We don't need a white lie in life. First, we think that to distinguish things, we should first start with the definition and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. Although the motives of white lies are well-intentioned, they are often criticized because of the uncertainty of good intentions. Professional liar? Use-this is an indisputable fact. ? The truth of a lie itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.
Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, which means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As Hu Jintao said in his speech: The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society of democracy and rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, full of vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature. ?
From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
There is no need for white lies in life. First, white lies are out of goodwill, with the purpose and starting point of safeguarding the interests of others. As we all know, contradictions can be divided into universality and particularity, and particularity is contained in particularity and different from universality. The essence of a white lie determines that it is not malicious, but based on inner sincerity and kindness, and a white lie is an act of seeking benefits for the liar. By taking others as a means, there is only a strong desire for profit and a weak rationality, and it does not hesitate to hurt others. Is a kind person in a certain state? Forced? The lie is well-intentioned, and it is a kind of friendliness and concern for the subject. However, unscrupulous people, no matter how to disguise, how to use rhetoric, how to rack their brains to put on a good hat for their malicious lies, all their lies have malicious purposes. Obviously, a white lie does not hinder honesty. I have an example here:
My eyes are always moist when I read The Last Leaf by O'Henry, a famous American short story writer. When the sick girl Schumann looked at the withered leaves and was desperate, the caring painter decorated the withered tree of life with carefully sketched green leaves, thus maintaining a dying light of life. Isn't this the acme of lies?
Second: White lies are a way of life and a reflection of considerate quality. Relatives and friends of terminally ill patients always tell their illness lightly with white lies and encourage him to cooperate with doctors. I'm sure none of you here will accuse them of dishonesty, will you?
Third: white lies are a kind of lies, but not telling lies will definitely hinder honesty. It is necessary to analyze specific problems. Honesty is respected by everyone because it is kind and does not cheat. Essentially, it exists because telling the truth interferes with the principle of goodness.
White lies and honesty are actually the relationship of unity of opposites, and the so-called violation only provides a useful supplement to honesty, not an obstacle. For example, it is stipulated that pedestrians in the same direction can only occupy half of the road, which does not hinder everyone's passage!
Fourth: A world without lies is like a dust-free earth. We agree that a white lie does not hinder honesty, but it depends on the degree. Statement:
What is lying? If it is indiscriminate, it is defined as: not seeking truth from facts, telling lies, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. Then our life is full of lies, big and small, from inflammatory advertisements to sweet words between lovers, full of exaggerated words, and even Lian Wenxue's works have become lies. Everyone has a standard of lying in his heart. How to grasp this level is our first consideration. Compared with lies with bad motives, white lies will make people's feelings more harmonious and harmonious, and life more interesting. It can skillfully avoid conflicts, realize emotional communication and communicate smoothly. How can it interfere with honesty? So learn to distinguish malicious lies and protect yourself from harm; At the same time, improve your self-cultivation and think about the best way to solve the problem. ? The way of a university lies in virtue, in being close to the people, and in perfection? . As for those that are warm and make life full of interest; As for those lies full of kindness and compassion, let them bloom!
I believe that under the sky of goodwill, our world will be better! !
Adults teach us not to lie, but many parents forget to tell them that there is another kind of white lie in the world. Kind people think about it: how many times have we told white lies when we were growing up? In order not to embarrass others, to make others feel uncomfortable, and to make ourselves feel ashamed, we lied, but we are kind people! Lies out of good wishes are the nourishment of life and the source of faith. It makes people ignite the fire of hope from the heart and firmly believe that there is love, trust and emotion in the world, thus finding more reasons to laugh at life. White lies endow humanity with spirituality, reflect the delicacy of emotions and the maturity of thoughts, and urge people to be strong and persistent, to fight for it involuntarily, and finally to overcome their fragility and survive.
There is no need for a white lie debate in life;
Today, I am very happy to put forward my own views on the debate whether white lies hinder integrity. The following is our opinion: There is no doubt that a white lie is a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? Our relatives, friends or strangers have many purposes, but when we add one to a lie? Goodwill? Sometimes, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is a concentrated expression of human weakness. Even a white lie, as a lie itself, is a violation of honesty. Therefore, whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, as a lie itself will inevitably hinder honesty. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. Although the motives of white lies are well-intentioned, they are often criticized because of the uncertainty of good intentions. Professional liar? Use-this is an indisputable fact. ? The truth of a lie itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith. How can you have a good impression? ! It's goodwill! Why lie? ! If a person loses integrity, he will leave hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses integrity, it will face bankruptcy; And if a nation loses its integrity, it will degenerate and perish!
Keeping faith is the pure land of keeping faith, keeping faith is the success of keeping faith, and keeping faith is that the Chinese nation can last forever.
Here I want to ask other students, when a person loses integrity, is his starting point still good? Are white lies more like excuses? !
Anyone who uses an excuse wants to use it to protect himself or others. Help us save face and let us endure setbacks.
Gasmel said: It is quite common to think that you are better than yourself. ? The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why should people deceive themselves? American humorist Ryder pointed out:? Most people don't live in reality, but in fantasy, especially in their own fantasy. ? On the other hand, it is sometimes cruel to know the truth about yourself and your friends. Better not know.
However, most excuses are destructive. If you use excuses unconsciously, you will fool yourself even if you don't fool others. So I ask the other party to realize that more honesty and less excuses! At the same time, I want to ask each other, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and make our country develop further in honesty?
The second defense:
In an environment where the whole society does not stress honesty, you are the only one who stresses honesty and trustworthiness, but honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of being a man and should not be a condition for being on par with others. The society is progressing continuously, and internationalization is getting closer and closer to us. A villain who earns the interests of others by fraud will eventually be spurned. In this way, your honesty and faith will gain the trust of most people, and your road will be wider and wider.
Three arguments:
You see, there are many lies in life. How despicable it is for those people to deceive those innocent and kind people with malicious lies! Some people say that lies are divided into white lies and malicious lies, but if you think about it carefully, white lies are also lies, malicious lies are also lies, and lies are also lies, regardless of malicious goodwill; As Bai Zhantang said in The Legend of the Wulin: A thief is a thief, and there is no distinction between a good thief and a bad thief. A good thief is also a thief, and a bad thief is also a thief. Thieves are neither good nor bad. Then a lie is the same, a lie is a lie, there is no kindness or malice, after all, he still lied, he still cheated! No matter what kind of lies will be exposed sooner or later, you'd better tell the truth.
Four arguments: In recent years, people's voice for honesty has become stronger and stronger. This may not be because the credit records of ancient people in China are much better than now, but that people's credit consciousness is gradually awakening now. It's like a cake. Earlier, there was actually no cake in front of us. Everyone was in harmony and there was nothing to argue about. Now we live in an era where there is probably a cake for everyone to share, but the cake is not big enough to guarantee that everyone can get a piece of it. Moreover, there are no particularly clear and credible rules for sharing cakes. As a result, all beings are fighting with each other and even deceiving each other. There are naturally fewer cakes for others. At this time, people's call for honesty is the most urgent. With the gradual prosperity of society, cakes have become bigger, the rules of cake sharing have been clarified, and social integrity will be much better. Therefore, the people of China are so eager to call for honesty, not retrogression, but we are climbing the slope.
From Du Fu in ancient times? There are thousands of buildings in Ande, and all the poor people in the world are very happy. As a poor scholar at that time, he was very painful; And Bai Juyi's singing? I don't know if cold people want to be warm, so why not make people's clothes lichen? At that time, I believed that although he was an official, he was sincere. Because we were once too poor, honesty may always be a luxury in our dreams.
Now that China is getting richer, the problem of honesty suddenly appears. Almost all kinds of dishonest enterprises and individuals are around us, and all kinds of imaginative deception, such as putting some washing powder in steamed bread; Feed some lean meat or more water to the pigs; Feeding some birth control pills to turtles and eels is amazing. False advertisements, products and profits of various enterprises emerge in an endless stream, so that some people initiate the search for respectable listed companies in China stock market. Why is there a sudden lack of honesty, and we call for honesty so urgently?
At present, people's desire for honesty is actually prescient. If we still have nothing, we still have to strive for private practice, then our consciousness of respecting life, property and freedom will still fall asleep. It is precisely the more than 20 years of reform and opening up that have awakened people's awareness of sleeping. When we wake up, we are in an era when the cake is not big enough, so there are all kinds of dishonest disputes. In fact, behind it, it is just a profit! But this is still progress rather than retrogression. We often say that the United States is stupid when its citizens are honest, but Americans were not so honest a hundred years ago. In the past, it was almost common for toilet paper, tea cups and even towels to disappear from American motels. After the material wealth is abundant, there are fewer such things as stealing small wealth. The same is true in many places in China, such as Jinjiang, Fujian, Wenzhou, Zhejiang and so on. Their local products used to be synonymous with counterfeiting, but now the local economy and the rule of law have developed to a certain stage, and they themselves have to pay attention to honesty, which is very different from Amon in the Wu Dynasty. This is probably what we call eating and wearing warm clothes before we know honor and disgrace, and then we know etiquette!
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You don't need white lies in your life.
1. You don't need white lies in your life.
2. Do people want to talk about honesty or white lies?
3. Refute the defendant's white lies.
4. White lies, the other side's four arguments, and a summary statement
5. Debate white lies, 200 words of positive information.
6. There are three manuscripts about the debate on honesty.
7. Advantages and disadvantages of lying debate between honesty and goodwill.