I have heard such a passage that there are only two States in the relationship between people, either together or apart, and there is no gray area in the middle. You like a person, even if he is a little annoying, you will still make up for his dislike. Finally, you like it more than you hate being together. One day, you are too lazy to justify his dislike in your heart, and then, a little dislike will spread until you swallow up your love, and then you will separate.
Why don't those people who hate to occupy the whole feeling be separated? Because there are illusions, expectations, interests and complicated fetters. As long as there is a moment, they can bear it, at least in the physical state, they will still be together.
0 1, you said that two people are good and have an emotional foundation. Why did you break up?
You see, long-distance love, even if we are tired of talking on the phone for two hours every day, we share our lives, know each other's trivial things like the palm of our hand, and share our opinions. There are arguments and the joy of throwing stalks at each other, sharing boredom, sharing darkness with each other, laughing and wasting time, and sharing silence is just listening to each other's breathing.
Then, I will still take the time to buy a ticket to the other city, because face to face is practical, even if I don't talk, I will be practical. I can feel your eyes, your smile, your breath, the temperature of your holding my hand, and you are really in front of me.
We need this kind of real certainty. No matter how touching and humorous I describe a cow pill dancing in a hot pot, I can't compare it. When I point to the bouncing cow pill in the pot, you will smile and be so charming. One day, after I was busy, tired and annoyed with this real certainty, people began to panic. Afraid of being rejected, the little seed was planted with a full desire to share and was stopped by understanding.
The impulse to meet one side was stopped by reason, and the act of calling was replaced by a message. We finally became a very sensible couple. You ignored me and I ignored you. It is my gentleness not to disturb you, but it was also my gentleness to be willful and coquetry.
02, slowly, I can't find you, slowly, I can't find myself. Tell me, how can two lost people fall in love, play maze, and escape from the secret room? Later, why did they separate? Maybe they didn't need each other so much.
I used to think that I had to find someone to eat hot pot with, order sliced meat, fish balls and tripe blinds, order coke Sprite, and gobble up meat and clink glasses to talk about my dreams. Later, I found that it's not so bad for a person to eat spicy food with his head down. If it's spicy, just take a sip of milk. It turns out that nothing must be unique, and there are too many substitutes. As long as you understand what you want, it is quite easy to be happy.
At first, he really made your heart beat, and you really wanted to keep him in your world. You thought about the style of the wedding dress, the main course of the banquet, whether you want to have children, whether you give up your job, and whether there is a long way to go. After that, life throws you a handful of rattan pepper and time throws you a chicken rib. You begin to convince yourself slowly that he is not my destiny takes a hand, and it doesn't matter. One day, you jokingly ask him when he will marry me.
He said, wait a little longer, what a beautiful answer! You're smiling, quiet inside. It's not hard to put a heart-warming person back as an ordinary friend. It's just that my heart hurts, it hurts, and you don't know why tears are so disobedient. The more you care about it, the more it flows to you, and it makes your makeup look bad.
When did feelings begin to fade?
The little seed that I was afraid of being rejected was left in my heart. Later, you learned that rejection is not terrible at all. What is terrible is that the seed of hope was left in my heart, and I have been waiting for a long time, and I have long since given up looking forward to it. It's just that you still water and loosen the soil, but it doesn't matter whether it sprouts or blooms. What's important is that you don't want to betray the feelings you invested in before, and you were full of expectations. After all, we must be soberly aware that a monument is a scary spring.
03. Later, we exchanged feelings, cards and trust in the real certainty again and again. You see, we are all infatuated with the face-to-face kind of joys and sorrows. I can pass a paper towel when you cry, wipe it for you, hug you, and roll around laughing. However, if you are in my mobile phone, the joys and sorrows will be discounted by the internet speed.
Meeting is the highest sense of ceremony in feelings. You have to dress up, prepare, put on a heart, and then go to the mountains and seas to see you. As long as you see it, you will be practical.
As for the words you saved, how much you said, how much you missed, so what, you have so many grievances about life, just the moment you saw him, you were relieved. You see, there are so many hugs in the lobby where the airport and the train station arrive, so sweet. We like this kind of real certainty, real being together, and this kind of real face-to-face activation, so that a pair of people who have been deeply missed can take the trouble to meet.
If you like it, you should meet it. If you don't like it, you should meet it. We need a decent meeting and farewell. The road ahead is very long. If you go with him or not, you should tell him. This is like giving your rights.