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The short one is eighteen, the long one is youth
If you have ever waited for someone like Liu Feng, been squeezed out like Xiaoping, had a love affair with words that killed you like Xiao Suizi, chased love bravely like Hao Shufen, or been in love like Lin Dingding, Life and love explain the pros and cons, and we are all the same. We hurt others and bear the pain in our youth, and recall those adult or immature growth and memories.

Let me briefly talk about my opinions based on the novel and the movie.

Love in that era was a long story. They are all extremely reserved.

Suizi could write a box full of love letters for Chen Can, but Hao Shufen was able to do it with her physical revolutionary friendship in just a few days. The movie omitted this detail and just said that they were a perfect match. But the real conflict lies in the war between the two women. If Hao Shufen hadn't wanted to compete with Xiao Suizi, she wouldn't have taken the risk. After all, the person she marries in the novel is a second-generation gangster who drives a car on the street. How could a girl like her, who strives for happiness so bravely, marry an ordinary person so easily? Either he was taken down by others, or he lived a very good life.

Xiao Suizi in the novel also liked Liu Feng. Because Liu Feng took the initiative to save him when she wanted to commit suicide after being criticized for her love through text. Also because Liu Feng brought the good news that his father was released (there is a scene in the movie where Xiao Suizi jumped up with a teapot, and water fell on her from more than one meter high, like happiness blooming and falling to the ground.) The most important thing It's because Liu Feng has strong muscles and a kind nature. Anyway, at that age when everything is just growing, as long as someone gives a little warmth to a lonely person, love will easily arise. No wonder Xiaoping also loves Liu Feng. After all, the kind-hearted person Everyone is cute, so why not now?

There are always two pairs of young bodies and souls, longing for Plato and the encounter between spirit and body.

In fact, in this world, we generally love the same kind of people

To be more precise, those people often exist in our memories, in the outline of ideals, eighteen The person I had a crush on at the age of 18 is like a shadow that I can’t get rid of. Most of my subsequent heart-throbs will be related to his beauty! Yes, first love is so shameful. The person who broke in first is hiding in your heart and won't leave. I really want to rain knives and chop the old friend inside into pieces. People who love too much often don't dare to say they love, just like Xiaoping wants Liu Feng to hug him, but doesn't even have the courage to speak. Just like Liu Feng fell in love with Lin Dingding, years of sacrifice and waiting just melted into a life-changing embrace.

Love is the most useless, but it gives life a slightly uneasy ending.

Subtle concern integrates people who are not related by blood into a whole. This is the first time we have explored a kind of interpersonal practice where flesh and blood are connected and water and milk are in harmony after being psychologically weaned from our parents. However, reality and human nature often make us swing between the uncertainty of enthusiasm and pessimism and despair. We want unique love but cannot get it: We want to possess the other person but it is full of pain. We want unconditional acceptance and appreciation. We want unconditional love and companionship. At the same time, we want to desperately rely on face to keep the other person: Upgrade Self, sexy enough, beautiful enough, young enough, shining enough, thinking that enough can be permanent. But how can there be eternity in this world? Even the hottest sun will disappear within twenty-four hours, let alone the human heart? In loving and being loved, from the beginning we want to find a circle that can make up for our other half, to the middle we are constantly stumbling and bruised, we learn to endure, learn to be tolerant, learn to pretend... to finally become our perfect selves, I believe You are love and light. When you meet that soul mate who cherishes each other and has the same interests, there is no need for rituals such as marriage and confession to prove your love, because each other is unique enough to become the only one in your heart. Whether this solemnity will last is no longer so important

There will be quarrels in life, but there is passion and ignorance in youth. The cherishment and tolerance in the fleeting years have nothing to do with love, but the most evil, kind and instinctive call of human nature. We are a whole, we can do anything for each other, and we can let each other do anything, the premise is love and freedom.

Everyone’s life is a perfect ending. No matter who encounters any drama, please be your own protagonist and accompany the other person to perform it seriously.