When I was in junior high school, I had a crush on a boy with a good relationship in my class. After graduating from junior high school, he went to work in other provinces, and I was still studying. Not long ago, we talked together again. Although still two people, but after all, no * * * experience. At most, I just say hello to each other and talk about the recent situation of my old classmates in junior high school. We feel at a loss when talking about topics of common interest.
I remember a chat, and he asked me what I was busy with. I said I was an animation designer, and I didn't think much. Then he kept asking what animation design was, which involved a series of professional knowledge issues, but he didn't understand and I didn't know how to explain it. I just changed the subject and asked him what he was busy with. He said that he had just finished watching The Flower Bell, and then he was very excited to tell me the story and his review, but I was ... not interested at all. In short, there will always be less tacit understanding between two people with big educational background gap. Even if you make a joke casually, he may not understand what you are saying. If you are embarrassed, he will be embarrassed.
Two people with a big educational background gap will not only have some difficulties in getting along, but also be dwarfed at work. If you graduate, you may find a more relaxed job, at least it won't consume too much physical strength. However, if the other party has vocational education, he may just be a skilled worker. Not only tired, but also very inferior. After being in love for a long time, contradictions come out. When dating in different working environments, different salaries and different ways of spending money, you may think it is romantic to watch movies together, but the other party may think that having dinner together is better than spending money on movies, at least it is not wasted!
In addition, there is a fatal problem. Two people with a big education gap will definitely have different life circles and friends. No matter which party takes the other party to a friend's party, it may be difficult to integrate into that environment. After many times, he won't go again, and the natural contradiction comes out.
For parents in China, most of them want their children to find a suitable one, and then spend their whole lives in peace. If the gap between the two of you is too big, parents will worry, and even if they don't stop it, they may not be very optimistic about your relations. If we quarrel in the future, because two people have different ideas, the way to deal with the problem will be different.
In a word, I think it is very unreliable for two people with completely different educational backgrounds to be together. Maybe you can have a very romantic love, but it is always suitable to be together.