Everyone will get old one day, and everyone will leave this world one day, which no one can change. Therefore, we should cherish time and cherish every day we live. In fact, life is very fast, especially after 40 years old. Time seems to have wings and passed in a blink of an eye.

When people are old, they will be much happier if they have a wife, and young couples will always accompany them. After decades of ups and downs, the old couple sat together to talk about the past, take a walk together, meet old friends together and enjoy their old age.

But not everyone can have a wife, some people are divorced, some people are widowed, and then they become lonely and single. In the previous family, the children Otawa and the elderly lived together, and the elderly would not be particularly lonely after losing their wives.

But in today's family, most children live apart from their parents. Old people are really lonely and helpless when they are alone. Life at home is a trivial matter, and children can only help a little occasionally, but details can't help.

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So some old people will think of remarriage, not for anything else, just looking for someone to talk to and live with.

That's what 63-year-old Ge thinks, so he wants to remarry six months after his wife died. Many people say that Uncle Ge is fickle, his wife's bones are not cold, and he wants to remarry, but all three children are very supportive and the second daughter actively helps him.

Mr. and Mrs. Ge have two daughters and a son. At that time, Uncle Ge's parents preferred sons to daughters. After the daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, her in-laws insisted that she have another child until a boy was born, so Uncle Ge and his wife gave birth to two daughters and a son.

The eldest daughter is married far away and seldom goes back to her parents' home all the year round, because it costs thousands of dollars to go back and forth. The eldest daughter and son-in-law are ordinary migrant workers, so it is not easy to make money. So Uncle Ge and his wife always say that they have nothing to do, so they will come back less and save some money.

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The second daughter got married not far away, and had a car accident a few years ago, and her leg was disabled. Now I have been in poor health, always uncomfortable here and there. There are two children to support at home, and the second daughter has no energy and ability to take care of her parents.

In order to earn more money, the youngest son and his wife went to work in other cities as soon as they got married. Later, in order to give their children a good education, they bought a house in the city where they worked and settled there. Uncle Ge and his wife became empty nesters, and the old couple took care of each other for more than ten years.

One day, his wife suddenly had a stroke and was paralyzed. Uncle Ge can't take care of himself, so the three children pooled their money to hire a nanny for their mother. But a year and a half later, the mother died and the three children came back to arrange the funeral.

Uncle Ge and the nanny have been together for a year and a half, and both of them have feelings, so when the nanny left, Uncle Ge was very reluctant. In the past, three people in the family talked and laughed together, but now only Mr. Ge is left. Mr. Ge feels particularly lonely and cold.

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My wife does all the housework when she is in good health. Later, my wife was in poor health and hired a nanny, so the housework was done by the nanny. Now that his wife and nanny are gone, Mr. Ge can only do it himself, but he can't do it at all. He eats instant noodles every day, sometimes for a week.

The second daughter went to see her father, and when she saw him like this, she was very distressed by him. She wanted to invite her former nanny back, but the nanny said that she was single and could not live with Uncle Ge alone. The second daughter thinks that what the nanny said is also reasonable, so she wants her father to marry the nanny!

The second daughter went to explore the tone of uncle ge. Uncle Ge didn't refuse to remarry, but felt that his wife had only died for half a year, so it was inappropriate for him to do so. Besides, it is not easy to find a wife. Where can I find the right person? So he didn't dare to think much.

The second daughter went to the nanny for advice. The nanny is very familiar with Uncle Ge and is willing to marry him. The nanny has only one son, and the family of three is also in the field, and she is also worried about her old mother's old age. Now they have heard that their old mother intends to remarry, and they immediately support it.

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The second daughter contacted her sister's house and her brother's house. After the two families understood the situation, they also supported Grandpa Ge to remarry, so Grandpa Ge remarried six months after his wife died. It's good for two lonely old people to take care of each other together, and their children don't have to worry too much about the old people.

Children need the care of their parents when they are young, and they need the care of their children when they are old. I raise you young and you raise me old. Sheep have the grace of kneeling and nursing, and crows have the meaning of feeding back, not to mention being human. But now many children are not around their parents, so it is difficult to be filial, so they are helpless.

In this case, it is a good choice for the elderly to remarry or find someone to live with. When people are old, their health will go wrong at any time. If there are no people around, they may die if they are not rescued in time.

But if someone is around, once something happens, another person can inform the child immediately. Have children who oppose their parents' remarriage ever thought about this?

Older people sometimes encounter some troubles when they remarry. But if both children are reasonable, many things will be discussed before marriage, and there will be no too much trouble after marriage. It is their right for the elderly to pursue happiness in their later years, and their children should respect it.