who is saying this? It seems to be for me. I left my home in Shanghai and went back to my hometown to buy an apartment and become an empty nester, just to stay away from the person who lives on tourism. Who is this person? It's my wife. I don't like traveling myself, but I am very tolerant of my family. My wife receives all my pension. First, I saved money and gave my wife 5, yuan to travel. That is to say, I actively supported her to go at the beginning of this trip, but traveling can only be done occasionally. If I am obsessed with traveling, or I am not at home all day, I am often keen on parties and dinners. This has aroused my disgust. Why? Financially, my wife receives my pension. She doesn't go home when traveling or having a party. Sometimes she throws me ten or twenty yuan to buy my own food. Sometimes she tells me that you can cook your own food in the refrigerator. Sometimes she cooks one or two dishes for me as my food. How many days can she stay at home a week? I watched the dog at home and cooked by myself, but I was not at home almost every day. I looked after the house, did housework and often paid for meals with my own money. Isn't my pension her net income? Therefore, people will always count my tolerance as their "blessing". Since you are not at home, I can stay away. You like to run around, and I can go back to my hometown, so that I can fully recover my pension. She doesn't want to, but she doesn't make sense. The state pension is for me. She doesn't want to and can't help it, so don't overdo anything. If you overdo it, it will be her own real misfortune.

In fact, the tourist craze is just a fad in China, and few travelers really enjoy their wonderful experience. Many people regard traveling as a kind of fashion. If they are with them often, they will not only spend money to buy punishment; But also because the number of trips is too small, it will be ridiculed and accused by some tourists.

When you mix with those travelers, you must disregard the actual situation of your family. Spend a lot of money "traveling around the world". However, taking photos and sending them to the WeChat circle of friends shows that you have been to all corners of the country or "Asia, Africa and Latin America". However, in terms of tourism culture, basically only a rough idea can be given. In economic accounting, it is not worth the loss, and there is little gain.

"Travel" refers to traveling and going out, that is, the process of traveling from place A to place B in space in order to achieve a certain goal; "Tour" means going out for sightseeing, sightseeing and entertainment, that is, traveling for these purposes. Together, they are tourism. Nowadays, tourism has become a unprofitable business for many industries to make money, so it is fully promoted and brainwashed in various ways.

my ancestral home is Zhejiang, I was born in Shanghai, and I have settled in Jiangsu. I have worked in two first-tier cities, Beijing and Shenzhen. He has worked and lived in Shanghai, Xi 'an, Shaanxi, Shaoxing, Zhejiang, Nantong, Jiangsu and Changzhou. Perhaps because of being well informed, I have always thought that it is not necessary to invest too much money in traveling.

I have a high demand for traveling aesthetics. Because of my busy business, I didn't fully appreciate the local places of interest. Moreover, I like to appreciate "places of interest" rather than "historical sites"; I like nature, but I don't like those temples and ancient mansions.

under the background of obvious homogenization of travel in the mainland, my travel demands have been negatively affected again and again; For "buying in buy buy" and traveling in the form of sightseeing, it is even more exclusive. Because my travel focuses on the local customs, I should not only appreciate the scenery, but also fully feel the humanistic customs of the tourist destination. So as to broaden their horizons and cultivate their sentiments.

It is a great pity that some travel experts in the circle of friends are not optimistic after "traveling around the world", and they are still in the pattern of ordinary citizens. Therefore, the subject asked well and said well; Disagreement between the three views is still "fragmented." Live a good life, the world is so big that you can't see it!

retirees, whose income is lower than that of those who go to work, need too much money. There is no need to spend all of it on travel. Choose your favorite places of interest properly, and just visit a few places. Now there are too many homogeneous tourist attractions.

After reading my Q&A, I hope that tourists will not curse first; You go home and count your money bags first, and then think about your travel gains. You may even thank me for "stopping your loss" in time!

what would you think if there was a person in your circle of friends who regularly took all kinds of beautiful scenery photos? You will feel that he is very emotional about life, or that he is simply doing nothing. You will feel envious of this kind of life and want to communicate with him, or you will think that this kind of friend is not suitable for deep friendship because you are too playful.

With the continuous growth of economy, we have the ability to travel, but the difference is that some people will take travel as a way to relax, while others will take it as an indispensable pleasure in life, and they will save money to travel and then travel again. There are also such people in life who regard travel as the meaning of life.

For those who regard tourism as the meaning of life, some people in their lives may be very repulsive, and they will think of people who stay away from these tourism as the meaning of life, because some thoughts in their hearts will think that they are not doing their jobs. When I saw the photos they sent in the circle of friends, I thought that this person just liked to pretend. They think that life is about responsibility, that is, working is about being busy all the time. The so-called leisure and relaxation are only things after retirement.

I have a friend. Let's call her Xiao Fu. She is a real person who regards traveling as a life. I stayed at home when I graduated from middle school, but she spent a month working as a summer vacation worker, and the money she earned was used to travel around all the scenic spots in our province. When we were on the rise, we were all talking about what we did in the summer vacation. All of them were boring, but when we heard her talk about her travel life, we were all envious and jealous. She also wrote a diary to record the bits and pieces of her going out. To be honest, it is not normal not to envy.

After that, we didn't go to school together, but I know that she has traveled to almost every city in our country, and went abroad to see the little things in the world. Usually in communication, I can clearly feel that people who go out to see the world are different from us. Her knowledge, her knowledge and the way she talks all make us like and appreciate her.

In my opinion, people who regard tourism as the meaning of life are a group of people who are uneasy about the status quo and are willing to work hard to create a group of people who belong to their own world. They are unwilling to the status quo, so they explore and pursue. The road they have traveled and the sight they have seen are different from those of us who have fixed themselves in a small world like this.

Those who don't like traveling, or don't like it, may be envious and jealous to some extent. Because other people's lives are wonderful, they live the life they want, so they will inevitably feel a little uncomfortable.

This question is answered by "Hua Xiaohua's Travel Notes".

I have traveled two or three times a year for more than ten years, and I have considered myself a person whose life is based on tourism. Let me talk about my feelings.

Generally speaking, there are several reasons for staying away from you:

Most of these people are colleagues or leaders. Because they like to travel, they often mention some feelings of traveling in front of their colleagues, often do travel guides, and prefer to post pictures taken in their circle of friends. And your occupation is not tourism, which will make colleagues or leaders feel that this person is not reliable. If you have something to do at work, you will be handed over to others and you will be left alone.

After all, most people are not poor tourists, and the travel expenses are also very large. It is still difficult for working-class people to spend 2, to 3, yuan a year to travel. And you often take pictures of travel in your circle of friends, and you always feel that this person is a "relocated household". Let's have less contact with this man.

Birds of a feather flock together, and gradually they will have their own circles. People like to read quietly and cook their own food at home, but you like to run around the world, and there will be fewer topics, and you will gradually fade out of the circle of friends.

In the process of traveling, you keep learning, and your knowledge and taste are getting richer and higher. The circle of friends is also a process of scouring the sand. People who think their tastes are not as good as yours rarely interact with each other. With the improvement of your pattern, you have higher aspirations and made more friends. They will stay away from each other, not unilaterally.

true friends are "don't forget each other when you are rich" and "don't abandon or give up". Those fair-weather friends, friends who know each other but don't know each other, and friends who squeeze their heads for benefits are not true friends. Those who leave because they like to travel are not true friends.

Try it. When you travel to your friend's area, you have already told him whether the other party warmly receives you or avoids you. When you sent a short message to 5 people in your address book to borrow money because of lack of money, how many people generously gave money to help you solve your urgent needs? When you have achieved something, share it with your friends, and several people can celebrate with you. When you have a critically ill patient at home and you are not around, there are many people who can take care of your family for you. I don't know until I try, but I'll see.

It's not necessarily friends to say hello when meeting and send a short message on holidays. Only in trouble can we see who our friends are. This is a question of human nature, which is not limited to whether you are a friend who travels or whether you leave your friend because of traveling.

1 people will have 1 kinds of answers. Everyone stands in a different perspective and has different understandings of life, work, humanity and the future, so their understanding of tourism will be different. What suits you is the best answer you want. My understanding is this:

It's not easy for parents all their lives. They dragged us to grow up and sent us to study and work. Now it's time to pay back. It's our greatest wish to spend our spare time talking with our parents and walking around to make up for their previous shortcomings, as long as our parents are happy.

At ordinary times, everyone is busy for work, making money desperately for survival, and relaxing appropriately is also for better work. Work and life should be relaxed one by one, and this string cannot be tightened forever. Once it is tightened for a long time, problems will easily occur.

Through traveling, I learned about the customs of different places, the religious beliefs of different nationalities, and appreciated the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. It is better to take Wan Li Road when reading thousands of books. This sentence should be the mantra of people who like to travel. In fact, it is also the case.

Tourism is not just a tour. Accidents happen at any time during the journey. How to face difficulties, how to survive in no man's land and how to cultivate self-reliance and self-improvement can all be achieved through tourism.

I think there are two kinds of people who live by traveling.

one is to punch cards everywhere in the name of tourism, just to make friends and show off. Stay away from such people, because she won't bring you anything of real value.

I have a good friend who likes to travel everywhere. Every time she goes to a scenic spot, she will send all kinds of selfies and food photos, and every scenic spot can send several waves, and her circle of friends is almost dominated by her every day.

If I send a beautiful photo, it will be of reference value to my travel. I will be happy to enjoy such a circle of friends, but it has nothing to do with me. I will go to see it at first, but later I feel particularly bored, and finally I choose to block it.

There is another kind of people who really like to travel, and their knowledge and experience are worthy of our appreciation and learning!

On the way to travel, I met many such people. They are familiar with the local customs of various countries and know when and how to travel, so I will not stay away from them, but also ask them for some travel strategies.

There is no absolute thing. Not all people who take tourism as their life meaning are people who only play and do nothing, but everyone pursues a different lifestyle.

in ancient times, there were relatives and ministers, and people were far away, so it is today! Pro "xian" is far from "leisure"!

I remember that in my third year at work, the financial elder sister of the company enthusiastically introduced me to an object. During the weekend blind date, all the processes of watching movies, shopping and eating went smoothly. However, in the car, he asked me, "What is your ideal", and I replied, "After buying an RV to travel around the world", the seemingly perfect date turned into "farewell". Later, I learned from the financial elder sister that: For example, buying a house, buying a car, getting married, having children, caring for their husbands and educating their children, and having their children go to college ... The reason why this example is given is to show that for Chinese people at present, it is still somewhat "doing nothing" to people around them. A 15-square-meter duplex high-rise, 3, imported cars and a well-paid husband are far more important than traveling around the world to return to their original heart. Therefore, anyone who wants to tell his friends "I want to travel as the meaning of life" will only get estranged, or even gradually become indifferent. At the same time, your family will strongly oppose your idea. This is the main reason why people stay away from people whose life is tourism.

At first glance, people who take tourism as their life meaning and status quo envy Mu Yi. It seems that this kind of life style is pursued by all people, but after careful study, you will find that most people who take tourism as their life are slow-witted or introverted friends, and then they are abstinent, and at the same time they are tired of the life of being addicted to money and material desires, thus pursuing an ideal life that is plain and natural. In addition, these people have strong perseverance, endurance and eternal peace of mind. In this age of temptation, it is difficult for most people to exercise self-discipline. If conditions don't allow, they can eat no meat for a year, and take a bath with snow at the foot of the snowy mountain. They can live by the ice lake for several months without feeling bored. They can even suffer from the lack of internet, record their journey with paper and pencil, and then send photos to distant relatives and friends by mail. Once a person with such a strong belief becomes your friend, there is only one result waiting for you: being influenced or even changed by it.

it is a realistic problem that many people don't want to face but can't turn a blind eye to. For those who love or even are obsessed with traveling, whether it is soul or body, as long as one can be on the road. But the reality is often that the vast majority of their savings are spent on travel phone bills. But now I want to change the routine lifestyle and take tourism as my daily lifestyle. This idea is certainly good, but remember to ask yourself before you start, or look at yourself from the inside out: "Do you really have this ability and condition now?" So I'm going to use "do everything" in this one.