Tian Yulan, the mother played by Rulu, has a deformed love for her son Yanzi to a great extent. She wants her son to be the dragon and phoenix among people, and she wants to be the best son. But there is no such thing as the best. Although Ziyou is already the best among children of the same age, she is still not satisfied. Many times the audience can feel that her love has begun to deteriorate. Although her original intention is good, her way is really unsatisfactory. Li Nan's daughter Huanhuan spent endless tuition fees. In this process, Huanhuan has made progress, but her parents can't see her progress and only blame her for her slow progress.
In such a depressing environment, Huanhuan's personality has also changed. After the accidents, Nan Li and Xia Junshan also changed their education methods and stopped giving them that way. It's stressful. Among the three families, the Mi Tao family is the most distressing. Mi Tao is a gifted child. Her academic performance has been very good, and Mi Tao has never been worried about her studies. It is such a girl who is tortured by her family and becomes sensitive and inferior. Mi Tao suffered from depression and finally had to go back to his hometown in the country to recuperate. Three families are also three different stories. These children suffered a lot in the silent smoke of "going to school" Especially Mi Tao, who could have lived and studied happily, was hurt again and again by her parents. Many netizens lamented that family of origin was really hurting children.
In the play, Mi Tao's parents have been emphasizing their efforts and feel that they came to the big city for Mi Tao. This seems to be just a jingle, but for children, this sentence is a restraint, and they will feel that they are dragging their parents down. Once this idea takes root, it is difficult to get rid of it, and children will eventually be heavily in debt. Mi Tao is like this. Parents basically emphasize their contribution every day, while Mi Tao lives in guilt every day, feeling that parents have paid too much for themselves and must work harder to repay their parents. And Mi Tao's hard-working parents don't pay attention to it, which will make Mi Tao feel that he is not good enough and his nerves are in a tight state. She didn't dare to stop, because it would be unfilial to her parents if she stopped. How can a sensible child like Mi Tao do this? So she will only redouble her efforts.
Parents who are "poor and change" will give everything for their children and only have a better future for their children. This is the original intention of every parent. You can blindly emphasize your own efforts, which will only increase the pressure on children and eventually become as sensitive and fragile as Mi Tao. Huanhuan and Mi Tao in the play are children of the same age, and their parents know each other. It is inevitable that they will be compared. Mi Tao's mother always thinks that Mi Tao is convulsive all day, not cheerful and generous, and her personality is not pleasing. She hopes that Mi Tao can be like Huan Huan.