"There are school rules at school and family rules at home" is a common saying. When asked, "What are the family rules? What are your family rules? " Many people suddenly froze.
Family rules. Every family has different rules. When eating, the family really said, "There is nothing to say when eating, and nothing to say when sleeping." After eating, you can't put chopsticks on the top of the bowl, but on the table, which shows that you have eaten well. If there are fishbones and bones on the table, sweep them into the bowl with chopsticks. You can't leave after these things. You can't leave the table until everyone has eaten.
There is another family rule in our family-only three things. Once I was walking in the park after dinner, because someone stepped on the stool, so I took out a piece of paper, cleaned the stool and threw it away. A cleaner came out and said, "Why are you so rude and littering everywhere?" My face turned red at once when I heard what she said. I apologized and ran away. I picked it up so far and threw it in the trash can to calm the anger of the cleaner.
Family style is the ethos of a family. Once the family style is corrupted, the family's thoughts will also be corrupted. This will give people a bad reputation, and then no one wants to associate with this family. At this time, it is too late to change.
My family style is "filial piety". As the saying goes, filial piety comes first, and parents and elders should be filial. When our parents are old, we can't talk back. We should always consider our parents. Even if what they say is wrong, talk amicably. Tell us to do things, don't refuse, try our best to help our parents, and make "all virtues and filial piety come first." .
Family style is family rules. Only with good rules can it be orderly, and with good family style can it be better based on society.
My family style and rules (2)
State-owned laws and family rules. My family rules are twelve words: diligence and simplicity, honesty and trustworthiness, filial piety to parents. These twelve words are deeply imprinted in my mind, because they represent my parents and me.
1, star of thrift: mom
"ah! Don't water the vegetables, you can water the flowers! " Mother shouted. "What's the big deal? It's not that our family is short of water. " Dad looks indifferent. "You know those places in Africa are short of water, and those children are black and thin with thirst. What are you talking about saving water? I think you are just talking and not doing it! " Mom glared at dad angrily. "Ok, ok, I'll water the flowers with vegetable washing water in the future." Dad was busy pretending to be poor, so mom let him go.
2, the star of honesty and trustworthiness: Dad
"Yes! Dad took me out to play! " I jumped three feet for joy. You know, dad always said to take me out to play next time, but next time, dad said next time. Today, my father took me out to play for the first time, which made me very excited. (www..Com) Dad also promised that I would quit smoking and drinking. As a result, dad really quit smoking, even the cigarettes handed to him by his colleagues.
3. Filial Piety Star: Me
Whenever mom and dad come home, I, a waiter, start my work. "Mom, let me pour you a glass of water!" "Dad, do you want me to hammer your back?" "Mom, let me pinch your shoulder!" "Dad, have some fruit to moisten your throat!" ""
When I was busy running around, my parents' eyes burst into tears.
I will pass on the family rules forever and let the fine traditions spread throughout the motherland.
Nanyang 7 th primary school Wu (4) Ban Wang
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Family Style and Rules Composition (3): Daughter's Lunch Box (Narrative)
The so-called "state-owned laws, family rules." Without rules, Fiona Fang cannot be established. Every family has rules of one kind or another, and the content of norms is different from the overall goal of the socialist value system advocated by the state now. The family rules of my family are the same as those of all families, which are nothing more than patriotism, law-abiding, courtesy, unity and friendship, diligence and self-improvement, and dedication. However, as a Hui family, for many years, how to abide by national traditions to the maximum extent and how to live in harmony with other ethnic groups has always been the principle that our ancestors have always followed in dealing with people.
Most parents stay in their ancestral homes and engage in industries such as industry and commerce and service industry; In our generation, with the popularization of education, our experience is no different from that of ordinary post-70s. The senior high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, studying in different places, and obtaining employment in different places, an increasingly open and diverse world is before us, and we often lament our adaptability to society. When my daughter went to primary school, lunch became the biggest headache for the whole family. Because there are few Hui children in school, there is no special meal for Hui people. So on the way to school, I often see a little girl carrying a schoolbag and a git.
At first, my daughter didn't like to bring lunch boxes. She often said, "When I was in my junior year, I often had a lot of food left. After grade five or six, her lunch box became the favorite of the whole class. At lunch, everyone has to guess what she brought today, and she knows my family's recipes like the back of her hand. She even said, "When will your family have a small Hui table? ".It contains her too much happiness and glory, and carries her too many hopes and dreams. Now, my daughter will graduate from primary school, leaving her beloved teachers and classmates, and the way she once ate together will remain in her heart forever.
The small lunch box, seemingly ordinary, is clearly a kind of persistence and a national belief. Some people may say, "Why are you so hard on yourself? What's the big deal? " Confucius said, "Don't do it with small evils, and don't do it with small goodness." "If you lose your faith just because you are greedy for a moment, what can you persist in the face of big and big?" We often say this to our daughter.
Family rules are rulers, measuring everyone's mind; Family rules are gardens, which contain everyone's thoughts; The family rule is spring rain, which moistens things silently. China, a civilized, kind and brave oriental lion, will finally make the world sit up and take notice.
Composition of Family Style and Family Rules (4)
Family style, also known as family style, is actually to form a unified moral standard in the family. Therefore, a good family style can help family members better learn some principles of life!
"Apply what you have learned, make what you have learned stand", and regard diligent study as the normal task of cultivating a good family style. Sages are made by learning, and they are made by learning. A political party will be strong because of learning, and the nation will be rich and strong because of learning. Similarly, the family will continue to progress and develop because of learning. Noble personality and good conduct begin with family, and then are cultivated through long-term study and work practice. Throughout the ages, many people of insight have attached great importance to educating people by learning and governing the family, and linked personal cultivation with cultivating a good style of study. Only by developing the habit of being good at learning, loving learning and being diligent in learning from an early age can we constantly cultivate moral sentiments, improve temperament and demeanor, and avoid falling into the predicament of being ignorant, blind and ignorant. The ancients said, "A scholar must be an official, and an official must be a scholar." Party member cadres should not only set an example of being diligent in learning, but also stimulate their families' interest in learning and cultivate their study habits. Through study, they can build themselves and enhance their intelligence and ability, which can also make good family style study passed down from generation to generation.
"There are two ways to make a fortune for officials", and being willing to be poor is the value pursuit of cultivating a good family style. Whether we can leave our children rich family wealth or precious spiritual wealth is an important sign to test whether party member cadres have a good family style. Luo Yin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote a famous sentence, "The national economy is gone, and family wealth is not for children". Premier Li Keqiang also said this to government officials: "For an official, there are two ways to get rich. Since he holds public office and serves the public, he must give up the idea of getting rich. " Being an official is not allowed to get rich, which is determined by the nature and purpose of the party, and it is a professional requirement and family education that must be followed. Facts show that the more family wealth, the easier it is to breed laziness and stifle creativity, which is extremely unfavorable to the family and society. A truly excellent parent leaves excellent thoughts and morals to his children, thus winning long-term honor and respect for his family and bringing long-term happiness and peace to his family.
"frugality is the way to cultivate one's morality, and virtue comes from frugality", and taking being willing to be frugal as the code of conduct to cultivate a good family style. Advocating thrift is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. In ancient times, there was a saying that "be diligent in housekeeping and frugal to cultivate one's morality". Thrift is a life attitude and value orientation, and it is a spiritual force that inspires people to forge ahead. Only by receiving education that is hard-working, simple and thrifty from an early age can we truly understand that "a porridge and a meal are hard to come by, and half a silk of persistent thinking is unbearable", and we can prevent our sense of superiority and consciously overcome our arrogance and femininity. Thrift is not only a virtue, but also a magic weapon for personal healthy growth. In reality, some cadres in party member began to pursue luxury life and gradually embarked on the road of violating discipline and law. We should consciously stay away from the temptation of luxury and always keep the idea of hard struggle. We should not only be proud of thrift, but also let children live in poverty and hardship, so that they can truly regard thrift as a kind of consciousness, embedded in the depths of their souls and become a rational choice for survival wisdom.
"Teach your children before class and your wife at the bedside" takes strict discipline as an important link in cultivating a good family style. Family gives people a sense of belonging and becomes the softest part of their hearts. Because of this, the family is easy to become a haven of human weakness, the principle is easy to be flexible in front of the family, and the bottom line is easy to break through in front of the family. Poor management of family members' children often leads to family misfortune. Party member cadres should consciously implement good work style in family life, often publicize policies and regulations to their families, help them draw a clear line between right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, honor and disgrace, go with the flow, abandon evil and be good; We must resolutely reject children's improper demands. At the same time, "words and deeds are more important than words and deeds", which requires children to have a harmonious family and be single-minded emotionally; To ask your family to be honest and upright, you must first stay away from vulgar tastes. Only in this way can the family become a family that pursues progress, a family that can stand the test of wind and waves, and a harmonious and happy family.
I hope that every household can form a good family style, so that family style can help us learn the truth of being a man and form a good atmosphere in society!
Composition of Family Style and Family Rules (5)
What are the family rules? During the Spring Festival, CCTV launched a series of reports. During the winter vacation, we watch and learn with our children repeatedly. Everyone from rural to urban, from adults to children is discussing this topic. Every time we finish this issue, the whole family will get together to discuss it. I felt a lot and benefited a lot.
Speaking of our family style and family precepts, my first thought is my child's grandfather, who is the head of our family and an old demobilized soldier. Up to now, his bones are still full of righteousness, and all the bad atmosphere in society is insulated from him. "The country has laws and the family has rules", which is also the opening remarks of every time he prepares to hold a family meeting or educate the younger generation. Family style is the ethos of a family. Our family rules are not written. They involve all aspects of life. Our children's grandfather taught us that lotus, though good, should be supported by green leaves. Although the family is good, it is also necessary to be around the neighbors, so that life can be peaceful. Therefore, we should live in harmony with our neighbors, help each other and respect each other. Only when we have a good reputation will someone be willing to associate with us and make friends all over the world. If this family is morally corrupt and often does things that harm others and benefit themselves, the bad reputation will spread widely among the neighbors, and over time no one will want to associate with you.
Filial piety is the first of all virtues, and filial piety to parents is also one of our family styles. The last time of grandma's life was spent in the hospital, during which we often took her to the hospital to visit the elderly. Old people in hospitals are often surrounded by their children and grandchildren. Five-year-old children will ask why so many people come to the hospital to take care of grandma every day, and everyone cooks so much delicious food for her. Everyone tries his best to take care of the old people in the last stage of their lives. I told him that filial piety to the elderly is what all of us should do. Old people have worked hard all their lives to have our big family today.
Parents are teachers in children's life, so we should set a good example for children in life and make them feel that it is his duty to respect the old, love the young and honor their parents, starting from an early age.
Grandparents often educate us to be honest and upright, not greedy for petty advantages and not afraid of losses. I also practice these living habits and often educate my children in my life. There is a couple selling handmade buns at the gate of our community. Husband doesn't talk much At first glance, he is an honest man, and his wife has a disability in her right hand. Their mung bean sprouts and bean products are all green food without additives, and the young couple run their small business in good faith. We also visit it often. My children asked my mother why so many people came to buy their steamed bread. I said that because of "honesty", handmade steamed bread and pollution-free mung bean sprouts, they all did it, so the business was good. Another time, I took my children to buy steamed bread. I gave 2 yuan steamed bread to her 10. Maybe there were too many people. He gave me 13 yuan. When I handed her 5 yuan, she was surprised. There were still many good people, and I couldn't earn 5 yuan by selling 50 steamed buns. The child asked me, mom, why did aunt say that? I smiled. I said my aunt earned hard-earned money. It's not easy to get up early and get greedy. We should be honest and not greedy for petty gain. The child nodded heavily and said that I would be like you in the future, not greedy and cheap, and be an upright person.
As parents, we can only start from the things around us, set a good example for our children in life, respect the old and love the young, honor our parents, be honest and clean, and let them benefit for life!