How to reply when the other person "pats you".

Straight female reply:

(and took his picture). Stop filming and say something.

High EQ reply:

It's over. I see. I can't get up without two cups of milk tea. Don't talk. Wait for me to take the initiative Shoot again, and I'll rip your head off with my backhand. It's okay. Don't film me. You are in charge of filming feelings. Dad's head can be taken away if you like. Do you like me? Why else do you keep filming me? Please pay in time and arrange delivery as soon as possible.

Mental method

Learn to give feedback in everything, let the other person adjust the behavior language according to your feedback, and finally develop according to your envisaged trajectory. You give positive feedback when the other person has performed well recently. You give negative feedback when the other person doesn't perform well recently. The strength of feedback depends on your own willingness to develop.