"oh"
"hmm"
"Hehe"
"oh"
"whatever"
"Drink more water"
"Ha ha"
"ah"
"Oh, I see."
"Really!"
"What's the matter?"
"I'm busy"
Did you get any of the above?
In order not to be blacked out "inexplicably"
Now give you a few tricks:
When you really don't know what to say and can't help but write "hmm", "ah" and "oh", use reduplicated words, such as "mm-hmm", "ah-ah" and "oh-oh", because reduplicated words make people feel warmer and naturally have cute attributes. Think about how babies can understand one thing or two when they say "have dinner" and "play house" when they are young, which is popular now.
Often, some people think that less reply and less reply can reflect my ability and busyness, but I don't know that your self-righteous reply attracts not worship but boredom, and truly capable people will intelligently balance the boundaries between enthusiasm and high and low. It is also very infectious for cattle people to occasionally sell cute in the gap between high and cold. It is also a seasoning in life for amateurs to occasionally install high and cold.
If you are really busy, it is much better to reply to a friend "in a meeting" or what he is doing than to echo "uh-huh" without paying attention at all, which represents respect for the other party rather than perfunctory.
The latest research found that if the baby sends a signal to his mother, and the mother can give an accurate response within seven seconds, the baby will not feel frustrated. If it takes more than seven seconds, a sense of frustration will arise. If you are always frustrated, or even completely frustrated-the mother basically does not respond, then the baby will reduce or even never respond to the mother. In order not to enter the blacklist of friends, you should respond to the information given to you in time.
Timely response is also an important basis for reflecting the sense of existence of both parties. A friend of mine sent an article to the effect that the most wonderful thing is that when you talk to your friend, the top of the WeChat dialog box shows "The other party is typing ..."
Some people are lazy. For new friends, either the phone number doesn't store the address book, or WeChat doesn't note detailed information such as name, occupation and hobbies. When a friend contacts you by phone or WeChat, the possible scenario is that you don't know who this is, so the opening word becomes "Hello, who is it?" "What is it?" Something like that, when the other party reports himself, I think the other party can see your embarrassed face from the other end of the phone.
If you always do this, it will be difficult to make friends, because you don't pay attention to this yourself. If you want to have a good relationship and a good circle, please edit your notes in detail for your new friends from now on.
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