If you want to get the eternal movement of life, you must find the value of life. In kazuo inamori's words, people are walking around naked. We basically can't take away everything in life. Only our souls can follow us and walk with us. The meaning of life lies in constantly sharpening our souls, so that our souls will be stronger when they leave than when they come.
If you can't find the meaning of life, it will only be boring and monotonous. With the goal of cultivating the soul, a person will have the motivation to live forever, learn more, be ready to help others, accept the suffering of the soul, and make the soul full and interesting. In this way, we left peacefully In short, life should have ideals, stage goals, a humble attitude of constantly exploring new knowledge, and an open and inclusive attitude.
I want to answer this question angrily, because the girl I shared a room with before is really the one who knows life best and knows nothing!
She is three years older than me, because we both like literature and study all kinds of literature and history, so we became friends. Later, she got tired of the life of a civil servant and felt that it was not the working environment she wanted, nor the lifestyle she wanted. As soon as she closes her eyes, she can imagine the lifestyle in the next 30 years, which makes her feel monotonous.
So I resigned decisively and came to my city from her side, which surprised me. Before coming, she used a lot of free time after resigning to play almost all over the country and spent all the money she had saved from her work in recent years. The next year, we discussed sharing a room together. Fortunately, we won a single-family house with kitchen and bathroom at a very reasonable price.
In order to create a comfortable home, after discussion, we refused the supporting furniture provided by the landlord for free, bought beds and carpets of suitable size online, went to IKEA to buy cheap white tables, and spent three days cleaning up the house.
She seldom orders takeout, because she likes cooking, and cooking depends on self-study.
She gets off work an hour earlier than me, so she cleans up dinner every day, and I am responsible for some cleaning after dinner.
She is also very particular about what to wear every day. Every time she goes out, she must carefully choose what to wear, what earrings to wear and what bag to carry, and choose the best one according to the weather and the degree of warmth and coldness.
Not only that, she treats her relatives and friends with great care and kindness.
Ordinary days always give me some small surprises. Sometimes I forget my birthday, but she still remembers it and always surprises me at midnight 12 on time.
Actually, her family is not rich. She spent all the money she earned, lived in a small house decorated by herself, ate her own cooking, raised a few pots of favorite flowers, bought a lovely kitten and went wherever she wanted. She invited us out to watch the exhibition when she was free, and stayed at home reading and watching TV if she didn't want to go out.
Later, she moved out for work reasons, but so far, she is the most lively girl I have ever seen.
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question: everyone has a different definition of life. Some people live smartly, while others save all their lives. Today I will talk about the people around me who saved their lives. They are a couple and my colleagues. Here are some examples:
1: Because the working hours of our company are from 8:00 am to 20: 30 pm, it is considered overtime from 5:30 pm to 20:30 pm, and working on Saturdays and Sundays is considered double overtime. In recent years, they have never stopped working overtime unless there are special circumstances or emergencies (overtime at 5 o'clock). Under normal circumstances, if you are tired from work, you have to work overtime for two days before you can rest, but they don't, because if the company doesn't work overtime, there will be no food to eat, and you have to go home to buy food and cook, spend money, and work hard for better economic conditions at home. This is also their life.
Our company has staff dormitories, and both men and women have bathrooms for employees to take a bath. The couple will bring a change of clothes to work in the morning, take a bath in the staff bathroom as soon as they get off work at night, and then go home, because the water fee at home is expensive and the company's is free. When they go home, they also use the water from washing vegetables and clothes to flush the toilet, which is also their economic life.
Our company doesn't go to work on National Day. I remember it was the Dragon Boat Festival. They go to the supermarket to buy special dishes for activities. In order to attract customers, they can spend a few cents on one. They bought two small noodles for about one yuan, three yuan of noodles, two yuan of steamed bread (because it is mainly pasta in Anhui), three yuan of tofu and two sausages (these prices were learned by chatting at work later). We asked him why he didn't buy some meat. He said that the company eats meat every day, but not every day. This is also the life they saved.
Remarks: They are not poor. They have worked for so many years and accumulated a lot of wealth, more than us, but this is their way of life. This is their way of life.
That's my answer. I hope this helps.
People who understand life are called "caring for people" in my eyes. In the eyes of a careless person like me, the biggest feature of paying attention to people is that they are unwilling to compromise on details, and they are meticulous in all aspects of food, clothing, housing and transportation. I really have such a "best friend" around me.
It goes without saying that you never eat junk food when you eat. She told me that she never knew the taste of leftovers. She said that the leftovers are all nitrite, and no matter how many dishes are left, they should be thrown out in a unified way.
A few days ago, she told me that the quality of the quilt cover was too poor, and there were holes just two months after I bought it. Later I learned that she changed to a four-piece bed every other day. It turned out that it wasn't the poor quality of the bedding at all, but she washed it.
Needless to say, when we go shopping, she never goes where we can bargain. She said that she couldn't bargain and couldn't stand the atmosphere, so she always dragged me to the big shopping mall, and two or three people "served in person". People who don't know think she is white, but in fact she earns 3000 yuan a month.
Fortunately, she never handles it casually. Gluttonous diners who love to eat will look everywhere and eventually return to the end of their own cooking. This is determined by the greedy nature, and also by the irreconcilable contradiction between the escalating taste buds in China and the low-quality and cheap dining out. Just like Zhu Zizhi in The Gourmet, even if the hooves in the restaurant have been served on the table, we still have to find out what is not burnt and tasteless. You need to pack it and take it home to burn it, and then half a catty of chicken hair is placed at the bottom, bright red and green, in a white porcelain plate. This is the art of paying attention to people's appearance and understanding life.
A young lady like me, 36 years old, works in a state-owned enterprise from nine to five.
Single row is full from Monday to weekend.
Get off work on Monday for manicure and beauty,
Watching movies on Tuesday,
Go shopping on Wednesday to see the latest new clothes, bags and shoes.
Play badminton on Thursday
Driving in go on road trip from Friday to weekend, climbing, camping and hiking.
Life is very regular! ! !
People who understand life used to be called "people-oriented". The biggest feature of paying attention to people is that they are unwilling to compromise on details.
For example, eating this thing, Suzhou gluttonous Zhu written in Lu's "Gourmet" opens his eyes at 5 am every day, and an idea pops up in his mind: "Go to Zhu Hongxing to eat noodle soup!" . This is because a thousand bowls of noodles and a pot of soup. Down to 1000 bowl, the noodle soup is burnt, and the noodles are not so refreshing and slippery, and there is a smell of noodle soup. A real gourmet, if he eats a bowl of noodle soup, will be depressed all day and always feel a little unhappy. The art of eating, like other arts, must firmly grasp the relationship between time and space.
So when you ask me who knows a lot about life, the first thing that comes to my mind is Zhu Autonomy. But now there are not many people who can live like old Suzhou and old Shanghai, and there are not many people who can tell a few thousandths of bad tastes like Zhu. However, as long as people who are still good around have a common performance, they like to cook by themselves. For example, the next bowl of Suzhou noodles, hard and soft, can't be held, not because they can't afford to eat outside, but because they can't hold their attention outside, which is the same as Zhu Zizhi's spiritual core.
To put it another way, living exquisitely means not compromising on details, even if only one person eats. Generally speaking, what the low-end catering industry likes most is compromise, compromising taste in order to please more people and compromising health in order to save costs. If you compromise too much, it will become boring. Cooking by yourself can get all these lost details back. Cooking is as personal as taste. Only your own taste can best grasp the nuances inside.
For example, curry beef brisket rice, most restaurants in the market make sweet Japanese curry, and the color is very tender, with some carrots, which is too clean for me. My curry is thick, dirty, spicy and sweaty. The only one that can meet my requirements is the halal beef restaurant in Kowloon, Hong Kong. I can't eat it at ordinary times, but I have to cook it myself when I really want to eat it. In addition to curry sauce, I want to add sweet pepper powder, a lot of garlic, morning pepper and sometimes some pillar sauce. There is no such thing as a small fresh Japanese curry outside. If you want this smell, you have to burn it yourself.
Another example is Luo Songtang. It's hard to find a better company than my own. Shanghai version of Luo Songtang sausage is the last resort in poor times, and now it has been fixed as a recipe and a flavor. Hong Kong-style Luo Songtang, on the other hand, likes to enlarge Chinese cabbage, which is neither delicious nor tasteless. Too much will only dilute the taste thickness of thick soup. If it is authentic Russian red vegetable soup, like Beijing Laomo, and because the taste of beets and tomatoes is too far away, you can't find the feeling of childhood. What shall we do? I can only do it myself. Try to put more of this this time and less of that next time. Set the taste pattern in groping. This taste is entirely for your tongue.
Noodles are more suitable for cooking by yourself. Noodles have regional characteristics, and they don't taste like mom's cooking when they go out. The only way is to call home and ask my mother for advice, try and make mistakes step by step, and practice lettering more and more skillfully in practice. The sauce in Zhajiang Noodles is salty outside. Who says you can't use sweet noodle sauce instead of soy sauce? Is it 1: 9 or 4: 6? Only cooking can tell. And is the radish in Lanzhou beef noodles diced or sliced? What Chili oil is used for Chongqing pea noodles? How much rice vinegar and peanut butter do you put in Shanghai cold noodles? It's hard to get the store to customize it for you, not to mention that the stores outside my hometown can't even imitate the styles well, not to mention such details.
People who know how to eat and live often refuse to take out food. No matter how well the lunch box is kept warm, it will be warm in your hand at most, which is a little worse than the feeling of burning your mouth when you just get out of the pot. The crispy pancakes have been softened by the steam in the plastic bag. The fillets of boiling fish have long since stopped boiling, but have become soaked in a nest of oil, and their appetite has long been lost. The worst thing is spaghetti. It is always cold in jiaozi. Wonton soaked in water is a pimple. Like wonton and noodles in soup, they stick together and chopsticks can't tear apart. It would be even more wasteful to order takeout in a better restaurant. Carefully-made dishes are all turned into plastic boxes. If you don't pay attention to them, all the efforts of the chef are blind. The money you pay is the same as those who enjoy the environment in the store.
There is something wrong with going out to eat. Most young people who have just joined the work can't afford good food. The average person is less than 100, and meat, oil and additives are all uneasy. I can't afford to eat good food every day. So the most cost-effective thing is to do it yourself. There are many videos now. Gordon Ramsay and Li Li watch the master's dishes. If you really try, you will find that it is not that difficult. Maybe it was poor and slow at first. But as long as you persist for a period of time, you will gradually have a sense of rhythm, and the cooked dishes will be faster and faster. Learning to store raw materials and seasonings reasonably at home can greatly facilitate the efficiency of cooking. If you play Keto's low-carbon or high-protein and low-fat diet, I'm afraid you have to bring your own lunch. Because it's really hard to find a restaurant that suits your diet plan outside. Sometimes I feel that cooking by myself is really something that smart people can do. In addition to overall management of raw materials and resources, we should also be good at using various convenient cooking tools. I know a little girl who brings her own food to work. She uses a bear electric lunch box, which takes up no space and is divided into two floors. On the ground floor, she put rice and black sesame seeds. She put a big row of baked onions with salted egg slices on it, so don't worry about the smell of food. The lunch box is directly plugged into the electric heater, and the whole room smells like onions. Nowadays, there are more and more good utensils, and they are easy to carry, and the sense of ceremony is far better than that of take-away plastic boxes.
People who know how to live will never cope casually. The gluttons who love to eat look around, search the mountains and patrol the sea, and finally return to the end of their cooking. This is determined by the greedy nature and the irreconcilable contradiction between the escalating taste buds in China and the low-quality and cheap dining out. Just like Zhu Zizhi in The Gourmet, even if the hooves in the restaurant have been served on the table, we still have to find out what is not burnt and tasteless. You need to pack it and take it home to burn it, and then half a catty of chicken hair is placed at the bottom, bright red and green, in a white porcelain plate. This is the art of paying attention to people's appearance and understanding life.
First of all, according to my observation, people who know more about life are people who live by the rules! When will it arrive? What should I do? What should I do? It's all clearly planned! They have common goals and their own dreams! And work hard for this dream. Go to work honestly and finish every job with your heart! Go out to play on holiday! Stay with your family and friends! Enjoy life. They don't have much money, but they won't worry about it! With a house and a car, the family lives a happy life! As for me, I am envious! Because I am trying to learn from them! Work hard for a better tomorrow!
Share my mental journey from working and renting a house after marriage to buying a house in the north and south now. When renting a house, no matter whether the house is old or new, I always take a day off to clean and dress up. Some people always say that it is rented anyway. The house is rented, but the people who live in it are their own. Only when people persist in a beautiful yearning in a world that is not rich will fate always give people opportunities.
In the eyes of a thousand people, there are a thousand Hamlets. Everyone has a different definition of life, and the lifestyle they choose is naturally different, so life is very different. Some people think that life should be "once you climb to the top of the mountain, you will see that other mountains are short under the sky." So they keep fighting hard, devote themselves wholeheartedly to their work and constantly improve themselves in all aspects; Some people think that life should be "picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and walking leisurely out of Nanshan", so they slow down the pace of life, invite three or five friends in their spare time, or have tea or go for an outing, do not envy other people's clothes and anger, and settle for their own little days; Some people think that life should be "I will walk until the water checks my way when you are sitting in Yun Qi", so they are chic and casual, they like to travel and explore alone, and they don't like being tired of foreign things.
The so-called "people who know life" don't simply look at their superficial living conditions, but look at whether their lives conform to their own definitions, their own pursuits and their own values. Otherwise, even if a person's life is enviable to outsiders, he or she may still be anxious inside, unable to understand his or her life and enjoy it. For a person who is committed to expanding his territory at work, traveling is a waste of life for them, not a leisure pleasure in the eyes of ordinary people. For a person who likes novelty and adventure, leisurely country life is lifeless and nothing new to them. For a person who likes to immerse himself in his own world and talk to his heart, the lively life of calling friends is a noisy torture for them.
Because everyone has different values and different definitions of life, there will naturally be countless kinds of scenery in life. Living conditions, two completely different people, not necessarily one does not understand life, but maybe they all know their own life value, so they make different choices in the eyes of others. It is because of this difference that the world is wonderful. Therefore, when we don't know others, we can't talk about whether others know life or not, and we can't just evaluate how others are doing from our own perspective.
As long as people around you are living a comfortable and sufficient state, they are people who know life.
If you want to get the perpetual motion machine of life, you need to find the value of life. In kazuo inamori's words, people come and go naked, and we can't take everything in life. Only our souls can follow us and walk with us. The meaning of living is to constantly hone our soul, so that when we leave, our soul will be much stronger than when we came. If you can't find the meaning of living, it can only be boring and monotonous. With the goal of tempering the soul, there will be endless motivation when you are alive. You will learn more, be helpful, accept the grinding of your soul by pain, and make your soul full and interesting. So when we leave, we will be calm and closed. In short, we must have ideals, phased goals, a humble attitude of constantly exploring new knowledge, and an open and inclusive attitude.