How can you go back when others scold you? (Wang Wenzhong) When others scold you, when others use words to make you feel uncomfortable, when others use words to deprive you of social dignity, when others only use words and voices to disturb the hearts of you and the people around you, making you feel uncomfortable inside and others feel uncomfortable, how can you go back without actually hurting your personal and property safety? Haha, Chairman Mao, who is familiar with the art of war, said it well. Surprise, not according to the enemy's routines and expectations, is the first step in the war. Calm yourself down, pay attention to breathing, let the other person's language fly in the air, let the other person's tongue and throat get tired for a while, and consume local energy. This is the most basic means to let the other party "worry". On this basis, the next step depends on the relationship between the two sides and their own personality and ability. The methods you can choose are: recording and playing afterwards; Go up and slap each other in the face and hurt each other's face; You can go home and keep a diary to record and analyze each other's words and deeds and your own experiences at that time; You can scold each other ... in short, you don't transfer for each other, which is beyond their expectation. You don't care about the gains and losses of one city and one place, and you can make more friends and deepen your friendship, trust and tacit understanding with friends.

Hu Lili 2018.4.12-4.438+03

I have been thinking about this topic since I saw it the other day. When you are scolded, you will only cry a lot. Even though I was shivering with anger, I didn't know what words I could use to fight back. Even if I am angry sometimes, I want to slap each other in the face, but I don't know whether I am afraid of each other or trouble. I just can't raise my hand and slap directly. With the growth of age, my temper has gradually calmed down a lot. When others scold me, I will smile and say, Go back and suffer. Whoever scolds me will suffer, and the whole family will suffer. Then if you are still angry, find time to keep a diary and write down the whole process. The process of writing is also a process of venting, and your mood will be better. Sometimes when I keep a diary, I look for a place where I feel safe. Safe people, such as family members and relatives, will talk about it and forget it like dust from the wind. Occasionally, after a long time, I will think of it and be laughed at by the ugly behavior of the other party at that time. Because the swearing person I imagined in my mind was ugly, a black old woman and a buffoon. When others only use foul language to present their inner feelings, he or she is fed up. I sympathize with such people. Although there must be something hateful about poor people, hatred comes from bravery, and the discomfort caused by this hatred is not worth it! Therefore, I used to feel very cold when I heard these dirty words, but now I am almost indifferent! Is it the best way to turn a deaf ear to people who jump off buildings and swear? !

Yumeng 2018.4.12-4.6438+03

This topic is very interesting, just what I want to solve, and I want to know how others come back. In an argument, yes