In this case, you can try the following methods:
1. Communicate with your in-laws: If you feel neglected or excluded, you can try to communicate with your in-laws directly and let them know how you feel. You can express your thoughts on the phone or in face-to-face communication, for example, "I appreciate your invitation, but I hope you can contact me directly to make me feel respected and valued."
2. Make suggestions: If you want your mother-in-law to ask about your taste preferences, you can try to make suggestions. For example, you can tell your mother-in-law what you like to eat recently on the phone, or contact her in advance before going to eat and tell her your food preferences.
3. Adjust your attitude: Although your mother-in-law didn't ask about your taste, you can try to appreciate her cooking and hard work. You can express your gratitude and appreciation to her, such as "thank you for your delicious food." I like it very much. "
4. Communicate with your husband: If you feel uncomfortable or neglected, you can communicate with your husband. You can tell him how you feel. I hope he can communicate with his in-laws and let them know what you think.
Most importantly, be respectful and polite, and don't let negative emotions affect your relationship. Try to solve problems in a positive way and make family relations more harmonious.