Be a warm woman in this life (1)
Be a warm girl in this life, as light as water and as bright as flowers.
Be a generous woman, laugh, laugh and cry thoroughly.
Be an open woman, honest and kind, not pretending, sincere to friends and caring for lovers.
Be a healthy woman, take good care of yourself, enrich your heart and learn to cherish yourself.
Be a strong woman, independent, tenacious, brave, face difficulties, maybe afraid, maybe fail, but never escape; In the face of feelings, maybe reluctant, maybe helpless, but never entangled; Facing the future, it may be clear, it may be confused, but it will never depend on it.
To be a simple woman, simple, happy and natural, not to recall the past, to love someone seriously and sincerely, not to be profound, but to be simple.
Being an elegant woman, I was lucky and lost my life; Don't rely on, don't look for, and don't force. Occasionally fragile but also strong, occasionally willful but also rational; Be kind to yourself and trust others.
To be a natural woman, dress appropriately, not seeking nobility and splendor, not seeking heavy makeup, but seeking simplicity and comfort.
Be a woman who loves to laugh, feel the tiny touch and happiness in life with your heart, and smile even in the face of difficulties and obstacles.
Be a single-minded woman, and be single-minded when you fall in love with someone. Even if you know that there will be a better look besides him, you will not be greedy, learn to be content, and believe that there is nothing more suitable for you except him. Respect feelings and cherish fate.
To be a smart woman, you should be keen and open-minded, learn to be naughty occasionally, play dumb occasionally, know how to make concessions and tolerate, and face life calmly.
Be a happy woman, have more ideals, less fantasies, occasionally disappointed but not desperate, even sad, and keep an optimistic and cheerful attitude to live seriously.
Random thoughts on life: the smoke is endless (part two)
Looking at You Jin's "Smoke from Kitchen", I was deeply infected by the simple life atmosphere in the text.
A mother who works around the kitchen for three meals a day loves to flow in smoke and melt in meals and dishes.
You Jin said, "Every evening, my mother would sit on a low stool in the kitchen and chop wood with a heavy axe. When wood burns, it gives off a nice smell. My mother took a palm sunflower fan and fanned it fiercely. When the wind is strong, the fire will flourish. The original hard firewood turned into gorgeous golden yellow in the flourishing fire. The sound of "rustling sand", accompanied by the fragrance of dishes, filled the whole kitchen. I sat there with great interest and always felt the warmth of home strongly at this moment. Due to the poor economic situation at home, the dishes cooked are very ordinary and simple. However, the family is sitting at a simple wooden table, holding a pot of stained white rice in their hands and eating it with relish. I always feel that every bite in my mouth and every chopstick are delicious. "
Especially today, he said, "At night, the lonely figure becomes more miserable. In the thick twilight, I saw the charcoal block in the kitchen was dyed red by honesty, and my mother was looking at a pot of vegetables and staring thoughtfully. Sometimes, when my mother cooks a pot of food, she will share it with us in the room. The share left for my father is packed in a big bowl with blue patterns, full and pressed. In the evening, my father came back, tired and hungry. His eyes were red and his cheeks were slightly concave, and he wrote clearly. It's late at night, so it's impossible to rekindle the fire to heat the food. My father had to make do with completely cooled food. The wife leaned against the table and the children were all around. Yi Deng is like a bean, full of warmth. For the father at this moment, although the food is cold, with deep affection, every chopstick meal is sweet and delicious. "
You Jin said: "When my mother lit the gas stove for the first time, I felt that a circle of round flames was like a blue lotus, which was so gorgeous that people were moved. Experienced the hardships of chopping wood, the troubles of buying charcoal, the mess of burning wood and the triviality of burning charcoal. My mother is full of gratitude for the convenience of "turning her hand and making her angry." "At this time, cooking has greatly increased the fun for my mother. She bought a lot of cookbooks and made them cheerfully. The figure standing in front of the gas stove exudes happiness like a butterfly all day long. The dishes on the table are as colorful as a child's heart. "
Love is sometimes really simple, there is no feat, just in this simple, ordinary but indispensable three meals a day.
I am a girl who has come through hard times, and I am a woman who has come through hard times; I am a girl who cherishes maternal love, and I am a woman with love in my heart; I used to be a girl who likes cooking, but now I am a mother who likes cooking, so I can read the warmth and love of my mother to the family from the lines of You Jin.
After all, there are very few people who can become great men and devote their lives to the public, but there are many ordinary people who devote their lives to their families.
Everyone knows that great love is boundless and touching, but do you know that little love is invisible and warm? Love and pay with your heart, even if it is weak, is also moving.
This kind of life may not be vigorous, but I think that ordinary, boring and boring life, as long as you face and walk with your heart, the footprints left are always intriguing.
Many times, we demand so much from ourselves, others and life that we are so sad and tired. The so-called contented people are always happy, and happiness comes from themselves to a great extent, not necessarily external factors. The lower the expectation, the easier it is to be satisfied and happy.
As long as you pay, you will always get, more or less, expected or unexpected. In my opinion, those simple little details of life are an indispensable part of our rich life.
It takes a long time to cook cigarettes. Thank life with a grateful heart and appreciate it. There will be a lot of warmth, emotion and emotion in this life.