when I first entered the university, I worked as an assistant in the help center. The work there is paid, but it is stipulated that only undergraduates can enjoy subsidies. At that time, a junior college girl was interviewed, but I couldn't hire her to join the team. She said, "Can I write an application and try it? If the teacher above does not approve, then I will give up. " I accepted her request, but I gave up hope. In my opinion, rules are for compliance, not for creating a special case for someone to change flexibly. However, the teacher in charge approved it. She became the only junior college student in our team who can enjoy the same subsidy for undergraduate courses.

When the undergraduates graduate, the graduates are busy running job fairs everywhere. At that time, many state-owned enterprises, such as a construction company and an iron company, stipulated in the recruitment requirements that even accounting majors still required candidates to be male. So we just lamented the inequality between men and women, while passing this recruitment. However, a girl in the same major, even if her resume failed and she didn't receive the interview notice, managed to join the interview team bravely and walked in front of the interviewer to fully prove that she was qualified for the job. As a result, she was hired. Of course, there will never be a shortage of people we know who get excellent job opportunities through bullying.

I have a friend. Every time I went on a business trip or went out a few years ago, I often bought a station ticket, but I basically didn't stand until the end. When he gets on the bus, he will talk to people and ask them where to get off. Without asking a few questions, you can find a vacancy in the second half and solve the problem of standing all the time. This method looks stupid, but it is effective in solving such problems. After all, this is not a problem that needs too much intelligence. Just open your mouth and talk can actually solve it. Although the current ticketing system has been reformed, it is no longer easy to find empty seats, but there are still opportunities to change seats.

of course, there are many such examples. It's so big that you boldly profess to pursue a girl you've always wanted, so small that you go to a restaurant and order a dish that you want to eat but is not on the menu. It turns out that many things are important, but they are by no means unchangeable. It is difficult to speak, but if you speak, you have a great chance.

the opportunity is given by heaven, and it is up to you. Sometimes, you should fight for it.