If you want to ask a girl out, it is better to use topic guidance, invite through group activities, use the excuse of helping, show your skills and cook for her, or use the excuse of being close and on the way.

1. Guide through topics. If you suddenly ask a girl to eat while chatting, it will give the girl an abrupt feeling. We can give the girl a reason through topic guidance.

For example, when you are talking about food, and the girl happens to be a foodie, you can say: "I know a super delicious hot pot restaurant. As a high-end foodie, you must try it. We can go together if the sky changes."

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2. Invite girls through group activities. Many times girls refuse your date, maybe because they feel embarrassed to be alone with you. Therefore, we can use group activities to invite girls, and with more people, we can have more topics to talk about.

You can invite girls like this: "I have invited a few friends to have a party at home over the weekend, and you know several of them. Then ask your best friends to come with you."

3. Use help as an excuse. When chatting with a girl in the early stage, you can deliberately find a reason to ask the girl to do you a favor, and then after the girl has done the favor for you, treat her to dinner as a thank you.

For example, you can say something like this: "You really helped me a lot a few days ago. Why don't I treat you to dinner on the weekend and don't lose my face?"

4. The premise of inviting a girl to you is to show her cooking skills on the grounds that you are having an affair. By showing that you can cook, which is a high-value and warm-hearted behavior, the girl will feel that she will be very happy eating the food you cook.

You can say something like this: "I have recently learned a new dish. Come to my house to cook for you at noon tomorrow. Please don't fall in love with me."

5. Before asking a girl out for dinner on the grounds that she is nearby and on your way, first determine the girl’s specific location. For example, ask her in advance if she is at home. If she is at home, ask her to dinner on the grounds that she is close and on your way.

You can say something like this: "I just came out of the client's company, and I didn't expect it to be quite close to your home. Why don't we go out for a meal together?"