Such a thing, the day sister has come across more than once.
Let's talk about the most impressive one.
About 10 years ago, I used to serve the company has a security guard, called David it, after 85, local people, every day people happy, see who are smiling, very polite.
The company has a shuttle bus, because he went to work, he rarely sat, are driving a small electric car to the company.
In terms of clothing, it is a typical simple and unadorned Cantonese.
David work very seriously, dedicated, our office has three floors, as well as their own creative design room, air garden, showroom, so the area is very large. David is very serious, dutiful hourly rounds, at night, he will wait for colleagues in the design department off work, and then check each intersection one by one, patiently turn off the lights and air conditioning.
One night, day sister also in the company overtime, that day because of the special circumstances, overtime to very late, called a takeaway.
At that time, there was no American Express, and the store was delivered in person. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I rushed to take the money to the soldiers, soldiers dead not, because the days sister appetite is quite good, that night point of takeout including food, drink all kinds of, a little bit expensive, so it is really not good enough to soldiers do not want to money, so all the way to chase him to stuff.
At this time, our company's electrician Li passed by, know the reason why not to persuade Dabing to collect money, on the contrary, persuade the day sister, said you let people ask you to eat a meal, I said this is how to be good at it (my implication is that Dabing a month's basic salary of only more than 2,000, but also to support their families and so on), he said that they may be more than you have money, there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
The soldier took the opportunity to sneak back to work.
I grabbed Li some "torture". The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and the company's goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers, and to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I said, before joining the time, the address written by Dabing is not that place ah.
Yes, the family has 10 suites in the city (the developer compensated for 9 suites, the soldier to fill in the entry, is his wife's family's set, 9 + 1 = 10) why come to do security ah?
Li said, he just like to do security ah, no pressure, and stable, there is a place to work, you can recognize the heart of the friends, and do not have to spend a lot of effort to learn very complex new knowledge. If you're at home collecting rent, you'll be able to play games and rub mahjong every day, so it's possible that you'll lose your house in a year.
Then I left the company, but the soldiers are still there, doing happy security. The boss later also know his family background, but against him more assured, because he came to work, not for money, just to find a thing to do, there is a sense of belonging.
His 9 suites, on average, are about 120 square feet, average price of 30,000 +, the most conservative estimate of 35 million dollars in real estate, you say, he is working for what?
The tycoons around us are staggeringly low-key, and I've been y hurt.
Our company is a joint stock, the partner company will send employees over to work every day, there is a colleague, he wore plain sportswear every day, speak very quietly, very shy. Every time you go to the dining hall to eat, he will bring his own bottle of chili sauce, I also distressed him, eat more meat to supplement the nutrition bar, do not eat chili sauce. He smiled every time and said: It's okay, I used to eat chili sauce, and now I can't change this way of eating.
I thought to myself, "I probably didn't have much of a chance to eat meat in the past, so I had to mix it with chili sauce to get a good meal, so it's no wonder that I'm a big boy, and I don't have a big body.
Once, our department went to dinner, colleagues asked him if it was convenient to drive a ride, he said: my car can not sit, a little crowded. I thought he wanted to save gas and didn't want people to sit in his car, so I helped him out: you guys sit in other people's cars, don't crowd together.
As a result, from the garage, a blue Maserati drove out and parked in front of us. After rolling down the window, the driver poked his head out, and at first glance, I was surprised that it was him! He said: which one of you wants to ride in my car? Only 1 person can sit in it.
I was so surprised that I couldn't speak, I pulled his colleague and asked, what's going on? Driving the boss's car to dinner? Colleagues said: you do not know ah? He drove himself, this Maserati is his family ah. The family garage luxury car a few, every day to change a different car to work.
I gossiped and asked why he was so rich and still working. Colleagues said, his father is a local official, his mother is doing business. His father-in-law's family is doing engineering, he does not worry about food and clothing ah, luxury cars to drive. He's not worried about food or clothes. He drives a luxury car. He's just killing time. I always thought that the boys who ate chili sauce did not have meat to eat, but it turned out that they are rich second generation ......
I think, around a lot of low-profile people, like to do the work of 3,000 yuan salary, it is just want to pass the time, life has a support, not boring just. In fact, some of them want to start from a low level, get involved in this field, and then make their own big plans.
You said this kind of passbook above a few million still do the front desk clerk, take the 3000 salary to do a year of things. I don't know what city you are in? It's not uncommon in first-tier cities.
My former company also has this example, I do management in a catering company, our warehouse has a big sister, age 40 years old people look very simple.
Specializing in the management of work clothes, washing work clothes, finishing work clothes, sent to employees and other work. The salary is only 2800, plus other benefits of about 3200.
She did 3 years in the company, or because the children at home did not allow her to do before leaving. At first we didn't know, we just saw her bring her friends over to the restaurant every week for dinner and tea.
We are a mid-range restaurant, tea for 2 people about 200, dinner for 2 people 400, such consumption we are occasional.
I thought it was strange how she could afford to eat. Later I realized, she in a first-tier city two suites, add up to almost 10 million, a set of rent, a set of self-occupation.
Not at all rely on this salary, just because at home boring, out to do something. But you can't see the flavor of money on her body if she's always been a hardworking and simple person.
In fact, now the first-tier cities have real estate, or the demolition of small cities, there is a lot of money. It's just that a lot of people choose to eat and wait for death, or sit back and enjoy it.
And some people are not ambitious, but like to have things to do, have friends, time is full, people are naturally happy.
This kind of person is also because there is not much pressure in life, so in the ordinary position to do more down-to-earth.
In fact, it is also a good state of mind.
In short, every job requires different people to do down-to-earth things, and they are also a landscape of the workplace.
What is the mindset of a person who has millions of dollars in assets in his passbook but goes to a job that pays 3000?
Recognize a young man is this state, the family has a factory, a lot of fixed assets, belonging to the typical second generation of rich. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new computer, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer, and you'll be able to get your hands on a new computer.
This is the first time I've ever seen a computer that was used in a computerized environment, and I've never seen a computer that was used in a computerized environment. The first month of work, he spent close to 10,000 yuan to buy an Apple phone, and usually eat and drink is also high consumption, not enough to cover his expenses.
Plus, he's a very gregarious person who frequents the better restaurants, and in most cases he treats the guests. Friends from abroad or from his hometown also often come to him to have fun, and they are always able to enjoy themselves in his company.
1. My sister is in college here, and I don't have much to do at home anyway, so I came over to spend the weekend with my sister and take care of things.
2. Come out to see more different people in the society, to practice their social experience, and to take over the family's industry in the future to make a foundation.
3. While you are still young and don't have to worry about your family's business, jump out of your original circle and venture outside to see if you can get more people's recognition.
01. Nothing to do at home, find some not very tired and complex work, increase experience, make some friends.
02. Have a job, think there is something to do, can make their lives richer, although the income is not much, but also their own work earned.
03. Dodge the preaching of elders at home, find an environment to adapt to their own, relax their minds and bodies, so that they can live casually some, easy some.
04. Exercise their ability to contact all kinds of people in society, enhance cognitive and social skills, exercise their own mentality, so that they become more mature.
05. and home gambling, a short period of time is not willing to contact the atmosphere and environment of the home, out of the relaxation, feel unsuitable will turn around and go; if you think it is suitable for you, it is possible to stick to it.
There is a saying that the most important thing that you can't underestimate is the moncler outlet store doorkeeper and the cleaning lady who sends out the newspaper.
There was a new leader who suffered the loss of the janitor.
It was a few years ago, in a private company, our new purchasing manager's first day of work, and he was stopped by the gatekeeper because he didn't have his license plate with him. The manager was a little angry, and Mr. Wang argued a few times, Mr. Wang still did not let him in, so the manager called to let him responsible for the recruitment of small Liu down to pick him up. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new car, and then you'll be able to get it back to your car, and then you'll be able to get it back to your car.
There is also a colleague, last year, his small run for a BMW SUV, said to be integrated into our family, in fact, is to wear uniforms to drive a sports car was around the neighbors joke. He has a family business, his parents mean to let him to the big business to learn a little bit, and then go back to take over the family business, he is now also towards this goal in the struggle. The first thing I've noticed is that I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of the car, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of the car!
So, poverty is really going to limit our imagination, rather than constantly speculate on why other people put a good life, but to come to the nine-to-five work to suffer, and the "Anjia" in the same way as Aunt Xu, with the good people, everywhere leaving a smooth favor, so that, in the near future, you can live into your others envy the way!
Once, our company engaged in the reunion, I realized how low I am. In addition to my driving a broken car, subordinates clean Mercedes-Benz BMW, and Cayenne, Land Rover. From then on, I have changed the way of management of subordinates. I am a large enterprise in Beijing, the middle level, under the management of a bunch of young people, the result is that each of them are more cattle, mainly because of their parents cattle. After knowing that the subordinates are not bad, my management method is no longer to motivate them to make money, but to motivate them to fight for honor, and it does play a better effect.
First, the big city locals work, although the salary of a few thousand dollars, the family may have tens of millions of dollars, deposits of millions of dollars, that is not called money child. North of the first-tier cities, the family to save a few million, as usual, to go to work. Go to work wages, is the cash flow, so that the family's life operation. There is a million can dare not go to work? A million dollars, can sit on the mountain for a few years? Are you kidding? For example, small middle-class families in Beijing, a year to pay a small hundreds of thousands of people do not blink, there is no way, this is a hard expenditure, millions of deposits a few years on the eaten up, do not go to work and wait to drink the northwest wind ah.
Second, many rich people (not super rich), want their children to find a stable job. They don't want their children to go into business, because there are too many risks involved in doing so, and they feel that their children aren't cut out for business, so they can't afford to spend a few lifetimes of their family's money, so they might as well let their children find a job in the system, and have a job to support them, plus their family's wealth, so that they can live in a very prosperous and safe life. Some children, every day to spend the day, will learn bad, why not find a job, constraints. Of course, those rich people have no choice, because the family's industry is too big, can only let the children take over. A lot of small rich people, let their children find a system of work, pampered up.
Third, many invisible rich people, "smart" low-key life. In some cities, many high-ranking civil servants, executives of state-owned enterprises, the family is not bad money, but can not be shown. Many policies do not allow their children to engage in business. So they let their children work in the system with some good benefits. These people do not work for the sake of going to work, but to keep in touch with the society, and also to hide the fact that their families have money. However, from their work attitude and dress and private car can be seen, people are not bad money.
My ex-unit also has a receptionist, looks so beautiful, early 30s, already 2 children's mom, skin but maintains very good. As a girl, I can't help but look twice when I pass by. She drove a big Ben to and from work every day, in our average price of more than 20,000 square feet of second-tier cities, there are four or five suites, every month rent is several times her own salary. Her family also invited a nanny, opened 5000 a month, equivalent to their own salary every month, but also have to subsidize 1000 to the aunt payroll.
Once asked her, family conditions are so good, why still come to work, at home with children, flowers, shopping, it is not cozy mom. She only replied: how boring it is at home!
Well, the world of the rich, we really do not understand.
In the first and second tier cities, a family million deposits is not much, after all, the price of housing can easily be tens of thousands of a flat, a first-tier city, some of them are also hundreds of thousands of a flat, 1 million at best, but also to buy a room.
Back again, the passbook inside the millions, assuming that is 1 million, put the bank on a regular basis, the annual interest rate at 4%, that is, the annual interest of 40,000 yuan, 3,333 yuan per month, you say you are in the first and second tier cities, life all rely on this interest to live? Even if you can live is a half-dead state. So to live a little better, continue to work to earn money is the king. Although you do the front desk, a monthly salary of 3000, but coupled with the interest of millions of deposits every month more than three thousand, that is six or seven thousand, so you can also live a little more free.
Of course, the first purpose of going to work is to make money, but people are group animals, Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs Theory also says that people have social needs, so going to work provides a way to socialize, and it is also one of the most natural and most common ways.
During the work process, you can meet many colleagues and friends, communicate and explore together, people in a pleasant and relaxed atmosphere, the mood will also be a lot of bright, rather than like a lot of full-time baby mama, every day to face the home of a chicken hair.
So, the company's receptionist mentioned at the beginning of my article, she is mainly for this purpose, only in the premise of the assets of millions of dollars, but also to play a 4000 dollars of work.
Previously reported on the news, Shanghai, a sweeper aunt, in a start-up company sweeping, who knows the company's capital chain broke, on the verge of closure, at this time, the aunt stepped forward, said: do not worry, I injected 6 million, we get through the difficult times together. It turns out that she is a demolition household, in Shanghai, divided into 8 suites + 18 million in cash. Just because she likes the atmosphere of the company and likes to **** things up with everyone.
Overall, there are 2 points that must be recognized:
1) A million dollars in savings is not really that much, do not go to work to sit and eat? So going to work is still needed.
2) Going to work can satisfy your social needs and gain social recognition.
This is the mentality of the rich who have a lot of money but work a small job for a few thousand dollars.
They work differently than the average person. They are pursuing the life they want, whereas the average person is "forced" to work hard for a living.
In the first few years, our company recruited a freshman. The salary for him was only a few thousand dollars at that time.
In the interview, we know that his family is a real luxury. A native of Guangzhou, he has his own real estate, built a few floors, almost all of which are for rent. Then the family also bought a few houses.
How to calculate this year's water flow is more than one million. Although it is not the money in his passbook, but his family is such a son, not his money, who else can it be.
He came to our company not long ago, and bought a house near the company, all the money out of the family.
We all said that so rich people, to work in the company, is to experience the ordinary life of the masses.
He was not the least bit shy about it, and even said that he just wanted to experience life.
He is not worried about food and clothing, but he wants to experience what it is like to go to work. This is his truest thought.
Even so, his work is not the kind of dangling, really in a very serious work. The work performance is also recognized by the departmental leadership.
In our place to do more than a year, think again can not learn anything, so it jumped ship. He jumped several well-known big factories, and now I heard that they all became supervisors.
Like my colleague, because I do not worry about what, on the salary is also very light, never feel that the salary is a little less, not enough to spend, and think of ways to make money and so on.
That is, his purpose is very simple, very pure, do what you like to do, feel different life.
Sometimes I even feel that this state of his, more should be the state that everyone should have, that is, not anxious.
To live one's own ego may just be some people's idea. After all, more people, who feel happy with money, don't need to live their own ego on purpose. Their ego is how they enjoy the pleasure that money brings.
There are other people who may work for the following reasons:
To experience life:
The interest of rich people is so unique, they don't worry about money, they just want to experience how ordinary people live, to experience the happiness and unhappiness of work.
To pass the time:
When you are so poor that you only have money left, time becomes more abundant for yourself, and that's when boredom sets in.
The time to play, the time to eat, and the time to drink are all there, so take a class and pass the time.
Long-term planning:
There is a part that does not get lost in the immediate state of affairs.
After all, for them, there are a lot of people who have more money than they do. Some people just have that ambition and are willing to struggle for a higher order of life.
Of course, there are other reasons. As a poor person, I can perceive nothing more than the above. If there's a rich person in the comments section who is doing this, leave a comment.
This situation I have encountered, before I have an employee under the hand, young, bank card deposits of several million, driving hundreds of thousands of Audi to work, which is absolutely not bragging, because he was doing real estate, contracting type of work.
I'll share with you what his mindset is, there are cars and houses and savings, but willingly do the work of nearly 3,000 or so treatments per month, may be a lot of people think that this person is really self-destructive. In fact, it is not, he came to our company for three reasons:
① Experience life. He himself has said personally, since childhood has not suffered, tired, or brocade life, the reason to come to work is to experience life, to understand the real workplace.
② To pass the time. That's right, it is to pass the time, there may be friends will say that he is wasting time, you have to think so can, after all, he is working here because the construction site to be delayed for a few months, boredom to pass the time.
③ Avoid overspending on yourself. For this type of people, once nothing to do is basically sitting in a teahouse, sitting in a teahouse playing cards is a risky thing, although they have money, do not care, but everyone's way is different. As long as they are at work, even if their friends call for cards and parties, they can use this as an excuse to shirk.
Of course, in addition, for the rich, they do not lack this salary, in order to keep pace with the development of the times, they step into the workplace is also to better understand the rules of the workplace. The trend of development, for the future of their own boss, treating the staff also has a great promotion. Of course, it can also sharpen social skills.
The old tea point of view: with the rapid development of society, this kind of people are actually quite a lot. These people with a good economic base are willing to come to do the work of the front desk with a monthly salary of 3000. Their mentality must not be a pain in the ass, but have their own purpose and human needs.
Germany once did such an experiment, put two prisoners alone in different houses, so that they are isolated from the outside world. After a long time, one went mad; the other played chess with himself and became a first-class player when he was released.
This experiment tells us that the primal need of human nature is to be constantly stimulated by the outside world, so that the body and mind can be healthy. In psychology, this is called the law of sensory deprivation. Of course, this kind of experiment would only have happened in Germany during World War II.
Those who drive luxury cars and live in villas and have millions of dollars in savings, you let him stay at home every day and do nothing, short-term is fine, but for a long time it will be unbearable, and this is human nature.
They need to find a thing to do, as for travel, work or other things, everyone is different. But one thing is for sure, it must be something that can be done consistently for a period of time, like a year, two years or even longer.
So reading, writing, and bar-hopping are obviously not suitable. The rest is traveling and working. But traveling involves running around, especially for a whole year. Some people feel happy, others feel tired, and most people tend to choose to get a job.
The mentality of this kind of people looking for a job is obviously not about money, but about solving boredom and satisfying human needs. Of course it could be other purposes, which will be elaborated later.
So they don't look for jobs where they have to work overtime a lot, or where they have to work in challenging positions. Often they are looking for easy positions, such as receptionists, clerks, administrators, or even janitors. That's why in some big cities, there will be cleaning staff, receptionists drive luxury cars to work.
Dr. Hinkel, a psychologist, conducted an experiment on a group of workers and found that those who had clear goals and were satisfied with their lives and work were healthier. On the other hand, those who had nothing to do all day and whose lives were a mess were more prone to disease.
Obviously, rich people who would think of taking such low-paying jobs naturally understand this.
As said above, the primal needs of human nature dictate that people cannot be too idle. These people look for jobs to solve boredom, but others come to work with a specific purpose.
Learning experience, experiencing life
Some people come to work to learn experience and experience life. These people grew up with a golden key and simply lack work experience, let alone life experience.
I once read a story about a rich man who went to work for a subsidiary of his father. When it was near noon to eat, he saw that everyone was using takeout software to order food, and he felt very curious and looked at the price and felt very cheap. So he ordered 1,800 yuan of takeout, and then very happy with his colleagues that this software is really very good, the first time to eat such a cheap lunch.
Of course, this may be a fictional joke. But I have to admit, there are indeed some rich kids who come to work just to experience life.
Getting first-hand information
Some people come to work to get first-hand information. This is often the case in companies where resources are relatively centralized. You don't come to work for money, you come to work to get information earlier than your competitors, so that you can get better orders from the company.
There is such a boss, in order to be able to get the big enterprise project information earlier, and then improve the big enterprise order winning rate. Special arrangements for their daughter-in-law, outsourcing the form of employees, to the company to do a miscellaneous employees.
Expanding your network
Some people go to companies purely for the purpose of expanding their network. But the purpose of these people is not the same as ordinary workers, in order to expand their networks, he must have chosen to work in the enterprise.
A friend stayed in a company, the whole company on the 20 or so people, do foreign trade business. My friend went in and found that half of the people were driving luxury cars, and wondered how everyone could be so rich in a company that looked so unassuming.
Later, I realized that the original is a company composed of rich second generation, those like the network management, administration, personnel, warehouse management is a clear color of the rich second generation. These people come to the company, purely for the purpose of expanding human resources only.
Summary of the problem: These people work in a different mindset, some people are pure boredom to experience life, some people in order to get first-hand information, and some people in order to network resources. Seemingly incomprehensible moves, thinking clearly about the purpose of the other side, it is also clear.