However, the reality often gives people unexpected shocks, and infidelity in feelings is not uncommon. Even if there is no cheating, two people together may not be able to find the initial feeling. Some people may ask, is it still meaningful to continue such feelings?
To answer this question, we must first ask: Why is the initial heart so worth cherishing?
Of course, not all initial dreams are worth a lifetime. Who hasn't naively said dreams like "scientist" or "little princess" in kindergarten or primary school?
This is also a kind of initial heart, but the most precious thing about this initial heart is not its content, but the innocence when it was said at that time.
Simply put, what is precious is that mind.
When you first fall in love, it is inevitable that you have beautiful ideals for love.
For example, some lovers fantasize that both sides can "but I feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn", and with one look, the other side can know exactly what they are thinking and want. And some lovers expect that both sides can live such a life, be happy, have no worries, and meet with smiles every day.
New soul, which produced these ideals, is very beautiful, but the specific content of the ideals may be unreasonable.
The heroine in the movie "Burning Years of Love" tearfully said "I will wait for you all my life" when facing the departing hero, but finally married someone else a few years later. When we met again, the heroine said sadly, "A lifetime is still too long." This is often the reality of life.
The long and unknown reality will inevitably change two people gradually. The once naive or naive ideal is likely to be gradually fragmented in the face of reality, but this does not mean that the initial heart is disillusioned.
As long as two people really love each other and are willing to pay for each other, then this initial heart is still there, and this feeling is worth keeping.