1, I went back to my parents' home from winter solstice.

In some cities in northern China, people think that they can't go back to their parents' homes on the solstice of winter. This is because the feudal ethics of "three obedience and four virtues" restricts the daughter-in-law. In the past, the daughter-in-law would go back to her mother's house after the autumn harvest, so she had the custom of going back to her husband's house from winter to Sunday. Although there is no freedom in modern society if it is strictly observed, if family members are particularly concerned about these traditional customs, as the younger generation, we'd better discuss them with our families in good faith. The solstice in winter is a reunion festival, so we can't lose harmony with our families.

2. Get married on the solstice in winter

Generally speaking, it is not suitable for marriage around the solar terms. The ancients thought that the wedding day should be avoided from four days to the day before, that is, beginning of spring, Changxia, beginning of autumn, beginning of winter and the day before the vernal equinox, autumnal equinox, summer solstice and winter solstice in the 24 solar terms, and the universe was in a state of chaos. In traditional customs, it is considered as leaving on the 4th and 4th, so it is unlucky to get married at this time.

3. Winter goes to the solstice

In the legend of winter solstice, it is either impossible to go out or impossible to travel far. Because the winter solstice is the shortest white, it is said that this day is the time when Tengu came to the world to look for the incarnation, so you can't go far, and don't wander around when it is dark. It is also said that when Pangu opened the sky, it was the winter solstice. At this time, because the genius has just started, there is no evil and the world travels. But now the city is brightly lit at night, and people often go home to work and study at night, which is also helpless and does not need to be too concerned.

4. Exercise and health preservation is appropriate.

In sports, because everything is hidden in snow and solar terms, exercise and health preservation should also conform to the laws of nature. It is not appropriate to do too intense activities, but to work hard on the word "hide". For example, do stretching exercise every day when the sun is fine (9- 10 or 2-3 pm).

5. Personal care should be moderate.

In daily life, you should go to bed early and get up late, and then go out for activities when the sun comes out. At the same time, we should also wear more clothes to avoid unnecessary outdoor activities and prevent excessive consumption of yang. "Live regularly, recharge your batteries, don't act rashly, recharge your batteries." If you can arrange your daily life and rest reasonably in winter, you can maintain your spirit, and moderate work and rest can nourish kidney essence. Try to "walk without haste, listen, stare, sit short, lie tireless".