The clothes of most Dutch people in dress etiquette are similar to those of other countries in continental Europe. In formal social occasions, such as attending parties and banquets, men dress more formally. This lady is elegantly dressed. The most distinctive thing is the clothes of the residents of Dutch Magen Island. The shirts of girls on the island are all red and green stripes. Manners Dutch people don't like cross talk. When a woman sits, her legs should be close together. Don't shake your legs when a man is sitting. They don't pick their teeth with toothpicks in front of everyone. On formal occasions, Dutch people usually shake hands when meeting guests. In daily life, when friends meet, they usually hug. When meeting close friends, some people also give kisses. They don't like to cross their hands and think it's unlucky. Dining etiquette Dutch people eat more cold meals at brunch. Eat only cream or cheese bread and drink some milk or coffee for breakfast. Dutch people don't like tea very much, so they usually drink milk to quench their thirst. Dutch dinner is dinner. It is customary to drink some drinks before eating, and then formally spread a tablecloth on the dining table. Usually two dishes and one soup. The first course is soup, usually made of corn flour. It's delicious. Dutch people are used to eating western food, but they are also interested in Chinese food. There are many local China restaurants at the forefront of Europe. Business Etiquette When doing business in Holland, you should wear a conservative suit. Both public and private units must sign a contract before visiting. Dutch businessmen love traveling very much, so they must make an appointment before going to Holland. Although not as fond of shaking hands as French and German businessmen, the Dutch are more formal and conservative. So remember to come up with your best negotiation terms directly, so as not to lose business. Dutch businessmen like to entertain each other and often have a big breakfast. They have tea breaks in the morning 10, a big meal at noon, tea breaks at 4 pm, dinner at 7 pm and snacks before going to bed. So, remember to bring stomach medicine. If the Dutch invite you to his house, most of them just buy you a few drinks and then go out to eat in a restaurant. Remember to bring flowers to his wife-be sure to have an odd number, 5 or 7 flowers is the best, and don't be too hard on other people's wives. Many Dutch intellectuals are very familiar with China's traditional culture (Sinology). Let's start with China's philosophy and Mencius. Dutch people are used to eating western food, but they are also interested in Chinese food. Dutch people are very particular about pouring coffee, and they can only pour two-thirds of the cup. It's impolite to make excuses, and it's considered ill-bred. The way to get along, not to mention the Nazis. When going up the stairs, the man is in front. Generally speaking, men and women climb stairs, with women in front and men behind, but the Netherlands is the opposite. March-May and September-165438+1October are the most suitable time to go. In June, July and August, the Dutch go on holiday. Dutch taxi drivers don't accept tips. Dutch furniture and interior decoration are world-famous, so Dutch people like to be praised for their furniture, artworks, carpets and household items. Avoid talking about American politics, money and prices. Hot topics include politics, tourism and sports. Dutch people have a strong sense of time and are punctual. Travel Etiquette When traveling in the Netherlands, it is best to learn some daily conversations in Dutch, which is very helpful for go on road trip. If you are proficient in English, you can also use it, because most Dutch people know some English. The etiquette of giving priority to women is popular in the Netherlands, so men should provide convenience for women everywhere no matter what the occasion. The main taboos are Dutch taboo 13 and Friday. In their interaction, they don't want to talk about American politics, economy and prices. I am also particularly afraid of others taking pictures of them. Marriage Customs More than 90% of the residents in the Kingdom of the Netherlands are Dutch, and they have maintained many traditional and peculiar customs in their marriage and love life. Roses indicate marriage proposal. Proposing marriage is a very romantic thing, and the Dutch are very poetic in this respect. When the daughter reaches marriageable age, parents will put a basin of brightly colored roses on the windowsill of her bedroom, indicating that young men can propose marriage. Wooden shoes: According to Dutch tradition, when young men and women get engaged, the groom will give the bride a pair of wooden shoes. This tradition has been popular for hundreds of years. Wooden shoes are carved from a whole piece of wood, with thick bottom and hard edges, cut into sharp points and painted with bright colors, which are simple, lovely and moisture-proof. The wedding bed handed down from generation to generation. Every household in Magen Island has a small bed embedded in the wall, with exquisite patterns carved around it and mosquito nets hanging on it. This small bed is a wedding bed handed down from generation to generation. The wedding bed is only provided to the groom on the wedding night. Starting from the next night, the bride and groom must move to an ordinary bed to sleep. Open the window for lovers on Friday. The village of Stahalst in the muddy area of the Netherlands is called "mysterious women's village". Because the women in the village are tough and shy, they have their own unique way of choosing a spouse: every Friday night, girls of marriageable age will open the back window to attract young men to meet. When a girl sees a boy she likes, she lets him climb in through the back window and fall in love. When a Dutch young man intends to woo a girl, he always knocks on the girl's door first. When the girl's parents came out, they asked her parents to light him a cigar. The girl's parents asked the young man all kinds of questions to examine his character and ability. When he asks for another cigar, you can give him a very clear answer. The general characteristics of Dutch social customs can be summarized in the following words:
Dutch nationals like novelty and are serious about efficiency;
Love compliments in communication and don't want others to be picky;
Everyone knows that he loves flowers and grass and has the reputation of "the country of gardens".
Windmills are regarded as national treasures and are of great benefit to mankind;
"Thirteenth" and "Friday" are unlucky, so everyone hates them.
There are the following characteristics in the details of life:
The Dutch have a strong sense of time. They attach great importance to all kinds of social activities, pay attention to the loyalty of dating, and have a good habit of keeping appointments on time. They think it's a question of social politeness.
Dutch people especially like to listen to guests' compliments, especially the furniture, artworks, carpets and other furnishings in their homes. If guests praise their above items in person, they will feel particularly happy. They regard windmills as national treasures. The windmill is not only a tool for them to drain, polish and saw, but also a special handicraft with ornamental value, or a special machine they use to convey different information and feelings: if they put the windmill in a cross shape, it means that the windmill is waiting for its owner to come to the door. If the funeral procession passes by the windmill, the windmill will stop running immediately to show its condolences; Every year on the second Saturday of May, all the windmills in the country will start to rotate for tourists to watch. They like flowers very much. They enjoyed the flowers placed at the party very much. Because their country has the reputation of "Garden Country". Colorful flowers can be seen everywhere in towns and streets. They love tulips best and call them the national flowers. People not only regard it as an ornament, but also the best gift flower to express friendship. Men in Macheng, Alkell Province, the Netherlands like to grow beards best, and people are proud of their beauty. Generally, the beard is V-shaped to show masculinity. On the contrary, men without beards come to this city and are easily discriminated against by local residents. Dutch people often tap their temples with their fingers to express their appreciation for others' "big brains".
Etiquette etiquette
Dutch people usually shake hands when meeting guests on formal occasions. When meeting ordinary friends, most people are used to giving hugs. When meeting close friends, some people also kiss (usually on both cheeks).
General etiquette
There is no need to tip taxi drivers.
Appellation and greetings
The official letter should use the title; In other cases, it can be informal. Shake hands with everyone present, including the children.
Appointment and punctuality
Don't make an appointment in advance, go to the appointment on time.
Hospitality and gifts
It is a local custom to send flowers, chocolates or similar gifts. Novel and unique gifts are the most popular. Gifts should be carefully wrapped. Don't give other foods as gifts.
Toast before or after the first sip of wine.
Talk to each other
Dutch people like to be praised for their furniture, artworks, carpets and other indoor furnishings.
Topics to avoid: politics, money and prices in the United States.
Appropriate topics: politics, tourism and sports in the Netherlands.
Belief taboo
The main religions of the Dutch are Catholicism and Protestantism. Among them, Catholics account for a little more than one third of the national population; Protestants account for less than a third. They taboo "13" and "Friday". They think that "13" symbolizes bad luck and "Friday" symbolizes disaster. They taboo cross-handshakes and cross-conversations. I think these are extremely impolite behaviors. In their interaction, they don't want to talk about American issues such as Israel, currency and prices. The ancient city of Stahorst in the Netherlands is regarded as "the mysterious village of women". Women here are disgusted with modern facilities and social customs, and even express their disgust. In addition, they are particularly afraid of being photographed by others.
The Netherlands is forbidden to be asked about their religious beliefs, wages, wedding cigarettes, personal whereabouts and other issues. They think that private affairs need not be asked by others. They are afraid to fill a cup of coffee. They regard filling as impolite behavior and lack of education, and think it is appropriate to fill only two-thirds of the cup.
eating habits
Dutch people have simple requirements for breakfast and lunch and attach importance to dinner. Generally speaking, they are used to drinking some drinks before meals. They are used to eating napkins; There should be spices on the table. Their national dish is not delicacies, but a "stew" made of carrots, potatoes and onions. It is said that this is to commemorate the unforgettable history of predecessors, so it is known as a national dish.
Dutch eating habits have the following characteristics:
① Pay attention to the tender, smooth and refreshing dishes, and pay attention to the quantity, quantity and quality of dishes.
2 tastes generally do not like too salty, sweet and sour.
The staple food is mainly pasta, and I also like rice. I'm interested in cream fried rice, assorted fried rice, silver coils and fried noodles.
Non-staple foods such as pork, mutton, beef, chicken, ham, sausage, milk and eggs. Vegetables such as cabbage, potatoes, tomatoes, onions, carrots, peas and peppers. Seasoning loves salt, pepper, ketchup, etc.
⑤ Cooking methods prefer dishes made by frying, frying, roasting and frying.
Chinese food likes Jiangsu cuisine and Cantonese cuisine in China.
⑦ The dishes on the menu are lettuce, roast suckling pig, prawns in tomato sauce, Sweet and Sour Mandarin Fish, fried shrimp chops, mutton skewers, fried shrimp boxes, pot roast chicken, barbecued pork, fried fish cakes, sweet and sour egg soup and so on.
8 Shuijiu loves to drink beer; I also like soft drinks, mineral water, yogurt and other drinks; Black tea is the variety they are interested in.
Pet-name ruby fruits such as grapes, apples, pineapples, lemons, oranges, etc. Dried fruits such as almonds, walnuts and raisins.