in-law over who is right and who is wrong.

For some things, just turn a blind eye and let it go.

In life, speak and do things according to your mother-in-law's ideas. Don't think that your mother-in-law's ideas are old and I have to change them. You can't change them.

Even your father-in-law can't change your mother-in-law's decades-old habits, let alone you. Therefore, try to follow your mother-in-law in life, which will make your mother-in-law love you more.

3. Learn to be filial. Don’t think that your mother-in-law is not your mother. No matter how much I give, she can never treat me as her biological daughter. This kind of thinking is wrong.

Since you have married into your mother-in-law's family, you are a family. Show your sincerity to your mother-in-law and let her see your actual actions. If you do this, it won't take long for your mother-in-law to love you more.