How to Raise a Child Who Loves Life

How to Raise Kids Who Love Life

First of all this topic is a false proposition,

because there is no such thing as a child who doesn't love life.

Children are born loving life, they are born explorers, creators.

Don't believe that if you give them a pot of water and a mud puddle, they can give you back a mud doll.

You give them a bunch of branches, some pine cones, they can tell you a story.

We should be talking about how to avoid ruining a child's zest for life.

Every adult is a grown-up child

How to avoid ruining a child's zest for life

is how to mold a life-loving you.

First, follow the child's eyes to discover the beauty of nature

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Outdoor: Two days ago I took my cousin's children and my daughter downstairs to look for branches, we were going to take the branches to make a house. Downstairs where we pass by every day there is a small resting shady area, a big tree is surrounded by wooden chairs made artificially around the tree. I saw the chairs and sat down while the kids went to pick up the branches and I took care of cutting with scissors.

Suddenly my children called out to me: Mom, look, the ants are moving food - a group of ants are moving a long earthworm, very fast, the children squatted down to see, think the ants are so powerful, can move items many times larger than its body. At first, I actually thought it was very common, it was something within my cognitive range, so I just chimed in so as not to spoil their fun. After I realized that the ants were moving, they stopped for a while, changed to new ants to move, and then finally climbed to the corner of the wall, and began to climb up the wall, I began to think it is impossible, 90 degrees wall it. Sure enough to climb to one-tenth, fell down, but they did not stop, and again in the head, and then try again, the children watched intently, can not help but give the ants cheer, I also join them, this time the ants are very fast and smooth to the ants dragged to the power of the gap in the wall, the children cheered up.

Then the children found the tree an ant carrying a food that looks like the tentacles of the asphodel, flying online to climb, my interest was also mobilized, I stood up to follow the child's eyes to find this ant, watching it climb into the hole in the tree, then I found the original trunk of the tree has a hole so big, as if all hollow, I continue to look up, the tree does not seem to be affected by the hole at all, the branches and leaves. I continued to look up and the tree didn't seem to be affected by the hole at all, its branches were flourishing.

Follow the eyes of a child and you will discover the wonders of the world.

Second, life is not a matter of rice, oil and salt, it is a matter of rice, oil and salt with the addition of love (so that the child can feel at ease and be himself)

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Feeding. This time living in the cousin's home, I stood on the balcony to look at the distant mountains, suddenly heard a roar, I followed the sound to see, it turned out to be on the opposite side of the building of a family, the child in the picket fence to look out, and the mother from the back of the feeding, the child cared to look outside and forget to eat, so by the mother of a stern roar; not coincidentally, one day in the restaurant dinner, suddenly came a cry behind us, we turned around to look at, a Mom is looking at the child with sharp eyes, the child cried while obediently eat a bite. I think the child who eats like this should not have a good appetite and will not be good.

In addition to eating and sleeping, have you ever said good night to your child and good night to your loved ones before going to bed every day?

My daughter and I have a bit of a long bedtime ritual, to tell stories, scratching the back, singing and praying, my cousin can hardly stand us, so she told us that my brother only gives him five minutes before going to bed every day, and he must be quiet in five minutes. But in fact, she and her brother-in-law every day to spread dog food, brother-in-law because it is the catering industry work, every day home late, no matter when he came back, have to chat with the cousin, chatting before going to bed.

I think it's their passion for life.

Eating and sleeping are things you do every day that are necessary for life. It takes up a big chunk of the day, and how boring life becomes when it becomes about getting things done.

Completion of tasks is the way of thinking of adults, adults always seem to be waiting, waiting for the busy period, take the family to travel; waiting for enough money to change a big house; waiting for the old back to the countryside to return to the countryside; as if you can enjoy the life are in the future. I am not in favor of "taking a trip" or "quitting" or anything like that, but "every day" is only once for everyone, so why do we always have to put our lives in the future? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

We need to learn from our children how to "live in the present"

Seeing the spring, summer, fall and winter of a tree in front of the door is better than hiking the Grand Canyon of the Yarlung Tsangpo in Tibet;

A cardboard box next to the couch is a secret place that brings joy to children as much as Disneyland;

]The balcony is a place where the meat sprouts on the floor, but it's not the same as a place where you have to go. The meat on the top is sprouting, look at it mom, it's so cute. Do you have to use your own little yard of your own in order to raise flowers, or to enjoy the fun that comes from planting?

For life, we must often use a "wow ~" to praise,

Life is beautiful

The sky can be clear water glistening;

Rain can be the mountain color empty;

Sunrise is the morning glory;

Sunset is the slanting sunshine pulse;

Blossom is the romantic;

The sunrise is the morning light;

Sunset is the slanting sunlight pulse;

The sunset is the sunrise is the morning light;

The sunset is the morning light.

Blossoms can be the color of the mountains;