My mother said that she wanted a quiet daughter very much, but unfortunately she was not blessed and gave birth to me rashly.
I remember when I was seven years old, my father wanted to buy a car, my uncle was a staff officer, and the two families went to Santana 4S shop together. The shopping guide girl is very enthusiastic. Introduce this car first, then that one. Dad and uncle are very excited and get into the car from time to time. Mom and aunt stood by and laughed, because mom had the right to decide. My little cousin and I are tinkering with that new car.
Playing crazy, my little cousin ran around, and I chased after him and regarded the 4S shop as a big playground. Running and chasing, I found a glass door with an office in it, and no one was there. I suddenly had the idea of locking my little cousin in and watching him cry. When I made up my mind, I was immediately tempted: "Hey, there is a car on the table inside." Say and pretend to go in.
The little cousin is very easy to coax, shrugging his shoulders and going first. "Ha, it's a trap!" I was so happy that I slammed the glass door with all my strength.
Unexpectedly, I was in trouble! Boom! The glass door suddenly collapsed! "Mao" rang again, hitting my forehead and exploding into large and small pieces of glass, jumping around on the ground like shrapnel.
All the people in the shop were stunned by the loud noise. In a short time, my mother and aunt came running screaming, and the shopping guide sister followed my father and uncle. At this time, I have shaken off all the debris and looked at my little cousin lying underground in panic, as well as the big glass across his neck. He was dizzy and waited for a while to look at me.
"Don't move," my uncle shouted, carefully removing the big glass. Fortunately, the collar of the clothes was blocked and the skin was not cut.
Seeing that my little cousin was fine, everyone came to see me again. I accidentally touched my forehead. Well, why are there pits? Still wet. It doesn't matter if you touch it, the blood begins to flow downwards. After a while, the clothes were covered with blood spots.
I won't elaborate on the future. First, I went to a nearby small clinic to wash and dress, intravenous injection, ointment, and wrapped layers of white gauze on my head. I became a seriously injured person in the school.
After half a month, the white gauze was taken off, fortunately, it was above the forehead, because what we were dealing with at that time did not leave a scar. Otherwise, I don't know what will happen later!
Oh, impulse is the devil, recklessness is the monster. From then on, whenever I came up rashly, the adults would talk about the bleeding. Later, I would often stroke my hair and touch my forehead hit by a glass door to remind myself to be calm and not to get into trouble again.
How can we be calm? The only way is to live a good life and improve infinitely. Oh, I can't help it. People are not good, so you have to.
Have you ever heard of the nightingale concert? Her golden voice can sing the most beautiful soprano in the world and win many loyal fans.
Have you ever heard the sound of rain beads playing the piano? "Like pouring large and small pearls into a plate of jade", every note played by Yuzhu is wonderful and dreamy.
Have you ever heard a mother whisper to her child? Like white feathers falling from the sky, very soft, very soft, very soft.
How beautiful and natural these sounds are, but some of them are annoying. Dad's snoring is intermittent, like a mountain peak, like a thunderbolt, like the roar of a lion, so that my mother and I can't sleep. But what can I do? I can't block dad's nostrils! Grandma's nagging is always endless, telling me to put on more clothes when it's cold, so that I can cherish my time and do more homework … There's nothing I can do about it. I can't seal my elders' mouths with a piece of cloth! My brother pestered me with a test paper and asked questions like a "chirping" sparrow. If I yell at him unhappily, he looks at me with big eyes and grandma will jump out again. I am helpless as a sister, but I can't tear up that test paper, can I?
Are these annoying noises hateful noises? No, it's not. Dad's snoring is fatigue, which is the hard work of making money to support his family; Grandma's nagging voice is caring and meticulous love; The voice of my brother asking questions shows that he is eager to learn and progress.
Yes, many seemingly annoying voices in life are actually not annoying. If you hear the "squeak" sound of rubber rubbing against paper, please don't cover your ears impatiently, but be glad that I corrected a mistake in time and learned knowledge. Great! If you hear the "banging" sound of buildings in the construction site, please don't complain that it disturbs your dream, but sigh: Great, the construction project of our motherland has taken another step forward! ……
Sound is as ubiquitous as air. What we have to do is not to exclude and cover up the sound, but to understand and enjoy it!
Don't blindly compare the composition to what Confucius said: "Busy makes many mistakes." This sentence means to do things quickly and slowly, and you will make many mistakes blindly. Yesterday, my friends and I went out of the classroom to do exercises. Walking, I saw a little girl wearing a purple Webster coat with the same hairstyle as my cousin. I mistook her for my cousin I was about to shout, but I looked at her again and felt a little different. I walked around and looked in front of her. Oh, no. I'm glad I didn't call her, otherwise, I wouldn't be joking! From this, I understand, don't take it for granted and do it blindly. Doing things blindly will lead to many mistakes. For example, in the math exam, if you copy the wrong number in order to catch up with the time, you will be deducted a lot of points. When you answer a question, you think you have done this question, so you take it for granted that you have written the answers to other questions. Needless to say, the consequences are absolutely wrong. Many examples prove that doing things blindly equals doing things for nothing. So, how to do things? To do something, you must think through your brain before you do it. Confucius once said, "Think twice before you act". This sentence clearly tells us that to do one thing, we must think a lot. Although I have thought about it, I can't take it for granted and I can't rush for success. I must think carefully about how to do it. Is there a simple way to do it? After doing this, you can go back and savor how you did it. If it is successful, think about how you did it successfully. If you fail, think about why you failed. What is the problem? What should I do to do this kind of thing in the future? In this way, one thing is really done with great care. Here, I sincerely tell you that doing things blindly is a bad phenomenon and the consequences are not good. You must think through your brain before you do it!
Don't dream (composition 800 words) Don't dream.
Life needs ideals, but distant ideals can make people lose motivation.
I will enter this semester with a brand-new look. In the past six months, I will be positive and make continuous progress. In order to improve my academic performance, I will make a study plan for this semester at the beginning of the new semester. I will cherish every minute. When you encounter problems that you can't solve, you will humbly ask your classmates or teachers. I have many shortcomings: teachers always make mistakes, and I will be careless and careless in exams.
So, according to my own shortcomings, I made several study plans:
1. Finish your homework conscientiously and wholeheartedly, and treat each class with a correct learning attitude.
2. After the homework is not finished, review what you learned that day, firmly remember what you learned that day, preview what you will attend class the next day, and prepare for your active speech the next day.
3. However, if you encounter problems you don't understand, you should ask the teacher in time. If you don't understand, you can't stop. You must pretend to understand.
Listen to English for 30 minutes before going to bed every night to train your listening.
During the exam, take every question seriously, pay attention to simple questions and difficult questions, and don't easily put questions that you don't understand.
6. Listen carefully in class, speak actively and don't make small moves. Try to digest all the contents of the teacher's lecture and keep your thoughts in sync with the teacher's. Organize class notes on time every day, review the content of Dantian on the same day, and master it on the same day. Now do the basic knowledge well and understand it, and then don't do any special training when the basic knowledge is good. The key learning contents are solved one by one from difficult to easy.
7. Read three compositions on time every day, increase your vocabulary and learn more good sentences and paragraphs, so that you won't lose points in the exam.
In learning, it is also important to set learning goals. Setting learning goals means setting a direction to work hard. Correct learning goals can motivate people to move forward. Without learning goals, it is a great waste of events. My temporary goal is to enter the top five in my class.
When I make a study plan, I must carry it out. It's not easy to do things at all. I just need to work hard, be diligent and strive for the highest level.
The difference between a blind aunt's twisted maternal love and doting lies in the difference between reason and blindness! -inscription "ah! I want to eat chocolate, chocolate! " I heard a 2-year-old boy crying for chocolate in his seat. "Good, good, good! Get off later and buy it for you! " A woman stroked the boy's head and said. But the boy's crying was getting louder and louder, which made everyone in the car frown, but the woman was fully aware of this and there was no embarrassment on her face. Isn't this a true portrayal of parents' education for their children now? As long as the child wants something, parents will buy something for the child! Blind, thoughtless and inconsiderate. Nowadays, children, teenagers and young people are mostly only children, and they are the apple of their eye. Everyone in the family is around them, and they have developed a disgusting feeling of reaching for clothes and full of food. Just like the 2-year-old boy, he wanted chocolate, and his aunt immediately promised him. Even if he cried and shouted, my aunt would tolerate it and wouldn't think it would affect others. Does the boy want chocolate today? Can you give it to him? If you want toys tomorrow, you can give them. In the future, he wants a golden house. Can you still give it to him? Is blind love really that kind of sacred love? Don't! Perhaps, this is just a kind of doting. What is true maternal love and fatherly love? Looking for it-walking in the rain, two figures appeared in front of me-the big figure was holding a red umbrella in her left hand, and the small figure was standing on her left with a pink schoolbag on her back. The little girl Zou Zhumei cocked her head and asked her father, "Dad, the umbrella is crooked!" " "No" Uncle answered uneasily at random. After walking for a while, the girl found that the clothes on her father's right arm were wet, and then reminded: "Dad, the umbrella is really crooked. Are you tired? Let me support it! " "No, no, baby, help dad open an umbrella when he grows up!" Uncle smiled kindly and his face was filled with happiness. But walking behind them, I clearly saw that the bright red umbrella was really leaning towards the little girl. There is a kind of love called caring. When I was 6 or 7 years old, I had a fever once. I had hoped that my mother would take some time to accompany me for infusion, but I got the answer that my mother was going to study at night. She didn't make any changes for my illness at all. I can't figure it out. Isn't getting sick more important to me than studying by myself last night? I took the money and went to the community hospital alone. I was lying in bed with an infusion, and I was very uncomfortable when I saw other patients accompanied by their families. After returning home, my mother said to me, "I want to exercise your ability to live alone." Do you think my mother really wants to? " There is a kind of love called giving up. There are thousands of kinds of true love, but many parents love their children too much and turn rational love into blind doting. Only when children are young, they are willing to let them suffer a little. When they grow up, they will not go astray, and they will be sensible and know how to be human. Parents: Let go of your hands and we will grow up!
Don't blindly listen to the gap in other people's composition life, which will make people involuntarily have the psychology of comparing, and blind comparison will make people habitually compare their own efforts and returns with a person with the same conditions. If the ratio of the two is roughly equal, then there is a sense of fairness to each other. If the proportion of the other party is greater than that of the other party, then the other party will have psychological imbalance. Some * * * officials naturally feel unbalanced when they see that officials at the same level use cars higher than themselves, and their houses are more spacious than themselves, even worse than those who are lower than themselves, so it is not surprising to change cars to build houses. The main reason is psychological induction. It's like a group of sisters, accompanied by dissatisfaction. Comparison is the premise and inducement of dissatisfaction, which is more unprincipled and temperate than ease, wealth and extravagance, and even psychologically unbalanced. Some people pursue personal fame and fortune indefinitely because they can get ahead in these wrong comparisons and then push themselves into the abyss of corruption. A civil servant lived a quiet life. One day, he received a phone call from a high school classmate. I haven't seen you for more than ten years. * * * went to the party with the joy of reunion. In the past, my old classmates knew how to do business, live in luxury houses, drive famous cars and look like successful people. * * * * * Back in the office, I seem to be a different person, sighing all day and telling everyone about my troubles. "This boy, he always fails the exam. Why does he have so much money? " He said, "Although our wages are not as good as those of the rich, isn't it enough?" Colleagues comforted and said, "Have you spent enough? Our wages can't be saved to buy Mercedes-Benz for a lifetime, "he said. "We are an office, and we don't have to buy a car if we have money. Colleagues are very open-minded, but they are unhappy all day, and then they are seriously ill and bedridden. Comparison is a sword that cuts deep into the soul. It is not good for people and a few people, but only hurts their own happiness and happiness. But comparison is the most fickle side of human nature. When it comes to comparison, people naturally think of women, because women are most sensitive to things. But women's sensitivity and delicacy show a comparison. Qiaojie is a veritable strong woman in the eyes of others, capable, decisive and straightforward. Some male colleagues who rallied around her praised her unique cleanliness. Therefore, she called them brothers. But suddenly one day, she overheard one of her colleagues say, "Qiaojie is fine, but a little less feminine. You see, she is a good wife when she is quiet. " .。 。" Sister Qiao is very sad. Although she is a strong woman in others' eyes, she wants to be a woman like water in others' eyes. So in the days to come, she tried to make herself feminine. "Walk gracefully" and speak with "soft voice and soft breath". But his delicate affectation is neither fish nor fowl in the eyes of others, which makes people feel strange. His feminine taste has become eccentric, and his heart is more wronged. He was depressed all day and his work performance plummeted. In fact, everyone in life has their own personality, whether it is a strong woman or a man, it is best to be an original self. Qiaojie doesn't like other people's femininity to make her strong, so she has a strange smell, which makes people feel false, artificial and unreal. Qiaojie felt very uncomfortable when she heard her colleague say that she was not feminine. When she put this discomfort into action, she developed from subconscious to comparison psychology. This kind of comparison will often bring great impact to your heart because you can't get recognition from others. If the heart is strong, the impact will not invade and affect life. If the inner endurance is weak, the impact will take advantage of it and affect personal life. Therefore, it is particularly important to recognize yourself in life, and don't blindly compare yourself to a sword that stabs you.
You can't blindly give your child a free composition! You can't be a man without an opinion, and you can't do things without an opinion. It's harder to stick to your own opinion, and it's harder to stick to your own opinion. Blind self-confidence is stubbornness, partial belief is confusion. Correct opinions reflect the essence of things. Insisting on one's own opinions means insisting on being straightforward and winning. Truth is always discovered by a few people, but not recognized by most people. If you need someone to nod, then your business will be as plain as a grain of sand by the river. People who have their own opinions must have them.
Confucius said, "Busy makes many mistakes." This sentence means to do things quickly and slowly, and you will make many mistakes blindly.
Yesterday, my friends and I went out of the classroom to do exercises. Walking, I saw a little girl wearing a purple Webster coat with the same hairstyle as my cousin. I thought she was my cousin, so I wanted to shout, but when I saw it, I felt a little different. I walked around and looked in front of her. Oh, no. I'm glad I didn't call her, otherwise, I wouldn't be joking! I understand from this matter, don't take it for granted and do it blindly.
Therefore, we should not be impatient and blind. We should have a plan, handle all kinds of affairs calmly, and be prepared for emergencies. We should have a minimum and maximum grasp of any situation under special circumstances, do not go out of line, and make things develop along the general idea and direction.
Blindly encouraging writing 85 words is an unforgettable lesson.
Ah! I finally finished learning Unit 6 of Chinese, and I felt relaxed all over. However, the tense exam is about to begin again. After school in the afternoon, Mr. Chen asked us to go home and review the content of this unit carefully to prepare for tomorrow's Chinese exam. The students all sighed after hearing the news. "What exam!" It seems that I can't go home to play again today. "I didn't care." What's the big deal about the exam? Wait and see! I'm a genius. I'm sure I'll get the first place in the exam if I don't review my books! "Looking at nervous classmates, I secretly laughed at them.
When I got home, I threw away my schoolbag as usual and couldn't wait to sit at my computer desk and play the game Delta Force. I got carried away with excitement. I can't bear to turn off the computer until my mother urges me to eat again and again.
After dinner, I hurried through my math homework, watched TV for a while, and went to bed. I have completely forgotten the Chinese exam.
The next day, the time for the exam finally arrived. In class, many students turned over a few pages a few minutes before the exam, and some students picked up "weapons" to get through. There is a lot of noise in the classroom, such as tearing paper, throwing books and sharpening pencils. After a while, Mr. Chen walked into the classroom with a serious face, and the classroom was immediately silent. The students are waiting to hand out the test papers. The exam bell rang.
In the examination room, I was sweating with anxiety. Why can't I answer so many questions? It turns out that I can't remember how to write those familiar new words. The first page is barely ok, but the second page is not. All the problems have become "obstacles" and stood in front of me. Think about it. I can't beat it if I rack my brains. I looked around and my classmates were busy writing. Their faces are full of confidence, and some students have already answered them.
After the exam, all the students talked loudly and were in high spirits, singing, jumping and laughing like a caged bird. Their lightheartedness is indescribable. I am sad and unhappy, alas! Some people are really happy, others are sad.
A week later, the results came down. When the teacher announced the results, my heart was pounding with nervousness. There is no me in the top ten, and there is no me in the top twenty. After I squeezed into twenty, my classmates all laughed: "I still got the first place in the exam, but the last place is almost the same." My face turned red at once, and I bowed my head in the laughter of my classmates. I'm sorry to look for it like this. My heart seems to have been pricked by a needle, which makes me feel terrible. I lay on my desk, trying not to cry, but "Jin Doudou" dripped down.
Yes! I was laughed at by my classmates because of complacency and severely criticized by my teacher, which also made me understand the true meaning of "modesty makes people progress and arrogance makes people lag behind" From then on, whenever I make some achievements and feel proud, I will think of this lesson, which urges me to forge ahead and encourages myself.
Don't do things blindly. The mistake of following blindly lies in blindness. An admirable philosopher, a red apple, let blind followers smell the fragrance of the apple. Where does the smell of nothingness come from? It comes from blind worship of authority, from taking bright apples for granted, and from blindly following others. Only obedience is in my eyes, so my heart is deceived! If you want the truth and embrace it, please refuse to follow blindly. Refuse to blindly follow authority. Although authority was not built in a day, it has its own advantages over ordinary people, and its words are often beaten to death, which makes people wake up with a word. Lu Xun is such a great soldier. However, in today's flashy and noisy utilitarian world, many swindlers are labeled as experts, professors and masters. From Lin Guangchang, who eats sweet potatoes but doesn't drink milk, to Baliren, who is desperate for medical treatment, to Ma Yueling, who eats raw loach, and then to Zhang Wuben, who eats what he eats back, these people have published books, made reports and treated diseases under the banner of health experts, and accumulated a lot of money, which has harmed many kind and stupid people. I don't think it's that they are clever in deception, nor that they are gorgeous in deception, but that the halo on their heads is too dazzling. Advise friends, in the face of those so-called titles and titles, please keep a calm heart. Refuse to blindly follow others. A student said that when he smelled apples, someone immediately followed him, and some didn't even smell them. There are many such young people in life. They saw a person buying a car and a house, regardless of their own economic strength, blindly following the trend and eventually becoming a car slave and a house slave. Some parents saw Lang Lang's father cultivate a piano prince with the bonzi policy, and forced his children to practice piano every day, regardless of their talent. As a result, the adults complained and the children lost their happy childhood. People are different and have their own strengths. Whether we can copy other people's experience depends on whether we have a clear understanding of ourselves. Refuse to blindly follow the trend. The wind in the world blows in all directions, east, west, north and south. When the wind is strong, tides form. Now the ebb and flow in China. Shopping tide, going abroad tide, Ha Han tide, Ha Ri tide ... In March this year, an unprecedented earthquake broke out in Japan, followed by tsunami and nuclear radiation. At the same time, the complicated national order of China people has been fighting against disasters in an orderly way, but the tide of grabbing salt broke out in the mainland of China. Once, all the streets and alleys were descendants of the "salt shortage". What a pity! In the face of various tides, we should keep a cool head and make rational judgments. See xian Si Qi, see not introspection. Good people and bad people have to use their brains, open their eyes and make a scientific distinction, not only for Apple, but also for the world!