Emotional stability, two people never quarrel, even if they quarrel, they can make up quickly, treat each other sincerely, never lie, always think of each other, and treat their feelings faithfully and single-mindedly. These can be said to be manifestations of happiness in married life.

But these words are beautiful, but somewhat unrealistic, like sketching a beautiful picture. You can only see it in fantasy, but you can't touch it.

In fact, it is easy to see whether married life is happy or not. For example, the change of weight after marriage is the embodiment of happiness in married life.

Eating fat is not only a physical gain, but also a enrichment that this relationship brings to the soul.

Many times, the sign of a happy marriage: eating fat.

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Eating fat is the embodiment of emotional stability.

Many people find themselves fatter than before when they get married. Especially for men, most men are slightly fatter than before marriage.

Is it really just because my wife can cook a good dish?

In fact, it can be understood that in marriage, two people are disciplined on the one hand and disciplined on the other. It is precisely because of these two different roles that when dealing with most things, opinions can be coordinated.

Just like some people don't like to eat onions, ginger and garlic in their dishes before marriage, they become indifferent to onions, ginger and garlic after marriage. Over time, eating habits have changed, and some changes in weight are natural.

Why did you change your diet? What makes the other person willing to change?

Change must be because the other party is willing. And this will comes from will and discipline. Under the interaction of the two, when everything can be agreed, feelings will naturally become more stable.

This change is conducive to the development of marriage, but also conducive to two people to experience happiness.

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Eating fat is a recognition of marriage.

A wife can cook a good dish, and a husband's love for his wife's cooking shows that he cares about his family.

In other words, in the family, one party is willing to devote his leisure time to various seemingly trivial things in the family, and one party is also willing to spend his leisure time on the other.

Although these things do not play a decisive role in marriage, they can affect the happiness of feelings.

What do you mean by mutual recognition? Probably, I think the other person is the one to spend the rest of my life with.

Before this idea came into being, two people had to run in before marriage and make concessions after marriage in order to meet each other better.

I like each other's cooking because I know each other. After the mood in daily life becomes pleasant, it will naturally eat. I feel happy because of the happiness brought by marriage.

Eating fat is not the only performance, but it is the most direct performance.

Life is like cooking, full of ups and downs. What marriage brings us is to experience all kinds of tastes brought by life together in laughter. Because I like the taste, I will recognize it and get fat.

For the wife, the husband likes his own cooking, which is also an intangible encouragement and reward. Two people will be more motivated to pull each other down.

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Eating fat reflects the degree of investment in marriage.

Whether you can eat fat at home, sometimes, reflects the degree of investment in marriage, and is also a standard to judge whether your life is happy or not.

When Mr. Chen was young, he often liked eating out. If you have something to do, make an appointment with three or five friends, drink and chat together, and play late into the night. Every time Mr. Chen pretends to be generous, everyone laughs and is very happy.

At the beginning of this situation, Mr. Chen's wife will persuade him and sometimes even take care of him. Because Mr. Chen doesn't like his wife's cooking, he studies recipes every day when he comes home from work to improve his cooking level.

However, she found that even if the food she cooked was delicious enough, Mr. Chen was still unwilling to take care of his family, just like the truth that "the wild flowers on the roadside are more attractive."

Because of this, both of them are angry. But it still failed to change Mr. Chen's behavior, and he still went his own way. Later, his wife suddenly realized that maybe he didn't care about his family, because this marriage was not important to him.

They had no children and divorced after a few years together. Shortly after the divorce, Mr. Chen got married again. Now that he has a beer belly, it seems that life is happier than before.

It is said that to grasp a man's heart, we must first grasp the other person's stomach, but have you ever thought that grasping the other person's heart is the most important thing?

If a person doesn't love you, no matter how delicious your cooking is, he may only be attached to the taste, not to you.

So the more energy a person puts into his family, the more he values this relationship. Eating fat is precisely because of paying attention to the performance brought by marriage.

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Life is sometimes as simple as that. Whether a marriage is good or not can be seen from the "weight".

Each of us yearns for a happy marriage. Husband and wife can live in harmony and be happy, even if they are getting wider and fatter, that is the happiest thing.

However, if you want a happy marriage, it's not just three meals a day. It also involves the management and getting along with many couples in order to overcome the triviality of marriage and truly have happiness.