The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the biggest problem in marriage. Many people think that as long as the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be properly handled, many things can be solved, and then they will try their best to please or have some sense of distance. Then, as a family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really like a secretary and a small secretary at home. One pays attention to big things and small things, and the other is a handyman behind his back, but when facing the "three highs",

The "three high" mother-in-law refers to the "three high" people with high knowledge, elegance and high income. Xiaojin's mother-in-law is a typical "three highs" crowd, with superior family conditions, happy married life, love for her husband and filial son, especially Xiaojin's public company, many of which are taken care of by her mother-in-law inside and outside. In fact, Xiaojin, like many girls, will be at a loss when she meets such a mother-in-law in such a family, and even her mother will nag: such a delicate mother-in-law will be difficult to get along with and even difficult to serve. However, there are always many accidents in life, and Xiaojin's married life seems not so difficult.

Just coming to such a "three highs" family, Xiaojin's mother-in-law is very considerate to Xiaojin. Ask her if she can cook, and Xiaojin's husband will also help round the table and try to explain gently that Xiaojin can't cook. Although the mother-in-law was surprised and disappointed, her quality was not clearly shown, but she just laughed it off. For her mother-in-law's performance, Xiaojin quickly chose to help her mother-in-law wash the dishes after dinner, but her mother-in-law refused her. Mother-in-law is like the Minister of the Interior. She can take care of things at home and outside, including her father-in-law's company, including some important parties at home, and she can do it herself. Xiaojin is like a little secretary, pointing fingers and following her mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law is a very elegant woman, even if she goes out to get a milk, she has to "dress up" herself, but Xiaojin is used to being as comfortable as she is at home, which is completely incompatible with her mother-in-law. Then her mother-in-law will buy her home clothes and casual clothes and tell her: "Women should dress up exquisitely every day, because the time they can enjoy is limited and the youth they can enjoy is limited. Make-up is not to please others, but in life. Xiaojin is warm to her mother-in-law's teaching. ...

I thought that married into a "rich family", faced with such a "three high" mother-in-law, there would be endless anger and endless quarrels. Who knows, the generosity of her mother-in-law and the practice of "kissing her mother-in-law and settling accounts clearly" have made the family very harmonious. When Little King Kong entered the room, her mother-in-law had a family meeting with the young couple. Among them, the mother-in-law said: First, you should get home before 10, because you need 10 to go to bed on time when you are old, so you should go home as soon as possible and say hello in advance if you don't go home; Second, there will be a division of housework between her mother-in-law and Xiaojin, and her mother-in-law will tell Xiaojin that she hopes she can learn to do it occasionally, so that if guests come to her house, she can save face. Third, take good care of your husband and remind him to send birthday gifts when his family is born.

This seemingly irrational three-chapter agreement is undoubtedly a very healthy and harmonious way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along. Mutual respect and frank communication will help the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to establish a healthy small ecology, and everyone in the family will benefit.