Tong Zhi and Wen Li loved each other very much when they were young. They have four children, but their love life is constantly turbulent and quite unsatisfactory. The main reason for this situation is that Tong Zhi and Wen Li, as parents, made mistakes in educating their children.
Wen Li's eldest daughter, Yan Ni, is the first child in the family. When she was young, she was an only child for a long time and was loved by her parents. However, in adolescence, the mother's attention was all transferred to her younger brother, and her father was away all the year round. Even the first physiological period of girls was taught by Aunt Zhuang next door, and I felt very lost.
Wen Li's mother gave birth to three daughters and always felt that life was not smooth. This view is deeply rooted in Wen Li's heart and has influenced Wen Li since childhood. So Wen Li always wanted to have a son. I have been looking forward to both children, but I have neglected the education of children. Just like Li Wen's three daughters in Golden Wedding, they all failed in the end.
Yan Ni in TV series is the daughter of Tong Zhi and Wen Li. She was spoiled from childhood and became more and more stubborn when she grew up. The husband of Yan Ni's first marriage was Liu Qiang. At first, my parents Tongzhi and Wenli didn't agree with them to go together. But because of Yan Ni's temper, he never listens to his parents. Secretly got a marriage certificate with her boyfriend Liu Qiang, which was recognized by her parents.
Liu Qiang is also the kind of person who has high hands and low eyes. He always felt great in the army, but in fact he didn't have that great ability, so he had to leave the army and jump ship. After returning home, Liu Qiang didn't realize his shortcomings. He didn't go out to work. He told Yan Ni what to do all day and didn't make progress all day. When he got home, he violently attacked Yan Ni, beat Yan Ni to pieces, and finally cheated on his colleagues. Yan Ni's love life in the first half of his life was very miserable.
The marriage of two people is not simply that you love me and I love you, but the integration of two families and the influence they have brought to their children since childhood. This is the so-called collocation! If Liu Qiang and Yan Ni had known this truth earlier, maybe they wouldn't have made the wrong choice in the first place.