First: You are overthinking. Eye-catching is for everyone’s eyes. It is not your exclusive benefit. Don’t be sentimental. Second: If you are single, be bold and try it out, maybe you will miss something. If there is a tiger at home, it is better not to let out the deer in your heart, otherwise it will harm others and yourself, and you will lose your wife and your job. Third: The workplace is not a school. There is no chance for you to try and make mistakes. There is no benefit of making up for a grade and repeating a grade. There is only the bitterness of being fired. So, hold on to the job in your hands. No matter how beautiful the money is, just take a look.
Every unit will have some beauties, what you call eye-catching opposite sex. Why do you say it so tactfully? ?A beauty is a beauty.
As for, what kind of experience is it? ?I just ?want to tell you, ?what to do. ?
As long as it is a slightly larger unit, a slightly more decent unit,? Which unit will not have some beauties? However, if you are just an ordinary employee, if you are a married person, does this have anything to do with you? ?
Some people always like to have wild imaginations. In fact, to put it bluntly, it has nothing to do with you. Be it beautiful women, good food, good cars, or good houses, all these beautiful things can be liked by anyone in the world. However, you also need to consider your strength. ?
I remember when I was in middle school, I was very poor and very interested in food. On the food street in the county town, I saw so many delicacies, such as roast duck hanging out, braised pork in the window, chicken legs, etc. Of course I was very greedy. However, if you consider your own withered pocket, it is still out of reach, so just go back honestly. From now on, I will go less often. I won’t go if I can’t help it. Out of sight and out of mind, this will save you pain. ?
As I grew up, my appetite gradually became satisfied, and I was no longer tempted by the delicacies on the street. Even if you can't resist the temptation, you can still afford it. Slowly I became interested in the house again. For example, when I go to the Bund in Shanghai and look at the brightly lit modern Western-style buildings and those Western-style buildings, I really feel excited and wish I could afford one myself. . But can you afford it? We can't afford it. A house costs tens of millions, and many of them cost hundreds of millions, so we can only take a look at them to satisfy our eyes.
The purpose of telling these two stories is to say that those beautiful beauties in the workplace really have nothing to do with you. She lives her life, you live yours. Do you still want to have any "hidden rules" or adventures? ?Throw away the fantasy. You are an ordinary citizen with no job or power. Isn’t this just wishful thinking? Even if you have a small authority, is it still possible in this era to follow "hidden rules" casually? ?Is there an unspoken rule? ?Don’t you need to pay a huge price? In the light case, the person will be ruined and his reputation will be ruined; in the serious case, he will be imprisoned and his wife will be separated.
Some people say, "Well, I don't have any actual actions, so why don't I just take a second look?" Haha, I suggest you, be careful when peeking, don't let the beauties find out, and don't let your colleagues find out, otherwise you will be known as a "pervert". If you often peek at beautiful beauties, the fox's tail will eventually be exposed. A good reputation is like fresh meat, it has a shelf life and is irreversible. Once your reputation is ruined, it will be difficult for you to recover it. ?
If you are unmarried, ?of course you have the right to pursue beautiful women. There are many beauties in this unit, which can be considered a benefit to you. Then you'd better identify one and pursue it diligently. But don’t be dazzled by it. Don't be a monkey and break the corn. Break off every one you see and miss the last one.
If you are married, I advise you to go to bed early. As the saying goes, rabbits don’t eat the grass beside their nests. Why don't rabbits eat grass beside their nests? ?This is the crystallization of the rabbit's wisdom in life, ?and also the result of long-term suffering and long-term natural selection and evolution. If the rabbit eats the grass beside the nest, it will satisfy its appetite for a while. But in the long run, if you expose yourself, you may be eaten by other prey one day.
His old home was taken away, wouldn’t it be worth the loss? ?So?Rabbits?all understand the truth. If you don't understand, it's very inappropriate.
As the saying goes, there is a knife behind the word sex, and desire is the devil. I suggest you work hard and earn your salary in a down-to-earth manner. As for the attractive beauties in the workplace, just go back and think about them secretly, or take less glances at them. ?
Here’s why men and women don’t get tired when working together
First, don’t think too much, it’s everyone else’s business. Maybe it belongs to the boss? It's so scary to die.
Second, just think of it as a company benefit. Like the company's office environment, corporate culture, team building, and interpersonal relationships, it is part of the company's software and hardware.
If you think about it this way, the little deer in your heart will be much more at ease.
Since we are colleagues, try to keep the relationship between the two parties as pure as possible, so that you will not be subject to unnecessary interference when doing business.
If you have to think about this kind of relationship as a colleague, it only means that you are a boring person.
What do you think?
One of the reasons why I don’t want to retire early
We have a eldest sister who is almost 50 years old. When she smiles like a model mature woman, I am always sweet. I don’t know how to take care of her.