Take the time when two people got along with each other as an example. And whether the parents of both sides are willing to have deep exchanges. It is also the main reason that affects the development of two people.

Are there three views of harmony and discord in the same language, and are the six views close or not?

Maybe the conversation is separated, which means that two people still have no real soul integration experience.

Of course, in the case of spending a good full moon, most people always want to stabilize the relationship. It is more suitable to meet each other with both parents after half a year or three months.

Of course, ask the woman or the man for advice. Parents should be the first to know. You also need to inform your parents when you meet, and you also need an advance arrangement from the other side. We can't do it abruptly.

If you really can't, find a middleman to talk to the other parents. Doing the same can also achieve the goal. It will not hurt the feelings and faces of both sides. Try to give the woman's parents a long face. This is a function of your future son-in-law's half son. Let the other person rest assured that you can manage and reach the level of family responsibilities and obligations in the future, and improve the comprehensive quality of being a husband. Only in this way can parents have the confidence to marry their daughter to you. In order to achieve success.

It's good to spend a little longer, until you can judge:

1. His attitude towards his work, whether he is dedicated and enterprising, determines his ability to make money.

Second, what attitude to treat friends, whether they are sincere and willing to help others sincerely, which determines whether his social support system is strong or not.

Third, what attitude to treat elders? A person who respects elders and is willing to consider their positions shows that he knows how to give back and is grateful. Of course, this is not a foolish filial piety.

Fourth, what is the attitude when encountering difficulties? A person's attitude towards difficulties can reflect whether he is strong and optimistic, and whether he has the ability to solve various problems and tests given by life with you. 5. What's his attitude when you are sick or in trouble? Whether he can understand you and take responsibility for you when you need him is the most important relationship chip for the couple in the future. If he only cares about himself, you should consider it no matter how rich and capable he is.

Why should we review these?

First, because each of us wants to find a partner worthy of relying on and entrusting, this person can't be perfect, but the minimum quality is necessary, such as having a certain ability to make money and being able to support the family with you; Have certain psychological ability, and can handle interpersonal and family relationships.

Second, because once we take him to see his parents, his parents will think that you are 80% sure of this person. Bringing him to see his parents means that you have to confirm the relationship, not ask for permission, so if this person does not have obvious problems, it will take him a few days to go home, and his parents will not have much time and opportunity to help you judge these.

Therefore, in the end, we are going to marry this person, and we must polish our eyes to distinguish clearly.