Let me talk about my recent blind date experience. It was really full of ups and downs.

The thing is like this. My aunt’s company has a female colleague who was born in the 1990s. She is also from my hometown. She works at the front desk. She is also beautiful. She is very attentive to guests. Many people pursue her. But she didn't like it. She didn't want to marry a stranger. She said she wanted to marry someone near her hometown, so it didn't happen. It was just during the Chinese New Year that my aunt talked about the blind date, so she introduced her to me, saying that this girl is gentle, virtuous, cheerful, hardworking and family-oriented; you have a car, a house, and a high salary, so you two will definitely make it happen. When you meet for the first time, you must dress handsomely, be generous, and give the girl a very good impression.

In order to prepare for this blind date, I also worked hard. I bought shoes, clothes, pants, and permed my hair, which can be said to be a makeover. I also watched a lot of Douyin and Toutiao introductions. Dating skills, chat topics, precautions, etc. The day before the blind date, my aunt Qian Dingzhu Wan told me to dress handsomely and be generous with my actions. The place has been found for you. Have morning tea at the Kirin Hotel at ten o'clock tomorrow, set out early to reserve a table, and don't lose etiquette. I said, don't worry, I'm ready.

I sent a message to my aunt early the next morning to set off, but the hotel closed down due to the epidemic. Fortunately, there was a Manchun Garden nearby where we also had morning tea, so I went to book a table and we communicated well on the phone. Send the address to my aunt, and order some Cantonese-style breakfast at the same time. They arrived at the place after ten o'clock. I asked them to sit down, introduced each other, and gave them the menu and breakfast. They could order whatever they wanted. Then we started chatting, praising each other, talking and laughing, saying how delicious this food was, and telling anecdotes about our colleagues’ anecdotes, travels, hometowns, etc. At this time, I have to say that the breakfast in Guangdong is really not good, it is really sexy. The aromas are all there, and there are huge crowds of people drinking morning tea, admiring how Cantonese people really enjoy themselves. The crowd was buzzing. The strange thing was that we actually had a great time chatting. Even my aunt kept praising you. You two are really destined and look like a couple. She was so surprised. She said that the conversation between you two was very lively. , like a boyfriend and girlfriend who haven’t seen each other for many years, and they haven’t even finished talking about it. At about 12 noon, we added each other on WeChat and exchanged phone numbers. I invited her to hang out in the Shenzhen Talent Park. My aunt started her getaway mode and said that we would have dinner at her house that evening.

I drove her to the park and talked and laughed in the car. When I got to the park, I wanted to buy some snacks, but there were no snacks nearby, so I just walked and chatted with two bottles of water. I was tired. Then we sat on the lawn and continued to chat happily about our travels, food, drink, school, family, childhood and other topics. During the process, we looked at each other and communicated with our eyes. We chatted for two or three full days. For hours, I never stopped for a moment. I was secretly happy that I had met true love. At around 4 o'clock, she said that she would not go to my aunt's house for dinner as the quilt was still drying in the place where she lived. She had made an appointment with friends in the evening and wanted to go back early. I said yes, let's eat something nearby and then go back. She said no, she was still full now and had a big meal in the evening, so it wouldn't be a waste of money, but I still took her to Vientiane City to see She didn't like eating at several noodle shops and said she wanted to go back, so she gave up. Then I planned to drive her back, but I saw that there was a severe traffic jam on the navigation system. It took almost two hours to go back, and the subway only took more than 50 minutes. She said to take the subway back, so I didn't force her, and then sent her to the subway station. Went back by subway. I'm too rational at this point.

After she went back, I told my aunt about what happened in the afternoon, and she scolded me for being stupid. How can you let her take the subway back, even if it takes 3 hours to send a girl back? I bow my head and admit my mistake like a good child. About 50 minutes later, the girl sent me a message saying that she was back home. I also sent her a message saying, I'm sorry, I should have sent you back. I was wrong. I'll treat you to a meal to make up for it. She said it's okay. , just send me back next time. Just send a message and chat for a few words, she went to work, and I drove home. An hour and a half after I got home, I called her on WeChat and told her that I was home too. I also apologized to her and asked her to play and have dinner together on Sunday. She said she didn’t have time and had made an appointment with her friends to play. I I knew the preparation was not done well.

I sent her a message on the second day, the third day, and the fifth day, and responded to her on the second day, but there was no response on the third and fifth day. I couldn’t chat with her until Saturday. I asked her to go out for the weekend, and she said she had an appointment, so I asked her to go out for supper that night. She also said she had an appointment, so I said I could make an appointment next week, and she said we could talk about it later. My aunt was also very concerned about our situation at this time. She called me and said, you should work hard to pursue her, chat with her more, and care about her more. Then I told her that it might not work. My aunt said no. The girl said she has a good impression of you, so don't give up. You can't catch up with such a good girl. Don't call me aunt when you go home. I really had mixed feelings at this time, so I bit the bullet and said, OK, I will definitely pursue it hard. I sent her WeChat messages in the next few days, but occasionally she didn't even reply. I called her on WeChat, but she didn't answer. After a while, he sent me a message saying what happened. I said I wanted to chat with you about something, and then I called her on WeChat again, but she rejected me. Then she replied to WeChat saying that it was very late and she needed to wash up and go to bed, and that was the end of the conversation. She sent her messages in the next two days and never replied. She was so worried that she didn’t know what was going on.

Am I not working hard enough?

Dear friends, do you have any tips? Please give me some tips on what to do next.