Put forward options for the woman to choose from. If the woman doesn't care, you can decide again and tell the result. It's best to explain the reasons for your choice (choose cooking: this restaurant has a good taste and appearance, and has been to Tik Tok, which is not far from you. I think you should like it as a southern girl. If you can't decide, let's eat there.

2. gifts

If you really don't know what to send, send flowers (provided that girls are not allergic to pollen). The price should be controlled within 100. If it is not too expensive, it will cause pressure to others. It better be distinctive. If you have WeChat, look at her circle of friends and see what she likes.