Since it is a relationship between husband and wife, it is a matter of two people. When you are young, you may not need a woman to deliberately safeguard your own advantages because of your appearance, physical quality, passion and so on, because your own advantages are there, just like peaches and plums are speechless!
However, with the growth of age, women's own advantages gradually decline until there is no advantage at all, which is an indisputable fact, and women also need not say anything!
First of all, your once proud figure and appearance are gradually diminishing. If you are not a deliberately carved woman, you may be old! Secondly, it is your mentality, which is terrible. If your mentality is old, then the problem is more serious, because the other party may score twice!
All kinds of semi-old Xu Niang have no chance with you!
By this time, some women tend to let nature take its course, thinking that people will eventually get old and no longer deliberately dress up. In fact, this is not right, because it involves the other half, because you are just a wife, and there is a husband opposite you, and the husband and wife are complete together!
So, over forty, have you considered each other's ideas? Or, what kind of state are men and women in? Who has more social advantages, a man of forty or a woman of forty?
It is now accepted that a flower in july rhapsody is worth 40 pieces of bean curd! Personally, I think this view is not objective and extreme.
But the reality is that the 40-year-old woman is really not as good as before. The once delicate and beautiful woman is gradually drifting away, replaced by unpretentious, and then people are old and yellow. Of course, there are large areas in the middle, some of which are still charming, some of which are fading and some are dull. The general trend is to return to dullness after prosperity!
Then, as women, should you consider the dullness? At least keep a certain rhythm and pace with men to keep the relationship between husband and wife young forever!
Some women may not agree, and think it is better to let nature take its course, instead of pursuing and maintaining it deliberately!
The answer I gave is to maintain it, because it is a flower in july rhapsody!
Secondly, the mentality of a 40-year-old man is the most severe period of change. During this period, men's mature breath does not speak for themselves, and they are very able to take care of women of all ages. Even if this man is orthodox and upright, but the trees are quiet and the wind often blows, if this man has a successful career, then, with the money in today's society first, then, women of all sizes will be eyeing up, and once this man has a trouble, these large and small people will rush in!
Coupled with the gradual retreat of your own advantages, will you still be indifferent at this moment? I'm afraid it's too late
Therefore, I still advise my female compatriots to plan ahead, plan ahead, and nip in the bud! Unless you have other strong ways to subdue your husband's restless heart, a man's heart is not restless. Don't take any chances, men are all that stuff!
If not, the way is nothing more than delaying your aging and blocking your appearance to be dull. Smelly men are all like this. They like the new and hate the old. This kind of love for the new and hate the old is not emotional in many cases, but physical, and often they can't help themselves. Therefore, women should not be too confident and think about their men. That is self-deception.
Don't deny that physically, women just age faster than men! I also admit that your old woman still likes you, but remember, that's giving up his constant affection. When another woman appears, he still gives up his constant affection for you, but he will never delay his so-called love for another woman, understand!
Many men can handle the delicate relationship between them, and things that are often impossible to women can happen to men. Heaven and earth make people, and men and women are different, not only in their physical form, but also in their psychological thinking. Woman, let's have a long snack!
Therefore, the only way for a 40-year-old woman to keep her husband and maintain the relationship between husband and wife is to maintain herself. Everything else is nonsense. Dress herself as young as possible, at least, in line with her husband's aging!
Another trick, occasionally playing with missing, is a bit profound, and you can understand it yourself! Don't imagine how noble your man is and how deep your feelings are with you. In front of other women, the so-called nobleness and profundity will be worthless!
Remember, men's thinking is different from that of women. There are few noble men, or almost none, unless they are sick! Some sanctimonious men are even more worthless!