When Xia Junshan and Chaochao left Ma Xia's house, Ma Xia didn't go downstairs to see her off, but stood by the window and watched. Xia Junshan wants to hug her. She cried and said, when you grow up, mom can't hold you anymore. She patted him and helped him tidy his clothes to keep him warm. Xia Junshan hugged her. Although I struggled a few times, I hugged Xia Junshan. When Xia Junshan left, she cried and said that she would come back to see her often in the future. These plots make me believe that Ma Xia still loves her son, and she still has a son in her heart. The reason why she is so indifferent to Xia Junshan has a lot to do with the misfortune of her marriage.
1.？ The unhappy marriage made her lose her happiness and joy coldly. Xia Junshan, who is in other places, is worried but helpless. He's been calling to find out about joy and joy. When Ma Xia heard this, he said to him, I told you, I don't care about your affairs, but your wife doesn't even dare to look at an eleven-year-old child. What else can she do?
Xia Junshan explained that the couple didn't mean it. Besides, Huanhuan has grown up, and no one can stop her from leaving. But Ma Xia didn't listen to his explanation, and then said, how can a child go out if he has a little sense of responsibility and behaves like his parents? Xia Junshan was very unhappy. He asked, what is it like to be a parent?
Growing up, Ma Xia has always denied and accused Xia Junshan. When something happens, Xia's father and I blame each other and pass the buck. Xia Junshan said that she had had enough of Ma Xia's verbal violence since she was a child. From Xia Junshan's words, we can guess that Ma Xia's marriage is unhappy. She and Xia's father are both strong and unforgiving people, but they can't see each other. When things happen, they don't discuss with each other, just blame each other and pass the buck.
The unhappy marriage caused her to feel unhappy and bad. But she is still a responsible mother. She has high hopes for her son. I hope my son can do well in all aspects and help him pull back a game. She pinned all her hopes and expectations on Xia Junshan. Whenever Xia Junshan fails to meet her expectations, she complains and blames.
She treats marriage and children as an investor, and says whatever she does for marriage. She is worried about any sacrifices and concessions made for marriage and children. She hopes that her efforts can be effectively rewarded. When she can't get them, she complains and blames, as if the whole world owes her, so her marriage is becoming more and more unhappy. The more unhappy she is, the more she complains and feels wronged, thus forming a vicious circle.
Because I often quarrel with Xia's father, my family is full of complaints and accusations. This family background made Xia Junshan just want to escape, so he chose a school far from home from junior high school. Ma Xia was angry at Xia Junshan's behavior. She felt that everything she did was for Xia Junshan, and Xia Junshan was ungrateful and left her. She complained more and more about Xia Junshan, and gradually became indifferent to Xia Junshan.
3. I'm not good at talking. Xia Junshan saw the gloves sent by Ma Xia and ran home. Ma Xia saw it and asked coldly, why did she come back? Xia Junshan said that if she wants to be happy and surpass others, she will go to Jiangzhou for a walk. Ma Xia said coldly that she didn't want to be annoying. She obviously cares about Xia Junshan, but she is ruthless and refuses to talk well. She always looks on coldly and keeps people away. Because she couldn't talk well, her marriage was unhappy and her son didn't get close to her, but she never realized it was her fault. She thinks her son is ungrateful and has always hated him and is indifferent to him. In fact, Ma Xia is also a poor woman. She had an unhappy marriage all her life and had a cold relationship with her son. However, it is really personality that determines fate, and all this has a lot to do with herself. If she had praised Xia Junshan more and loved him more when she was a child, instead of kidnapping him with emotion, the relationship between the two mothers would not be so cold.
Ma Xia loves Xia Junshan, but she can't express her love and doesn't know how to love. Therefore, in Xia Junshan's childhood world, she didn't feel love, but complained more about her duties, and so did my own parents. In my childhood, I didn't feel warm, and I was worried and scared every day. My parents' words always hurt me, but can you say that they don't love me? They will let us read this book. I will send clothes to school in the cold winter, but there is no expression of love in my words. I grew up in denial, so when I become a parent, I will feel how happy it is to let my children learn to express, love and be loved.