Women who forgive men for cheating on the grounds that "men are like that" should take full responsibility for the increasing disloyalty of men now. You tolerated the bad guys, and even the good guys went bad. If men are "all like that", why do women marry them? I can't die if I live alone, besides, single women have the right to three palaces and six hospitals. At present, there is a serious imbalance between men and women in China. What are we afraid of? If women can unite and turn their enemies into friends and execute all the bad men who cheat, I'm afraid they will pay attention to the fact that the leader is very angry again, and the consequences are very serious.

Palliative and cultivated rape

Men are like this is the same song for women.

There was no warning at noon that day.

The boss is suddenly in a good mood. I heard that there was a private restaurant downstairs, so I invited my colleagues to have dinner together. After dinner, I packed some mutton that my husband likes to eat and sent it upstairs. My husband's unit is close to home and occasionally comes back for lunch break. I am far from home and never come back at noon.

Strangely, the door won't open. I think there must be a thief. A colleague was invited by phone. Everyone stood at the door, some said they would call the police, and some said they would pry the door open. Busy as a bee, I suddenly received a text message from my husband, "I am in the house, please let your colleague go." An old lady next to me happened to see my news and immediately patted me on the shoulder knowingly. My mind is a mess, and I don't know how to end it.

Big sister found a colleague. The moment the door opened, the woman ran out with her head wrapped in a scarf, and her husband pressed me firmly against the wall like a prisoner. There is only one thought in my mind: "divorce". But when I said these two words, he cried and said that he loved me very much and was just taking part in accidental amusement with that woman.

He went to work in the afternoon, and my elder sister accompanied me. She said, "Men are always confused for a while. As you just saw, he still has feelings for you. Why did he give his man to that woman? He would certainly appreciate it if you could be generous with such a big handle. " It seems reasonable to think about what the elder sister said. Those married male colleagues in the unit say that every day. I don't know how many times I cheated, but their wives didn't find out. Later, when I told my best friends about it, they actually tried to make peace and not to leave. Abortion divorced because of a man's infidelity and took care of her children alone. She also said that she was naive at the beginning. If it were now, she wouldn't get divorced if she was killed. "Men are like this. As long as he still loves his family, there is nothing wrong with physical derailment. " S is more realistic. She said that you can wear 1000 shoes and 2000 clothes now, all because of your husband. Divorced, you are a "second daughter" with nothing.

In fact, my husband has always been very kind to me and has never shown empathy. Think about it this way, maybe he and that woman really take part in accidental amusement.

After my husband promised not to come with that woman again, we made up again. To my horror, I soon found something left by a strange woman in my bed. This time, my husband was not as flustered as before, but said simply that a female customer left it in my car and I helped her pick it up. His text messages and phone calls have also become ambiguous. Sometimes I stand on the balcony and answer the phone for more than half an hour. I lost my temper and he said, "How can I make money without talking about business?" But his sweet expression clearly shows that he is not talking about business.

One night, he was drunk and lipstick was printed on his shirt. I questioned him, and he patted my face with a smile and said, "Silly girl, you are an official empress anyway, what are you afraid of?" He is so shameless.

Motherly love flooding type

The secret that men get smaller as they grow up.

He is three years older than me and belongs to a stable and mature man.

In the pursuit of me, I stand out from many suitors with a delicious braised prawn. My friends say that I will live a happy housewife life in the future. But I am just a person full of maternal love. Once I fall in love with a man, I don't want him to suffer a little bit, and I can't hide that the man I love wears an apron all day and sinks into the world.

Every morning, I get up earlier than him. When I brush my teeth, I fill his cup with water and squeeze toothpaste on my toothbrush. Then start making breakfast. The first thing to do when I go home at night is to go into the kitchen and cook for him. Before marriage, he cooked at a high level, which made me feel insecure. I studied cooking hard, and finally one day, he convinced me that I was the real chef in my family. From that day on, he never walked out of the kitchen. The wardrobe is full of clothes I washed and ironed for him. After dinner, I washed the dishes, and he watched, chatting casually about the interesting things in the company, and occasionally hugging me affectionately from behind. Women do housework, and men hold her from behind and chat with her, which is the most romantic thing in my eyes. On winter nights, if he is too lazy to take a bath, I will even wash his feet with a basin of hot water.

Sometimes, he calls me little mother. Although I have to go to work and take care of my eldest son, I am very tired. However, I feel like seeing him so attached to me.

Ever since I got pregnant, the happy life of the prince and princess has been cast a shadow. Because of the heavy pregnancy reaction, I can no longer cook and iron clothes for him. After the baby was older, I began to make daily recipes according to the nutritional recipes of pregnant women. Naturally, I can't care about his preferences as I used to. At first, he said nothing but moped every day. Later, he began to coquetry and said, little mother, let's not have children. If you have a child, you won't love me. Just wash his feet. Sometimes, he will fly into a rage because of a little thing. Said that the status in the family is getting lower and lower, even worse than an unborn little guy. I really don't understand why he has no feelings for his baby, but is full of hatred. Looking back on these years, he has changed from a steady and mature man to an over-aged child. Now I'm going to be a father, but I'm not only immature, but also naive.

There are more and more arguments between us. To make peace, I took care of him with a big belly. But he was ungrateful. What he wants is to go back in time. He is the only sustenance of my feelings, but how is that possible?

Today, the child has been born for more than five months and can't adapt to the role of "father". Although I occasionally have children in Doby, I am more jealous of my baby or feel sorry for myself. Even more frightening, I found that he was in close contact with a female colleague who was five years older than him, and his mobile phone was full of caring messages from "Big Sister". "Pay attention to drink more water when you have a cold" "Let's cool down and put on more clothes today" "Does your head still hurt?" ..... Although it's nothing too much, it makes people feel very ambiguous, what's more, there are almost seven or eight messages a day, and he even hates deleting them.

I finally had a baby, but he was having an affair with someone else. It's really unpleasant to think about it. Unexpectedly, he was not guilty at all, but plausibly said, you don't care about me. Don't you allow others to care about me? He even said that I was having an affair. My affair was a child. God, how can a person be as naive as a murderer?

There will always be some men who are mature, reasonable and successful outside, but they seem to be a different person when they come home. Laziness, dependence and emotional fragility. Men's excessive demand for love is often spoiled by women. When the wife's maternal love is too rampant and her husband is regarded as the first son, men will quickly adapt to the role of sons. Unfortunately, this is a kind of mother-child relationship without blood relationship, and the former "mother" could not be as careful as before for various reasons. He will feel left out, and even go outside to look for warmth, he won't feel anything wrong. Such a bad man would kill a woman. In order not to be a yellow-faced woman who was dumped, you must restrain the flood of maternal love from the beginning. It's silly to be spoiled and show weakness, which inspires father's love. These days, whoever fills the elders is unlucky.

Price-driven

Bad guys play with office collective love.

Arvin is my boss and a good man in my dream.

He is both handsome and diligent. He was promoted to supervisor at the age of 24. The most important thing is that he is a single-minded person. After his girlfriend went to America, the love between the two places lasted for four years until the girl married another woman. On the other hand, Arvin devoted himself to his work and turned a blind eye to extramarital affairs. I decided to take the offensive. Buy him breakfast every day, sneak fresh strawberries into his drawer, lay down your life for his wine when you are socializing, and don't forget to buy him something novel and fun when you are on a business trip. I am an apple polisher in others' eyes, but as long as I can find a rich husband, I don't care what others think.

At a company dinner, Gao Jiawen drank too much and threw up at home. I cleaned up his house like a virtuous little wife and stayed up almost all night. The next morning, Arvin woke up and was very moved. So we had our first intimate contact.

From then on, Arvin took care of me at work. Everyone can see that Arvin is very kind to me. I just wait for Arvin to show his love commitment and then resign.

One morning, when I secretly put breakfast on Gao Jiawen's table as usual, I was surprised to find a cup of hot cocoa on the table. When the company socializes, female colleagues who are willing to help Arvin drink begin to emerge in large numbers. Some people who don't usually drink are Dionysus now. On one occasion, Gao Jiawen took me, Tian Mi and Eiko to Shanghai on business. At the dinner table, when Li Bei wanted to light a cigarette, three women reached for the lighter on the table at the same time. The people in the other company sourly lost a sentence, and your manager Cai is so favored. I hate those two dead women. Coco got married last year, and Eiko is getting married soon. They are already occupied. What are you arguing with me about?

Gao Jiawen's attitude towards me has been lukewarm since the female employees in the company competed for flattery. Occasionally, he still invites me to his house, but he never talks about his feelings. Take public money at both ends of the day, please go out to karaoke. Once, I accidentally broke him and COCO kissing in a box, and his throat seemed to swallow a fly. I didn't expect Arvin to be so bad. If he becomes my husband ... I will break out in a cold sweat.

Successful men are prone to philandering? In fact, the man is still the man, but there are many women who spoil him, so he is happy to forget the way he came, forget that he was dumped by his girlfriend, and forget how to write his single-minded and pure feelings. When a group of women pounce on the same man with different purposes, which man won't be spoiled? For this kind of man, if you want to be with him forever, you must use a strong attitude to blow his confidence and make him feel that you are different. Of course, there are certain risks in doing so, but it is better than enduring humiliation and continuing to spoil him all your life.

Concubine type

Where is a man's conscience?

I was 19 years old when I met him. I fell in love with him without regrets, and I didn't even care that he was married.

He told me that he would never get a divorce. As a former health worker in an academy of fine arts, I never thought I could get married in my life. As long as there is love, birthright is not important.

During the four years together, I was always underground. I can't take the initiative to call and text him except during office hours. One Sunday, I had a high fever and called him. He picked up the phone and sent me away. The next morning, he called to say that it was dangerous yesterday, and her ears pricked up when she sat next to me. I complained that he didn't care about me. He said I was going to a meeting. Go to the hospital.

As long as there is an opportunity, we always make love crazily. Only in this way can I feel this man's feelings. At other times, he should care about his wife and children and work hard in his career. Just, after the madness, I am extremely empty-am I just his bedding? I am not reconciled. As I grow older, I also see that I will find someone who loves me after all. When I told him this idea, he suddenly hugged me and said I wouldn't let you go. He cried. He shed tears in front of me for the first time since we met. My heart is as soft as cotton candy. The next day, he gave me a certificate of deposit of 20,000 yuan and said gently, I don't have time to go shopping with you. Go buy something you like. I'm not happy at all.

I received this deposit slip. I suddenly have a hunch that maybe my relationship with him just wasted my youth and left me with nightmares for many years. After a drink, he said, "You are my little wife, and you must be single-minded to me."

I asked my friend for help and revealed my relationship with him to his wife. Strangely, everything is like a mud cow entering the sea, and nothing has changed. Later, my friend told me that his wife asked for a divorce, but he refused and wrote a letter of guarantee with tears. However, he still dates me every week. I think he is determined to have wives and concubines.

Once I asked him if ML felt sorry for his wife when she was with me. He said he didn't think so. Anyway, my wife should be content to earn money to support her family. I asked again, what about me? Have you ever felt sorry for me? He said, you love me, I know. What he means is that you deserve bad luck if you love me.

More and more men feel that it doesn't matter to have an affair, because more and more women are willing to serve as their bedding for free. In the absence of commitment, no future, and even men are too lazy to say I love you, they are dead set to "dry their tears and sleep with you." These love-oriented women even avoid spending men's money because they don't want to be mistresses. Unfortunately, a woman who dedicates her passion to a married man without asking for anything in return will only make men feel that women are very cheap. Love has rules, infatuation has principles, and men are spoiled by blindly infatuated women.