Tanabata is called Valentine's Day in China. The traditional tanabata is to see the legend about cowherd and weaver girl. In the middle of the night, you can hear the cowherd and the weaver girl whispering under the cucumber frame. With the entry of Valentine's Day in the West, the traditional Valentine's Day in China has been neglected because of its single form and simple activities, and even is in danger of being abandoned. Nowadays, couples' lives are very casual, and most of them are opportunities to express themselves to each other. If you want to spend Tanabata with your boyfriend, you must ask his permission first. Ask him about his itinerary in advance, and don't tell him your real purpose. Prepare a book he likes for him. If you made a promise before, you can take the opportunity to make it up. Don't have too many activities, create a good atmosphere for them. His state determines your choice of position. If he is tired from work, he can choose amusement parks, lakes and so on. If he is full of energy, he can choose some places he likes. The most important thing about dating is how you feel. You should let his thoughts follow you so that you won't feel bored. This requires your tolerance and understanding, and you need to understand each other.