If you want to change, you must have timely psychological hints to remind yourself to be decisive. If you do it, you won't regret it. If you regret it, you won't do it. Secondly, we should be considerate when doing things, but we should not be trivial and hesitant. Don't worry too much, even if you are wrong, it will help you. What are you afraid of? There is no success without failure!
Indecision is a common phenomenon in life. Some people go to the streets to buy TV sets, but because they are expensive and not famous brands, they often compare and shake them repeatedly. As a result, I ran to many stores and visited many times, but I just couldn't make up my mind.
Psychologists believe that the psychological phenomenon of indecision and indecision in dealing with problems is a sign of weak will.
Why are some people prone to repetition and indecision? This is mainly because:
1. Cognitive impairment: Psychology believes that the lack of a clear understanding of the nature of the problem is the reason why people can't make up their minds and have psychological conflicts. As long as we observe carefully, it is not difficult to find that indecision mostly happens to young people, because young people are inexperienced and lack the necessary knowledge and experience for some things.
2. Emotional stimulation: As the saying goes: "Once bitten by a snake, twice shy". Once you encounter a similar situation, you will have a negative conditioned reflex and hesitate.
3. Personality characteristics: Generally speaking, indecisive people have the following personality characteristics: lack of self-confidence, fragile feelings, easy to be hinted, following the crowd, being too cautious and so on.
4. Lack of training: since childhood, these people have lived a ready-made life of "clothing to reach for food" in spoiled families and foundations, and their parents, brothers and sisters are their crutches. Once this kind of person enters the society alone, it is easy to be indecisive.
On the other hand, the family is too strict since childhood, and the people taught by this kind of education can only follow the rules and dare not cross the line. Once the situation changes, they will worry about not meeting the requirements and wander about motivation and determination.
How to overcome this indecision and indecision?
1. Self-reliance and self-improvement: cultivate the courage and confidence of self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement, and cultivate the good quality of independent will in your own character.
2. Decide on trade-offs: Don't pursue perfection. "There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect", and people can decide whether to choose without violating the universal principle.
3. Be courageous and knowledgeable: Psychology believes that people's decision-making level is closely related to their knowledge and experience. The richer a person's knowledge and experience, the higher his decision-making level; On the contrary, the lower. This is what the saying goes, "Be courageous and knowledgeable, knowledgeable and brave." .
4. Active thinking: "If you give something, you will stand; if you don't give anything, you will waste it." You should use your head, study hard and think more at ordinary times, which is the premise and foundation of having an opinion at a critical moment.
5. Calm down when things go wrong: eliminate external interference and hints, stabilize emotions, and carefully analyze from the outside to the inside, which also helps to cultivate decisive will.
If you can't make up your mind, just follow your sixth sense. Right or wrong, you don't have to regret success or failure. At least you tried!