It means you are not a fish, how can you know the happiness of fish?
"Zi Feiyu" comes from Zhuangzi's "Zhuangzi." "Autumn Water".
Original text: Zhuangzi and Huizi were swimming on Haoliang. Zhuangzi said: "Minnows swim leisurely, is this the joy of fish?" Huizi said: "You are not a fish, how can you know the joy of fish?" Zhuangzi said: "You are not me, how can you know that I don't know the joy of fish?" "Huizi said: "I am not a son, so I don't know how to be a son; I am not a fish, so I don't know how to enjoy fish." Zhuangzi said: "Please follow the principle. ) "Those who know the joy of fish ask me since they know what I know."
Vernacular text: Zhuang Zhou and Hui Shi were walking on the Haoshui Bridge. Zhuangzi said casually: "Those fishes in the river swim leisurely and leisurely. They are so happy!" Hui Shi asked: "You are not a fish, how do you know the happiness of fish?" Zhuangzi replied: "You are not me. "How do you know that I don't understand the happiness of fish?" Hui Shi asked again: "I'm not you, so of course I don't understand you; but you're not a fish either, so you definitely can't understand the happiness of fish!"
Zhuangzi replied calmly: "I would like to go back to the beginning of the conversation. Just now you asked me: 'Where did you know that fish are happy?' This means that you only knew that fish are happy." Ask me. Then let me tell you, I learned that fish are happy on the shore of Haoshui."
"You are not a fish, how can you know the happiness of fish" originally has three meanings. mean.
It can be simply understood that heterogeneous people cannot communicate with each other, and there is no way to communicate with each other. Just because vegetables and radishes have their own advantages, it is difficult to force them. Of course, it means that fish has its own happiness. , you have your sorrows.
When the ancients said this sentence, they used homophonic words, so it became "Zi Feiyu, how can I know the joy of Yu". The meaning is very plain, people's hearts are separated from each other, and each person has one person. You cannot fully understand your wish, so your sadness and joy belong to you and cannot be taken away or taken away by others.