To truly love someone is to make the other person better. How can we say that love is selfless?
Since you will not bring him joy and happiness by your side, you should let him go and let him choose a better happiness that is better for him. Life is unpredictable, and the person you love does not necessarily have to be with you to be happiest. Maybe the person you love has different values ??and pursuits in life than you do. He cannot live an ordinary, simple and quiet life like you, but wants to pursue a more luxurious and challenging splendid life. Maybe it's just the opposite. Your life is luxurious and brilliant, but what he pursues is ordinary, quiet and simple.
The former feels that love is a kind of habit and dependence. Letting go is like suddenly losing the air, making people uncomfortable, so it is difficult to let go.
The latter feels that if you don’t love someone anymore, you will let them go.
Loving someone requires dedication and sacrifice, and it is easy to lose more than you gain. So falling in love is difficult.
Different people have different understandings of love and letting go, and the answers are also different.
But if you love someone deeply, you will never let go.
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You will let go only if you don’t love her
Xiaoli is a very good friend since college. She is very enterprising and plans to take the postgraduate entrance examination to give herself a A good enough future.
She also set a rule for herself, that is, she would never fall in love before she was admitted to graduate school.
But love is unpredictable and unpredictable. When that person appears, emotion will always be greater than reason.
At a club activity, Xiaoli met Liu Jie, an outstanding senior who was one year older than her. She liked Liu Jie very much and had a very happy college years.
When Xiaoli was in her junior year, Liu Jie graduated and went to a city far away from school.
Xiao Li goes to see Liu Jie every two weeks, and it takes a day to go back and forth.
She got car sick and wanted to be skinned every time she bumped. She had to change cars several times on the way to get to his city, but she felt it was worth it.
Every time I look at my boyfriend on the bed in the hotel, listen to him talk about the city, and express my thoughts, I feel very happy and satisfied.
She felt very happy and thought this would be her whole life.
But something happened at his boyfriend’s house, so he went home to deal with it. From then on, Liu Jie became indifferent to her.
If you love someone deeply, you will never let go
Not long after, Liu Jie proposed to break up.
She always felt that this relationship was very happy and there was no conflict between the two of them. She didn’t know why they broke up.
If you love someone deeply, you won’t want to let go, just like Xiaoli.
In order to save the relationship, she kept in touch for a year, sending text messages and making phone calls, hoping to get a response.
I want to find him, but I don’t know the specific address.
You will only let her go if you don't love her anymore. Liu Jie's attitude toward her has changed since they were in a different place.
In the past, I would always wait for her downstairs in her dormitory. After being away from home, I couldn’t contact her a few times in a week. It was all Xiaoli’s effort.
A year later, Liu Jie had no choice but to meet Xiaoli and told her that it was time to let go.
Xiao Li finally accepted this ending.
If you love someone deeply, you will never let go. Only when you no longer love can you let go and leave easily.
Liang Shiqiu said: You come, you go, I won’t see you off. Come, no matter how windy or rainy you are, I will pick you up.
When someone doesn’t love you and wants to leave, just let it go.
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When you love someone, you want to be with them forever
You like them for a while, then let them go when you no longer feel the same. Love is a lifelong thing, you can't bear to be separated and cherish it doubly.
The couple Tong Dawei and Guan Yue have always been very low-key and don't like to show affection.
Not long ago, the two participated in an event together, which attracted the attention of netizens.
Especially Guan Yue, although she rarely went out to film after her marriage and became a producer, her appearance is still charming.
The two have known each other since they were in college.
Maybe it was the warm breeze that day that made people feel in love, or maybe it was the bright sunshine that day that made people feel heart-beating.
With just one glance, Tong Dawei fell in love with Guan Yue.
The two were together for many years. At the wedding, Tong Dawei said affectionately that he would stay with Guan Yue for the rest of his life.
He will only have one wedding in this life, one marriage, one person for a lifetime, so affectionate.
In fact, the two people did not go directly from love to marriage, but they were separated for a period of time.
It was also during this period that Tong Dawei realized his true feelings. He only wanted to be with Guan Yue for the rest of his life.
So he pursued her again and confessed passionately. Love can't be let go, even if you browse the world, you are still the best.
In the blink of an eye, the two have been married for 13 years and have three lovely children.
They live the way we want. I was asked how I could maintain such a good relationship amidst the ordinary and trivial matters.