When a dish is in hand, the feelings of men and women are completely different. Men will immediately calculate how much oil, salt and cooking are needed to make a delicious dish. What women care about is the freshness, color and taste of the dish, and most importantly, whether there are insects crawling out of it. Su Dongpo said that it is too late to read books in this life. So is cooking. I doubt this ability. I just need to review in this life. Among the people I know, most people who can cook a delicious meal by flipping through the menu are men, but it is very rare for women to have this level.
What men lack is patience, and they often regard cooking as an invention. This may bring a dish that everyone praises, but they soon lose interest in repeated operation. Although women are slightly inferior in cooking skills, they are better at playing it steadily. Persistence is the most important thing. But the days go by day.
Therefore, the most outstanding chefs in the world are men, and the most people in the kitchen in the world are women. You can't marry a chef, which is the crux of the problem.